ex boyfriend who is still my friend

[writers_gon_write]

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ill quote you nalang kay lisud i-tag imong name.

I can't say I am bored since, trust me, I got loads of things to do and enjoy...

I'm probably just pessimistic about it or what...

pangita lain TS oi...bahala og mediocre sa imong standards piyongi lang sa gud try..try lng bah..morag bored man ka TS

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@Verbal I can't relate to the inception reference coz I didn't watch that movie. )

what expectations are you referring to, if I may ask?

[jyanmperez]

I've been here and still in that situation... We are Great Friends with Great Benefits ....

[writers_gon_write]

oh well not for me. we're good friends, that's all.

I've been here and still in that situation... We are Great Friends with Great Benefits ....

[santario101]

I rest my case ts, para nako you're still into him.. you're just afraid to admit it. Don't over analyze, "the heart wants, what the heart wants".

same thing i want to say to @santario101 nga di man sad ko ganahan magmukhang nag samok2 sa ilaha. i let him be. actually, i even told him katong ni-share siya nako about ana iyang gf (katong dili pa sila) i told him and in all honestly i meant it na i hope he won't screw it up this time. lami gani pakapinan og lista sa "things you did wrong in our relationship before". LOL pero i just want him to be happy sad. pero sometimes, mangluod ko kay naay mga stuff nga we share together. like... the upcoming Baguio travel. giplano namo na gud before he had a girlfriend. so karon na papalapit na ang travel date, mura nag gikalimtan niya among giplano nga laag. pero of course, malain ko kung di ko madayon abi'g di siya mukuyog! ) aw ngita nalang dali2 nga mabira para mukuyog nakog laag.

pero sa tinuoray, although di ko ganahan "magsalita ng tapos", if ever we'll be given a second chance - my answer is a straight NO raba. walay. "No... pero... yes..." kind of doubt. straight and outright no. tama na tong first time oi. enough to enjoy the good times... and enough to feel the pain of the bad times... another round of both is just too much.[/QUOTE]

[ngitscarlo09]

i sense occasional s3x in here...........

[writers_gon_write]

sorry but i'm not that kind of person. barking at the wrong girl, mister.

i sense occasional s3x in here...........

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haha! sige imo pud na @santario101... but my heart wants somebody BETTER than him pud oi. as in waaaaaaay better. not as lame. that kind. hihi. that sounds rude. my bad.

[Verbal]

haha! sige imo pud na @santario101... but my heart wants somebody BETTER than him pud oi. as in waaaaaaay better. not as lame. that kind. hihi. that sounds rude. my bad.

mao ni ako pasabot sa expectation. hehe. it'll be waaaay better if you take him out of the picture. forget about someone being better than your ex. equal man kaha tanan.

[santario101]

di nko mo lalis nimo TS. para nako you either get back or stay away. mura man gud na ug playing with fire kung kuyog kas ex nya naa naman diay uyab. unsaon nalang kung magka heart to heart nasad mo unya ang usa iya pilion ? or worse he'll take advantage of you, and in the end balik sa iya uyab. mahimo nata'g man hater dayon ana ts? unsaon nalang.....

[writers_gon_write]

hinuon sad. but maybe that's why it seems all cool since he is friends with most (if not all) his exes. he told me once, he is really like that kay bati if bitter or angry or distant. and if "taking advantage"? so far, all those years, he haven't and haven't YET and i don't think he'll dare to because he knows the monster in me very well and he might not want to deal with my inner devil. HAHA anyway... @santario101 dugay na ko man hater. high school pa. well not really man hater... maybe because most guys na akong mahalubilo at school before and at work (before and now) kay annoying, shallow, and ambot way klaro kastorya... sometimes ra ko ka-encounter og laki gud nga tarong kastorya - with sense and really intellectual.

@Verbal aaah... you mean standards... i do have standards. and maybe it's a pretty steep climb. but if i look at those standards, makapangutana jud ko nganong nagkakami sa akong ex. also, did i say "equal tanan"? oh my... i think i didn't. but if i did, i take it back. LOL but then again why would i go for someone who is worse than him? it's like i never learn from mistakes or something... we do have standards... we set them. we can't really settle for less, can we? i don't know lang pud. someone asked me about my standards in another thread and they just laughed how it's a bit too much. too much na diay nang you're looking for a guy who loves to read and who can write well? and loves to travel? i always believe i'm not being too realistic but i'm not losing hope either.

[LiveAndLaugh]

writers_gon_write... sa akong mubo nga pagsabot sa imu situation mura man ug naa pa may spark nahabilin sa imoha towards the guy... kung sa sunug pa na .. naa pay mga ginagmayng mga baga nga nagsiga.... ^_^....

And one thing also maybe you need closure... kay d ba way klaro inyong breakup?

kana lang akoa..

OT this is my first post sa istorya,, so welcome me.. ^_^