Long Distance Relationships

[kenart]

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pareha lang tanan nga relationship, ma- LDR or dili
trust & fidelity lang jud gkinahanglan

[M@rv|n]

dli man kaau long akoa 1.5 hrs lang man difference wahehe

[mosimos]

me and my beau have been separated by almost 3 months to date. thanx to globe because of our high time communicating with each other. it's really paramount to know that we're still holding on despite our belief before that we're not going to make it. it's so sad lang sometimes because I can hardly text him during office hours. during lunchtime and bedtime nalang jud tawon.Â*

but yes, I never have doubts in him until now, buyag lang.Â* :mrgreen:

3 months pa lang. . . Its not a measurement nga it will succeed. But Iam hopin nga it will work out. Kay lo-oy sad ako miga nga masakitan. Bahalag ako ang masakitan basta dili lang si Mitch (char!)

Good luck and pray.

But as I have said ok lang LDR on a short term basis. A maximum of three years. Beyond that, anything can happen.

[burning_ice]

i agree with you kenart...
it's all about trust...
ako i don't care if he's cheating on me, as long as i am not doing anything to ruin our relationship...
whatever happens, makatulog ko ug tarong...

[wyt`fReEs!a]

double check burning

[Rakuen]

me and my beau have been separated by almost 3 months to date. thanx to globe because of our high time communicating with each other. it's really paramount to know that we're still holding on despite our belief before that we're not going to make it. it's so sad lang sometimes because I can hardly text him during office hours. during lunchtime and bedtime nalang jud tawon.Â*

but yes, I never have doubts in him until now, buyag lang.Â* :mrgreen:

3 months pa lang. . . Its not a measurement nga it will succeed.Â* But Iam hopin nga it will work out. Kay lo-oy sad ako miga nga masakitan.Â* Bahalag ako ang masakitan basta dili lang si Mitch (char!)

Good luck and pray.Â*

But as I have said ok lang LDR on a short term basis.Â* A maximum of three years.Â* Beyond that, anything can happen.Â*

we've been having a long distance relationship for quite sometime now... 7 long years so to speak
we meet at least twice a year and communicate mainly by phone
most of time we have petty fights over stuffs and have acquired attitudes from our present environment
causing certain angst such as "You've changed... you're not the same person I fell in love with... and so on and so fort"
i'm amazed we've made it this far inspite of...

[mosimos]

Well, anyone here who has an LDR will always defend the relatioship. I just hope that most of these people are really honest about what happened in their relationship.

I just hope they dont sugar coat it otherwise they will misled some of our folks here or they just cheating themeselves.

Be realistic. LDR is not easy. Its difficult to have an absentee boyfriend or girlfriend. People needs touch and physical contact you know. And I dont mean ***. Just being physically with one another. LDR in the long run is not healthy.

[pnk_shadows]

long distance relationships won't work for me. this discovery is based on experience. before, i used to deny the fact that things could go wrong while the other person is away. it's not a matter of trust, it's more on the feeling of being alienated to each other's life experiences. when you go to another place, you experience different things, your partner has his/her set of experiences too. the time that you spent away should have been time for you to share those experiences together and grow with each other in the process. by being in a distant place, esp. during a crucial time, you pass on that chance to have important experiences with each other like in times of bereavement, in times of victory...stuff like that. as a result, the person whom you think you've known forever somewhat becomes a child that you need to tell tales to, not the partner that you used to have.

it is undeniable though that certain couples do succeed in this ordeal. maybe they just complement each other in countless ways or really hold on to it because the relationship is something worth keeping til the end. in my case, i wouldnt risk it. i wouldnt want to keep both parties hoping that nothing will change during the course of time because nobody can predict how changes occur...and why. anyway, if both of you are still into each other after that time of being apart, that is quite something already; you should see if it is for keeps. til then, i would rather set him free.

[Rakuen]

Well, anyone here who has an LDR will always defend the relatioship.Â* I just hope that most of these people are really honest about what happened in their relationship.Â*

I just hope they dont sugar coat it otherwise they will misled some of our folks here or they just cheating themeselves.Â*

Be realistic. LDR is not easy.Â* Its difficult to have an absentee boyfriend or girlfriend. People needs touch and physical contact you know.Â* And I dont mean ***.Â* Just being physically with one another. LDR in the long run is not healthy.Â*

hmmm....

[jugs_06]

ldr sucks..