HELP: I have a girlfriend but I am GAY...

[pazuzu690]

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you owe it to yourself to be honest.
you also owe it to the one you love to be honest.

you will never attain happiness by being some people's idea of what you should be. you can only be happy by being what you are.

if they can't love you for what you really are then you don't owe them a lifetime of hiding in the closet and being completely different than what you are. besides, if they (parents and others) claim to love and accept you by becoming their idea of how to live your life (which is completely not you) then they are loving the wrong person. and you are therefore not in the receiving end of their love but someone else who doesn't exists.

choose to love yourself above anything else. no else will do it for you.

be proud of what you are.

their acceptance and recognition are nice but not necessary.

live the life that you've always wanted to live.

no ifs, ands or buts.

[btrfly]

i know of a lot of people nga pareho mu ug situation. Akong tita kay isa ra anak.. ang only son nahino pa jud only daughter. at first in denial ang parents but karon ok naman nuon.. it takes time.. just show your parents that its not your fault nga ur gay. and there is always a good side to evrything. most gay ppl i know are rili creative, talented and responsible.

[cruel_guy101x]

if you are real and you are there, get yourself back to this forum. at least we are humans responding to the call of another. your not coming back lately after several opinon lead us to think you are fooling the people here using this media.

[cruel_guy101x]

hoi.. lalake ka d ka babaye.. unsa kaba. sister.

jerlyn, wa na jud tawon ni cya mobalik diri. wa ko magtoo nga nawala na cya. di na lang cya mo balik kay naka thank you na man na cya. pero maytag mobalik nuh nya istorya cya unsa na ang progress. asa atu iyang choice. pero sagdi na lang. may higayon ra nga maka hunahuna na cya.

sa imong pahimangno ug pangutana jerlyn, atong maingon nga di na cya sister. conscious man na cya....... disaster lang cguro. he he he joke only ha tingali naay masuko. paalintabo lang gud.

pero abi ninyo tuo ko chicksboy ning bataa. matud pa atong usa ka opinion did.... tira ug chicks tira ug boy. mao jud tingali ni cya. libog ba.
ang ako lang sa kadugayan basin mahubog ra jud ni cya.

usa ka butang nindot diri. makapahugaw jud ang tawo. ako ang akon gibuhat joke panagsa aron di kaau na serious. sama ani. luoy pod baya na cya.

sangay, balik lang way kaso. accepted man pod ka nila. lain lain lang cla ug gusto para nimo.

calling sangayan..... calling sangayan..........................

[kenart]

be honest to your parents about your situation, they may be disappointed but passing ra nah, in time madawat ra gihapon na nila, & dnt use other people, malooy pud intawn kah, for sure na nluv na na jud nimo imo gf :>

[cruel_guy101x]

unya unsa na man. morag giago op na man lang ni nga istorya. wa na mobalik.
pastilan giilad man lang ta ani. tingali nia ra ni dinhi sa mi post ug nagpamati lang.

[bangkay]

tabang mga peeps, usa ko ka bayot. but my parents wanted me to have a girlfriend para daw makat-on kong ma lalaki. and karon nana jud koy uyab, pero magpangita lagi ko ug laki oi.. my girlfriend doesn't even know nga bayot ko. what shall i do man? plsssss....

lisod ni dah! pagbayot na lang uy! mas maka palugar ka pa. nganong mag lalaki man jud ka nga di man kaya. taym sa unsa man na imo uyab bayot pod? wa man ka magklaro. pagkuyog na lang mong duha pro aymog ilog sa laki. pagtagas lang mo. ha ha ha bitaw morag mao ni akong tan aw sa imong situation. pila na ba imong edad. sus kon matigulang na ka unsaon na lang. desider na diha.

[krizz]

u have to be true to urself!!!!

[neishan731]

the only person u need to be is urself.......

[cruel_guy101x]

hayyyyy mitago ang guy!