Death in the Family

[enuj_dnomyar]

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Sa ako case, i lost my mother when i was 6 years old.. wala paman jud guro ko kasabot sa unsa outcome na wala mama since bata pako.. wala pa ng one year namatay ako mama naa na puli daun ako papa.. so naa jud ni-stand as mama sa akoa.. but even so, i long to feel the warm touch, love and caress of a true mother.. lahi rajud ang mama jud nimo.. lahi mo-love and lahi mo-deal sa imong mga shortcomings as a teenager, young woman, and as a person.. how i wish naa pa ako mama and ma-feel nko iya love..

[carbrill]

in less than 5 years, another family member namo passed away... naa pa jud sa lain lugar cya namatay... sigh....

[blank0000]

i lost my dad 4 years ago,skit kaau cz suddden pd iyng death...until krn skit jpon,mkhlak jpon ko kng mkrmmber ko ato nga day but ako bhton is forget that even happen cz if muhlk mn gd mglabd dyn akng ulo and ako ra ang mgprblma..that day somebody called sa blay, an officemate sa akng papa he told us that my da was rush in the hospital due to severe headache. i was really thinkng nga na admit ra xa were just gonna visit him sa iyng room.nklit rag kalabd dw iyng ulo sa work den pg.admit na sa hospital ky coma na dyn xa..when i reached the hospital i ask the personnels der and they told me nga gtrnsfer na sa ICU, pgkbw na nko nga ICU na xa nka.ana jd ko nga lahi njd ni...serious njd ni, when i arrive at the ICU my mom was crying already. i went inside his room and tears burst out my eyes. during that time i was in my 4th in college and by march i will graduate.. i know nga mlpy jd to pg.au akng dad if he saw me nga mugrad na, he would have been very proud of me. 5 days xa ngstay sa hospital den he died na dyn..that time dli ko gnhn maapktohn cz graduating ko so ako sna g.set aside akng kaguol pra mkgrad jd ko but until now msktn jpon ko kng mghuna2x sa nhtbo...mghlk jpon ko.

[didi_tsai]

i lost my grandpa last month.. it wasnt a sudden death, kay he was in the ICU for 2 months, he had some sort of complications and dako ako pagbasol karon.. more than 10 years na nga gasugod ug bungol aku mum ug ang family sa ako papa (my father died when i was still 1 yr old) since den wala nko ni visit nla especially sa grandparents.... last yr (december) when we were informed dat my grandpa is in chong hua and nana xa sa icu, amu xa gi visit... its a good thing ako ra usa sa room. and nihilak jud kog maau pagkakita sa ako lolo.... grabe na feel nako ang pain nga iya na agian ato na time... d kau xa kalihok... ako jud gikuptan ug maau iya kamot, and nikupot xag balik... nangau jud kog sori kay lau na kau ko nla... wala nko ngpakita nla... wala nko niduaw nya... if only naa tay power mka turn back sa time noh? dat was my first and last visit... and last month, he died. memorable kau paglubong sa ako lolo coz each of the member of the family kay nagkupot jud ug white na balloon and nag white jud mi tnan... den dungan daun namu palupad ang balloon nai nkasuwat "we will MISS you, daddy"


i miss him. i miss nanny too (my lola) and i miss my PAPA.


see you soon....

[inahan]

i remember when i lost my dad, i cried for days. bisan normal day nga i'm out grocery shopping for example, unya i see something that he used to eat or like, makaluha ko bisan in public. lisod i-hold back ang tears. even now, i still miss him but we all got through it kay my family always stood by each other and comforted each other

[borjyborj]

i lost my dad because of a vehicular accident in 1999. my only brother ran away from home after his wife (whom he left with us) gave birth two years later and never came back until this day (no contact at all). my mom started to suffer cancer and finally gave up the fight on 2006. it was very painful indeed, no words can define the feeling, the situation and hardships. but just remember, life goes on and never dwell in the past. always have faith in the Lord and do not blame anyone or anything for the situation or what has happended in your life. start the day with a smile and never forget to do things that makes you happy. i can say all this because that's what i did and it never became a hindrance for me to move on with life. i can't let go of these memories but surely i did move on. instead of thinking this will be another reason for me to go astray and give up, this is just another brick in the wall. another bump in life that would make me stronger. today, i am happy. standing tall and don't have any worries of what challenges in life would strike me. another important thing during this times are friends, real friends. and did i mention we were so poor? we lived in a makeshift hut after my dad's passing. but it never was a reason for me to give up. i hope anyone of you reading this would learn something. after all, life goes on even we don't.

[maddox_pitt]

i really felt the "loss" when my maternal grandmother died...
i was 15 then...

i was there by her side when she finally took her last breath..
it was emotional, but i didn't feel the heavy feeling until the next day when our driver fetched us from school and drove us to her place...i couldn't bare to get inside her house...or at least the front door.. i was trying to keep a strong facade and held my tears as much as i could...then i finally decided to enter the house..i passed by the kitchen and slowly got near the casket...pero as i got nearer and nearer my tears started to fall and i couldn't hold it back anymore... grabe ato..bast...murag tanan...didto nako narealize...pasaway q niya....usahay di nako xa tagdon... basta... hilak q ug maau ato..
it's been a long while since.... i can't say i've fully gotten over her death, kay na'y times mangita man gihapon q sako lola, pero ok na lang sad...it was time to let go of her...she lived a full life naman..

[miyay]

papa passed away 3 years ago. it was sudden. 5 days after his 55th birthday. he didn't get to wear the t-shirt i gave him. i still cry sometimes. especially when the song "dance with my father again" is playing. i used to love that song and now, i turn it off when it plays. i still feel melancholic when oct. 6 nears...

[paniki]

i lost my mom when i was six years old..
it was christmas day,she made it the most memorable christmas ever, with her fab cooking,gifts and all. The day after christmas,she told us to go visit our grandmother out of town. We found the idea great for a christmas vacation. We didn't know that she sent us away in purpose. My father found her stirring muriatic powder like she's jud stirring her everyday coffee. And before my father could stop her,she had gulped it all down - Dead on arrival.

my father died when i was in 3rd year high school...

a very unexpected death, since he was robust and all..we just learned he was from his room writing a love letter for someone he knew in his office [with my mom dead, i do think he deserve to fall in love again] , then he felt this pain in his stomach..he grew pale and was getting stiff.. we rushed him to the hospital,and there,he died in arms.. eyes turned back.. he was the closest thing for a best friend.. i still miss those times we sit on our balcony and talk about being a teen, falling in love, politics, and life.


i miss those persons in my life...

[wubby]

Condolonces to all who's still suffering pain of loosing someone in the family,you don't need to recover instead all you need is to open your mind that your special someone is now with God. They'll surely guiding u right now.