One of the key options gyud sa guy, is never get caught gyud bahalag magkinaunsa!
If you think he is cheating, you have to prove to him with the evidence.
Relating your feelings that he is cheating doesnt help. its way too naive.
If you are serious about your husband's infidelity? try hire a private investigator
para ma sure gyud nimo. Dont be too anxious ts,
Life starts at 40.hehe