mas nindot buhaton bro na kailangan magka sinabot sila daan sa iyang wife onya if maka accept na ang wife niya sila ng duha mo solti sa parents na mag lain sila
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Thread: Living with your parents in law
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02-27-2009, 03:05 AM #71C.I.A.
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02-27-2009, 06:54 AM #72Junior Member
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okay ra ni if imu inlaws kay dili mata pobre, dili hinawayun or dili mo look down ug usa ka taw... pero if bati ug batasan, palayasa if imuha ang balay , kung iyaha ikaw layas..heheheh
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02-28-2009, 01:14 PM #73Senior Member
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Ang irony ani, kung unsa imong nabuhat nga maayo sa usa ka tawo...pagmagkagubot malimtan na dayon na imong mga good deeds. Mas bug-at pa ang mga dili maayo nga sitwasyon kaysa maayo, all forgotten na.
Iyang misis bag-o pa nagcommunicate sa akong kauban yet murag nalimtan naman sa misis ang mga tinuod nga sitwasyon. Gisultian siya nga OA ra kaayo siya, but-an daw ang parents....
Ang question ani karon is: Kang-kinsa but-an ang parents?? Ofcourse ang parents but-an gyud sa misis coz anak ma na nila pero sa akong kauban nga husband ra ug dili pa gyud blood related....that's a different story.
Remember, even if you try to see it from all angles, laing tawo gihapon siya para sa iyang inlaw ug dili gyud malikayan ang bias ana
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02-28-2009, 03:33 PM #74Senior Member
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maka relate ko kay i'm living with my husband's parents. lahi ra gyud baya ang treatment sa imo. sometimes kung mag away ikaw iblame. molaban gyud sa ilang anak. dali ra makakita sa imong sayop. dili kau ka ka opine. but it's not always bad living with them although there are times that i wished we had our own home. thankful gihapon ko kay they provide us with everything. antos lang usa samtang dili pa ka afford mag lahi. makiuyon nalang ko nila. shut up nalang para wala'y gubot.
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03-01-2009, 08:30 PM #75Senior Member
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That's what my friend keep telling me before...medyo lahi ang imo Sis kay you're husband is also influential sa balay kay lalaki man. But if you happen to be the husband and you're living with your wife's parents house, lahi na pud ang sitwasyon.
Originally Posted by Weena
Ana lang sah gyud Sis, antos lang sah samtang dili pa kaya maglain....but there are times nga mura ka ug ma-suffocate, feel nimo dili la makalihok ug basta-basta kay duna man parents inlaw nga mamantay sa imong mga lihok. I know medyo pait usahay but for the sake of our children, we must sacrifice in order to keep things in harmony.
True peace comes from humble suffering.
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03-02-2009, 06:50 PM #76Senior Member
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Ang misis nagcommunicate yesterday sa akong kauban and told him nga ang ilang paglain ug pamuyo, decision daw sa parents sa misis.
What is happening here!?
They as couples should decide for their own and not from the parents' decisions. I'm wondering nga mura man noon sila ug uyab ilang status...I don't want to point fingers but who do you think who's to blame here?
Ang misis who hesitates to live alone with his husband due to parents' influence OR ang parents sa misis dictating her for her decisions?
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03-03-2009, 02:37 AM #77C.I.A.
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Originally Posted by ritchepaul
there could be many reasons bro the parents had not yet cgoro maka trust or gusto sai mong migo bisan minyo na sa ilang anak pero pede sad na basin ang parents og katong iya asawa naka huna huna pa na di pa gyud sila fully ready sa ilang pag having a family or pede sad na ang asawa ato imo migo di p siya ready gyud na mag lain mao ng naka sinabot cogor siya sa iyang parents or pede sad na wala pa siyay na pag salig am i mean na bag-ohan pa or pede na ang pag respetar sa iyang parents bisan ganahan na siya mag-lain ky babae man sad gud siya pero mas maayo bro imongm igo mangutana sa iyang asawa una mo ask sa parents pero ig ask sa parents mas nindot na silang duha onya nag ka sinabot na sila
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03-04-2009, 11:19 AM #78Junior Member
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Originally Posted by ritchepaul
The misis..
She should be the one to make decisions for herself not her parents. Wala lng jud baroganan ang babaye. If she really loves her husband and wants to be with him then she must do something. pero unsaon...murag gasunod2x ra man sya sa gusto sa iya parents..
The couple should talk heart to heart. We don't know the whole story yet..ang side sa girl i mean..maybe there's something...
Aww..sila ra makasulbad ana..^_^
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03-06-2009, 11:53 AM #79Senior Member
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Originally Posted by only_on3
The misis..
She should be the one to make decisions for herself not her parents. Wala lng jud baroganan ang babaye. If she really loves her husband and wants to be with him then she must do something. pero unsaon...murag gasunod2x ra man sya sa gusto sa iya parents..
The couple should talk heart to heart. We don't know the whole story yet..ang side sa girl i mean..maybe there's something...
Aww..sila ra makasulbad ana..^_^
As a girl Sis, what do you think what's inside sa mind sa misis? Us men couldn't really discern what's on a girl's mind, especially in this kind of situation.
I already posted some details here in the previous page.
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03-06-2009, 01:24 PM #80Senior Member
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title palang, some thing w'ong na....
Living with parents in law or even with your parent, nya minyo na ka is a big NO-NO to me.
...for any reasonable reason you may have, daghan kaayo ka'g gi-sacrifice for that reason.
Paglain oi! bahala'g mo-rent ra usa mo.
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