Death in the Family

[carbrill]

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sakit jud na kaau nga mamatyan kag lolo or lola, murag lahi ra jud ang ilang treatment sa ilang mga apo... i really miss my lolas and lolos...

[dannalynne]

My Lola died last March 11, 2010. It's been 2 months and up till now I still can't accept that she's gone. I was the one who brought her to the hospital on March 8,2010 and I never left her side till her last breath. Nakauli lang ko sa amoang balai pag human nag plastar sa haya sa akong lola pagka gabie sa Rolling Hills adtong day na namatay sya...='(

Pero grabe jud to ka painful para namu tanan ang month of March. 3 members of the family died..='(

My cosuin died March 4,2010, den wa pa mahuman ang 9 days na novena sa ako cousin c Lola ang nisunod, she died on March 11,2010...nalubong si Lola on March 21,2010, pag ka tuesday ana March 23, 2010 si Lolo napod ang nisunod...=(

I miss them all...='(

[jeff_bonz59]

My mom died last month - April 04-2010.

I have been close to my mom eversince I lost my dad (he died early) during my early teenage years.

She has always been my close confidante in all my problems... My shock absorber when I feel pain and frustrated in life...

My mom would always be there whenever I come home tired from work and ask..'Naka-kaon naka dong'? I would often smile to her and she smiles right back at me to tell me life can't be that bad...

She would set an example that 'Mas maau pa ka dong kay sa kanang naa sa aseras nga nagpakalimos...' this she would often tell me whenever I confide to her all my debts and financial needs..

My mom was not a teacher in life, for she teaches me to learn the lesson in life as I know it. She would just be there when I feel I cannot handle it anymore.

My mom was not a friend, because all throughout, she was more than a friend... she was there behind me, like a shadow in my back... Never ever visible but you always feel her love when you need it.

My mom was a great talker.. She would joke around to tell how she was with dad and how my dad would pain to ask her hands for marriage and she would just run away after.

My mom was not there to wash my clothes, because she always make sure that our Laundry lady would not spoil my clothes off.

Lastly My Mom was not a fighter.. For she was always a fighter deep down... fighting for me and our family's sake... whoever, whenever and whatever we are intangled with...

I wouldn't be where I am right now, If mama wasnt there to always guide me...


I MISS YOU SO MUCH MOM!!!....

**cry ;(

[lovelygirl]

I feel I lost everything..and I feel alone..especially I am an only child..I lost my mom after I graduated high school..my dad died last year..but Life must go on..so I choose to move on.. and do my best to finish my studies..because I am still in 3rd year last year..

[beyee]

I was quite passive when someone in the family would move on to the next horizon til my bro died. I was a total mess when he passed away 10 years ago only at 23 yrs old.

When we were growing up, we used to be very close -- buddies in disney cartoons, foodtrip and even in basketball. He was the one who influenced me to love the sport and we would watch NBA or ESPN all day. But when he grew older, he changed drastically and we are at odds all the time. I criticize his choice of gf's but twas more like telling him subtly "I miss our bonding moments, Nin." Then we grew apart each day.

A week before he died, he did something bad and created a turmoil in the family and out of rage, I uttered, "Kanus-a man tawn ka mamatay ui! Sugod karon, ala nako'y brother." and true enough with the adage, "be careful what you wish for.."

I got my wish a week after. He had a heart attack past midnight and we couldn't save him til my last CPR on him.

Twas hard for all of us but even more on my part coz I was guilty and I never had the chance to apologize and accepted his apology as well (which he asked a million times before he died). To compensate for my loss of my only brother, I always treat guys as I would treat him. I have become more patient with the "bugoy" ones coz it's more like paying my dues.

A lesson learned, be careful in what you say or do coz u can never take back all the things that you'll put through with that person.

[lovelygirl]

I'm sorry for your loss...

[beyee]

OT: thanks lovely..

[bbnescia]

kahilak man sad ta ani oi..d nalang ko mo share.

[splendid moonlight]

I lost my grandmother almost 10 years ago but I still cry when I remember her especially when I'm sad. I know if she was there every ache would disappear; it always did when she was still alive. She was my truest best friend. I wish she was still here so I could show her how much she matters to me - something I failed to do when I started "growing up" and friends and boys matter more than your best friend. I'm sorry and I miss you so much.

[MINE]

Lost my dad July 18,2008. Magadamgo ghapon ko niya upto now, and i still cry. Daddy's girl man ko., I was there when my mom and the doctors decided to take his life support...