3-month rule after the break-up, is it true?

[rebelde]

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ahahaha advertise jd? grabeh rasd.... d kaha na insulto sa imong part bro?? hmmmppp

iya man nang kagustohan. dako na to xa. mayta'g matagam.

[tonvlad88]

Your "running-after-her" made her do it. It's very obvious that she doesn't wanna see you anymore. Everyone has loved and lost, this it the phase wherein we have to confirm with ourselves that we can't force love.

It has to come to an end. It's very clear that you do love the girl, now try to think about it, does she still love you?



At least brad you fought for her, you know you did. Someday, when you'll see her you might just laugh about how martyr you were and it was better best forgotten. And she can't slap back anything to you, because you gave your all but it's just that she didn't deserve it after all.

i hope i can overcome this pain within me.. just a little bit of me left.. i hope i can stand pa for all of the heartache i xperienced... super duper sakit and i hate dis kind of feelings becoz i gave everything that i cod give to her but still it is still not enaf... i even asked her to marry me,, she only said to me soon,, and promised me never leave me,, i really really hold on to that promise but now i can no longer sleep coz everytime i saw something memorable,, i always think about her,, how i wish i cod kil dis feelings and forgot everything,, but i knw its not dat easy... sakit na kayo,, i was changed by her,, now i have to change becoz of her,, now im so numb and really confused.. please GOD help me

anyway,, tanx bro...

[Baeybe_Bryce]

how can i move on if im so into her... na focus naman gd nako ang akong self nya... ders no nyt nga dili jd ko maka mata and den suddenly cry for no reason,, maybe becoz na feel nako ang iyang transformation from being a sweet into a sour person,.,. grabeh xag changes... in a way nga even my calls iya nlagn e cancel and ako mga texts iya nlang jd e ignore,, how many times ko ni adto sa ilang hauz but still ma ugmaan nlng kog hinuwat nya sa gawas d japon ko nya gawson becoz toa diay xa sa beach party with her friends and relatives.. feels like shes dumping me every now and then but still i fight for her even sakit na kayo,,, but how come she always chose to hurt me and never consider my feelings.. so much pain within me...sometimes i want to commit suicide in order for her to visit me,, but ako lang jd pongan coz i know ako rasay alaot.. ngano naa man jd mga people that can't consider some1s feeling if dey are confuse.. huhuhuh

Suicide is never a solution. She wasted you and now you're wasting your life. Isn't that kind of unfair? Ruining a life that you've live on for a person who doesn't even deserve it?

Oh my, reserve yourself and stop thinking about ending your life. If she can't love you back, how about you love yourself. Let the pain take place for now but don't forget that the world didn't stop revolving when she left. Life's too short to waste. You will certainly love someone in the future, be a brave man. That future girl will be worth the wait.

[Baeybe_Bryce]

i hope i can overcome this pain within me.. just a little bit of me left.. i hope i can stand pa for all of the heartache i xperienced... super duper sakit and i hate dis kind of feelings becoz i gave everything that i cod give to her but still it is still not enaf... i even asked her to marry me,, she only said to me soon,, and promised me never leave me,, i really really hold on to that promise but now i can no longer sleep coz everytime i saw something memorable,, i always think about her,, how i wish i cod kil dis feelings and forgot everything,, but i knw its not dat easy... sakit na kayo,, i was changed by her,, now i have to change becoz of her,, now im so numb and really confused.. please GOD help me

anyway,, tanx bro...

Everyone had break ups before, one way or another. That's just now because you're still hurting. It's difficult but not impossible. Maybe you just need to take it a little lighter. Re-arrange your room. Start from there, make it neat and different. Don't sleep in a place where you'll be reminded of her. A little change but it sure does help. Go out of town, meet new faces or travel, hang out with friends or anything that will make you forget about her even just for a while. You'll get used to not having her around. A little patience and initiative, that's what you need.

[tonvlad88]

Suicide is never a solution. She wasted you and now you're wasting your life. Isn't that kind of unfair? Ruining a life that you've live on for a person who doesn't even deserve it?

Oh my, reserve yourself and stop thinking about ending your life. If she can't love you back, how about you love yourself. Let the pain take place for now but don't forget that the world didn't stop revolving when she left. Life's too short to waste. You will certainly love someone in the future, be a brave man. That future girl will be worth the wait.

yeap, maybe your ryt,, and maybe all of the advices are,,, but sad to say,, da pain is stil der,, fresh pa kayo ang sakit,, its like a knife dat cut my arms 2 secs ago... the pain stil coming back.. even how many times i tried to divert my attention (programming, reading funny webpages, etc.) but still at the end of my work,, maka tink japon ko nya,,lisod kayo e tink og moving on if your one foot is stepping backward... even how many times nako xa g reject sa akong mind,,, d jd nako makaya forgeting about her coz shes already inside me,,, i dunno if i cod set her free.. maybe time will come but still i always asked myself.. do i deserve to be like this?? after all that i have done for her,, for facing her parents bravely and told them that i loved der daughter,, i even cried in front of them just to allow me as a bf of their child,,., but dey just said to me,, dat nanay naka reserved para kaniya,, i was so broken at that time,, feel nako obos na kayo ko,, i feel pity sa akong self and asked god y mna gpanganak kong pobre,, i have to work hard in order to eat,, but y man ang uban dha just sitting and watching movie in their room ma buhi raman,,, lisod kayo akong na agian but i prove to her dat i really love her.. bahalag ika duha nlng ko sa iyang life,, but now,, i have to asked my self again and again,, do i really have to experienced this?

[tonvlad88]

Everyone had break ups before, one way or another. That's just now because you're still hurting. It's difficult but not impossible. Maybe you just need to take it a little lighter. Re-arrange your room. Start from there, make it neat and different. Don't sleep in a place where you'll be reminded of her. A little change but it sure does help. Go out of town, meet new faces or travel, hang out with friends or anything that will make you forget about her even just for a while. You'll get used to not having her around. A little patience and initiative, that's what you need.

yes i did that already,,, going around even in Dark Planet,, met some friends,, got drunk,, wasted... for only one reason,, becoz of HER... mao man gd japon,,, its all about HER man gd,, lisod kayo e move on and have another life if im dis d*mn word "HER" is always in me... grabeh man gd ang impact,, kung makamatay palang ang gugma,, kapila na guro ko namaty og nabuhi og balik tongod nya,, pero ngano man jd,,, lisod ba diay mo love og some1 eternally?? or bisag ing ani nlang,, pde ba nlang if mo biya mo og some1 (bf, gf, partner), pde naman cguro i pranka nlang daun para ka usa ra ang sakit,, not in a way nga mangau pa og space and time,, but in the end mo biya ra diay... shes so unreasonable

[Baeybe_Bryce]

yeap, maybe your ryt,, and maybe all of the advices are,,, but sad to say,, da pain is stil der,, fresh pa kayo ang sakit,, its like a knife dat cut my arms 2 secs ago... the pain stil coming back.. even how many times i tried to divert my attention (programming, reading funny webpages, etc.) but still at the end of my work,, maka tink japon ko nya,,lisod kayo e tink og moving on if your one foot is stepping backward... even how many times nako xa g reject sa akong mind,,, d jd nako makaya forgeting about her coz shes already inside me,,, i dunno if i cod set her free.. maybe time will come but still i always asked myself.. do i deserve to be like this?? after all that i have done for her,, for facing her parents bravely and told them that i loved der daughter,, i even cried in front of them just to allow me as a bf of their child,,., but dey just said to me,, dat nanay naka reserved para kaniya,, i was so broken at that time,, feel nako obos na kayo ko,, i feel pity sa akong self and asked god y mna gpanganak kong pobre,, i have to work hard in order to eat,, but y man ang uban dha just sitting and watching movie in their room ma buhi raman,,, lisod kayo akong na agian but i prove to her dat i really love her.. bahalag ika duha nlng ko sa iyang life,, but now,, i have to asked my self again and again,, do i really have to experienced this?

Life's unfair, you think so?

Everything happens for a reason. Have you tried to read some topics within this forum? A woman who loved a guy but the guy cheated on her, a man who loved a girl but later on he found out that the girl was married, a mother who strives hard to feed her children because the father won't finance them, a man who was left by the wife to work abroad then the wife got pregnant c/o another man. Life sucks but everyone does have baggage to carry on.

Cry if you want, it's a process you have to undergo. Cry then cry again then tomorrow cry again. Cry until nothing's coming out anymore. Cry until you feel better.

If you want to end the pain? It's only a matter of ACCEPTANCE. THAT SHE DOESN'T' CARE ABOUT YOU ANYMORE AND IT'S NOT THE END OF THE WORLD YET and IT WON'T END JUST BECAUSE THE GIRL YOU LOVE MOST LEFT YOU. It will only end once you give up and put an end on it.


It's not a one time hit, but you have to work on it day by day.


I know, yes I know it's easier said than done but I think it wold be better for you to realize it now than later. How long do you wanna suffer? How many pages would it take to make you realize that she's not coming back to you anymore?

If she will then we will be happy for you, but as far as this hour is concerned she's not.

Some of the posters here gave you their points of view, mostly helpful. All are strangers who shouldn't care but then, they mind you. See?

Sometimes when a person leaves it will take 40 people to shout and slap you just to wake you up and make you realize you're getting off track. Hey, she's not the only girl in this world. Find a better one.

[rebelde]

iinom tana brader. 8yrs man gani tong amoa.

[j3thro]

i feel your pain, i've dealt with the same pain sad, pero ending you're life would not solve it

[LeeLeePot]

on a serious note, ts gipatilaw kag ana nga pain para sa sunod relationship nimo, kabalo naka muhandle...maybe something better would come. ever ending leads to a new beginning.