Friends With Benefits

[princemike]

just wanted to share..

nka xperience ko ani.. my x and I ended with this situation. And my partner today and I started with this kind of relationship.

Kato sa x nako.. 3 years mi ato.. then nag confess siya nako na naa siya lain na nauyab. 1 month na daw sila. Then I went very histerical. Nagluhod2 pa ko sa iya para lang biyaan niya ang girl but he said na love na niya ang girl. So, ako ang na tsugi sa competition. (katawa na ko maghuna2 sa akong pagka hysterical sa una). But even though wla na mi sa ako x, sige japon mi kita. sige ko adto sa ila.. Then siya, murag dili pa pud cya ka let go nako.. 1 Valentines, nag wait pa ko sa ila kay nag date pa sila sa iyang new gf ato na time. We do normal stuffs we do when we were "WE". My feelings were still there.. It never went away. His feelings? Well, I don't know.. But he made me feel I am still his and he is still mine. Mura lang ug wala'y nausab. Only that, dili na kami.. and I accepted the fact na naa pud siya'y lain. "Friends with Benefits" jud mi... He benefited from me.. I am not sure kung unsa na klaseng benefit iyang na gain.. Pero ako, I benefited from him the love we used to share before. Mura gani'g same love.. but dili na man diay..He even told me na wla japon siya ka move on nako.. And buwagan na niya ang girl para magbalik mi duha. Until 1 day, pag graduation niya, niadto ko sa ila to surprise him. His girlfriend knows me coz naa pa among picture sa ilang sala. Gibutang sa iyang mama. We met each other there. Then nakita nako na dako na man diay ug tiyan ang girl. Namugnaw ko uie.. sakit kaayo akong na feel miski almost a year na mi buwag. Dapat unta na dili lang ko masakitan kay dili na raba kami.. pero grabe kasakit jud ako na feel.. Coz he made me believe man gud na murag kami japon. Pero basin ako ra ang nag assume ana.. So, that's the time I stopped. Wala na ko pakita and everything. It took me years to move on. Staying single..

And as years pass by, I met a lot of guys pero wala jud ko.. Until I met this man na partner na nako now..

Tungod sa kahadlok nako na masakitan ug usab.. I know na ganahan siya nako. And ako pud, mejo nagka like na pd ko niya but wala ko padala.. Until nga magsige lang mi kuyog.. sige lang mi laag.. then txt2.. kilig was there..We went on with the situation for months pero wla jud nahitabo namo. Until nagka-uyab ko. 2 months ra mi pero 1 ra jud mi nagkita sa ako uyab ato. Akong sige ka kita kay kani akong partner today. To the point na naa na nahitabo namo.. So we went on with that miski naa ko lain uyab. Until na feel na nako na I'm falling for him. And siya, I know, dugay na.. Mao to, akong gibuwagan akong bf ato na time and we made our "No strings attached" real... And we've been together na for 3 years na.. And we have a baby na pud... So happy na kaayo even though I think that we started out wrong. Bahala na.. at least, it was a happy ending for me coz we are soon to be married..

wow! very nice LOVE story..

[bellah]

Ka try ko ani....wa man ayo dimals au....

[iMallalone29]

wow! very nice LOVE story..

thanks.. mao na na-realize nako na naa'y bati ug nindot dangatan ang FWB.. depende lang na sa pagdala..

[princemike]

thanks.. mao na na-realize nako na naa'y bati ug nindot dangatan ang FWB.. depende lang na sa pagdala..

correct... depende sa pagdala... dapat kamo gyud duha same ug wave length... if one falls and the other dont patay... if both falls then we can hear church bells like @iMallalone29... so, lisud ni cya.. better if mosud dont expect anything or better d nlng but sometimes it just happens even though we didnt plan it... some people strongly says NO but when the time comes they give in to the feeling... so mahirap magsalita ng tapos guys... hehehe!

[yvonne6]

its unlikely for a relationship that started wrong to end up right. although naay gi ingon twist of fate but most often than not, we give each other the impression nga we are into this and ari ang doubts mag sugod. mo ingon ang usa, kung nisugot ka mag fwb ta, sure mosugot sad ka sa lain. kapoy ang complications ug ang pagka paranoid but iya2 man sad ta. paet man gud ni kay dili manka maka demand nga exclusive lang mo kay dili baya mo uyab. gawas pa how sure are you nga responsible imong fwb? i mean, sa safety measures nga dili maka contract ug disease from other people? basig matakdan paka. ang mindset raba sa uban, matambalan rana. what if hiv? ill have a relationship forever with myself na lang if thats the case. im not into this jud. sorry, bahalag mo ingon ang uban diha nga old fashion ko (which i knw i am not) pero i will only sleep adtong klaro nga kami para magkinaunsa man gani, maka paningil kas taw

[Mugi17]

Wanted Friend
girls lang..

[yaniks]

yeah... rock en roll!

[siopao1984]

FWB sa una hantod nagka uyab mi. di nako mag usab ky sakit lang sa uwahi. we are still good friends though after break up.

[Synthetic]

so, who wants to burn some calories with me?

[manoy15]

ang ma inlove looser....simple ra jud ni...morag hit&run nga setup ba. pag mangitag laing flavor go...pero wa jud ka right maka demand neither the other party involved, in the first place di man jud kamo.