what do you think? Senxa taas kaau...:'(

[anniemarie]

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kasabot ko nimu bro, di lalim.
ilet go nalang na siya kay if kamu gyud, muabot ra ang time nga magkabalik mo..

[calar]

wow, more or less same2 ta ug situation. 32months of being together then suddenly someone would pop out and ruin what u have. tsk.
but like what my sister told me "maibog manjud na ang tao bisag minyo, normal ra na. but u have the choice to either magpada or istop. u always have a choice" guess its u'r ex's fault as well.
hmm i was like u pud, i did everything to save the relationship *even if i'm the girl". i begged him to stay, but he didnt. i asked him if he has other girl but he denied. i really blamed myself for the break up. but later on i found out that he really has this OTHER GIRL. instead of feeling pity to myself i was thankful i found it out, cause atlast i have enough reason to let him go.
the nice thing was I know in myself that I did everything to save us so i don't feel any regrets of us not working out.
Same with u TS, u have given enough to save the relationship so stop doing anything else for the same reason. All you have to do is wait for her decision. But you also have to think of yourself. Obviously, u have that HOPE of you getting back together, u dont have to let go of that. However, you should start moving on. If she comes back then it'll be nice, but if not atleast ur already starting to fix urself. atleast it wont hurt that much.
believe me, iv been to your situation, that time if i had a choice between dying and living i'll really choose the first, but i realized that there's more to life than having boyfriends/girlfriends.

hmmm, u also have to pray TS, it'll surely help. Talk to God. He will surely help you ease the pain.
Embrace the pain and learn from it. be brave

[2kELEVEN]

Awh.. Kasabot bitaw kong sayop na bitaw ni akoang gi buhat.. lain lng kaau i concentrate kae bisag ga work nako, bisag nagpakabusy gamayng ipsot lang makahinumdom napod ko, katong saona kauban mi buhat ani, kuyog nako xa ani, himoan ko niya ani.. atae bya ani oe.. kadugay pd..

Beh dali be, kay tabangan tika para ma let go na nimo sya...lols

OnT: Help your self then pray lang bro...

[calar]

there are also lots of people who are worse off than you. think positive

[jom22488]

Naa pa ka'y pina 1 month ha

Dli oe.. Kanang 1 month mao na 1st "unta" nako nga uyab.. Turned out the idiot used me as "panakip butas".. gaba na buntis ka lagi.. kana akoang uyab rn second mana nako.. lingaw bya kaau ang story nganu nagkauyab mi ana niya.. a year after anang 1st nako nga uyab, I was courting another girl napod (apil sa miss cebu )..

Ang nahitabo sort of umm na basted ko, errr iya excuse ato before kay friends lang sa daw mi kay dli padaw xa ready anang uyab2, kana napong word nga time.. haha lagot na unta ko ana tanang babay ana nga point, gamiton pa ma basted pajud.. kapaet

Then came my current gf.. No i was not interested in her.. never ko nakabantay ana niya before kae wa lang.. i was in the same level with her, my bandmates/buddies were the ones interested in her.. so gi challenge ko nila to ask for her number.. number lang..

What happened was friendster paman to before diba.. add2 ko niya.. ni reply og message! mao to nag message2 daun mi.. nagkadugay ni baga naman akoang nawng nangayu kog number.. sun ra akoa gipangayu sun og globe ang gi hatag..lol.. and i ummm tricked my buddies to think iya tong number akoa gi hatag but i gave him another girls number and kept her number for myself (ang2 di man ko mo salig sa akoa migo before kaila biya ko niya chxboi au).. haha

Did2 ko ni pour niya tanan.. about atong akoang 1st gf.. bogo pajd kaaug ni katag nga story samu skwelahan ato kae gisugot daw ko atong isa which is totally the opposite of what happened.. We txted a lot.. Mao to nagka close mi.. Naa papod gne toi nanguyab niya ato, basted lang sd haha.. Sept 4, 2008 was the day i first talked to her..

Ang pagpanguyab nako niya is another funny story..

[Dondon]

I will give it a month nga Ill disappear, no contact.. If I can endure that, then maybe I can go on with my life as well if ever she decides to go on without me..

Kani akong pasabot sa 1 month bro. :P

[tenda]

she needs SPACE?

hmmmm let her work at NASA.

kidding aside, taasa sa imong love story TS oi.

sakit ako mata ug binasa gi hangat ko kai wala ra ba gyud paragraph.

if i am in your shoes i will not waste my time with her. move on, treat yourself. you deserve to be happy.

[jom22488]

Kani akong pasabot sa 1 month bro. :P

Nag start nako sa 1 month oe.. Im 3 days in.. Grrrr I'm falling apart na.. Everything I do maski work, lunch everything man gd kay mo remind nako niya.. We used to do this before.. do that before.. Hai.. I can do this..

[calar]

This might sound stupid but maka relate kaau ko ron sa The Script labi nang If You Ever Come Back, Breakeven og Nothing.. This sucks..

I'm scared to picture her out with another guy even though it has already happened.. I now realize nga naa man pd xay point though, maybe nagkulang jd ko sa effort or sa pagsabot ato, too deep in my own problems that I failed to act like a good boyfriend, wala man gane ko ka bantay nga hurt na kaayu xa, I guess she didn't need to tell me unta ana nga butang for me to realize.. Feel sd kaau na ko nga okay pa kaayu mi ato.. Tsk3

I'm still not planning on giving up on her yet though..

I will give it a month nga Ill disappear, no contact.. If I can endure that, then maybe I can go on with my life as well if ever she decides to go on without me..

Ummmm.. Naa lang ko concern.. Akoa ba kae.. Both our phone plans are registered under my name, a few months old pa.. Pwede bana nako i transfer sa iyang name??

ses. try not to listen to music that will only hurt u. it'll only make u feel miserable. maybe u can listen to worship songs or pang move on na songs.

try also to picture out everything worse that could possibly happen. believe me, been there. it hurts i know but if itll happen for real kay atleast naready na nimu imung self, it wont hurt too much already.

[Dondon]

Yep mao na ako pasabot bro, wa siguro ka makabasa sa akong first post. Pero OK ra na bro, mulabay ra na, believe me, KAYA ra kaayo ang 1 month nga wala siya, but atakehon gyud ka'g kamingaw and kaguol in between. Tuga2x ko ug panambag ba, pero utro diay to