[color=purple] oh, i'm pretty sure they know what they want, thats why they LIE just to get what they want... sometimes the third party would just agree because, he/she said their DONE already, which is NOT!! males have charm that sometimes girls can't resist... or vice versa... can they not explain to their gf/bf that there fed up already with their relationship?.. Why do they have to be with another one just to have a reason that their fed up already?.. And why do they have to lie?... so many questions... yet it only has a simple answer... confront & truth...