kinsa gikan broken family diha share your experiences

[yvonne6]

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i hope selfish parents would stumble on this thread. mind you, naay mga taw that would say, makasabot rana ang bata ug ngano (abandonment) without realizing nga mao ni pinakasakit nga puede ma experience sa bata. that other parents do not realize nga every child has a dream/fantasy nga tibuok dapat ilang pamilya, nga ang bata masuya sa ubang bata seeing both parents being there for them. for me lang gyud, ug naay personal issue or baggage ang usa ka taw nga wala pa niya ma address, dili gyud siya dapat magka anak until makasabot siya what it takes to be a parent. sa panahon karon gud, tungod sa ka open minded sa mga taw, mo engage dayun ug u know without thinking ug capable naba jud ka in all aspects to be a parent. mga bata ang kasagaran mag suffer sa immaturity sa ginikanan. naa pay uban nga dili lang mag care ug maguba ilang pamilya basta ang mag matter ang ilang kaugalingon kalipay/biga. my personal experience, the woman who is now with my ex is also a single mom who abandoned her child to be with the father of my kid. lami ra? and siya pa mismo mo sulti, makasabot rana ang bata later on. dimalason lang gyud kaau ka ug ingon ani ang thinking sa imong anak. sa akong part, akong gi pause akong kaugalingon kalipay and did not try to find someone else until makakita ko nga truly nakasabot na akong anak sa natabo kay samot ma confuse ang bata ug makakita nga lain nasad imong kauban sa imong life. my kids, they are my everything now. bonus na lang na ang partner ug naay moabot

[princemike]

im from a broken family pud mau gusto sad ko mka baw unsa inyo experiences sa nahitabo sa inyo family nya unsa pud inyo plano sa inyo life pud since nahitabo to.....love to hear it from you guys...

broken family ko... my dad was a Navy Officer which was assigned to different places so we only see him once a year... naanad na mi wa cya but grabeh ang feeling kanag mouli cya nya magcge ra away sa ako mom. until niabot ang time na wa na nicommunicate ako dad. which means also wa na cya nisupport namo... at that time I was grade 6... that was the time I took entrance exams for highschool on my own, kuyog sa mga friends lng (call lng ni mama para sa requirements, plete2 and payments) emotionally hard on me but wa nawala ako focus na moschool ug nindot... pasar ko for UP, Normal and Science High but after graduation didto na nieffect ang pagbiya sa ako dad, my mom decided na di nya kaya magrent dri sa cebu and to send us to school financially so we have to go to camotes since we have a house there... sayang akong mga scholarship... so niabot ang time na kaya na nya so balik mi cebu. ni graduate kog hs na wa kabaw asa ko magcollege but still was able to graduate with honors.
I started to work parttime sa mga fastfoods to finance my studies, juggling work, school and ROTC Officer. transfer and shift2 dayon kay mahal ra ang USC and nagpadala sa uso sa Nursing course until kita ug full job mao giundang ang studies... same thing happened to my sis... were blessed with skills and intelligence but was not put on the right place. sayang kumbaga... we did well to get through in some way but still if naa lng gyud tarung na parents to guide (not just financially) probably wa ko ni trasnfer ato and i would have graduated...

for me, wala naman tay mahimo if magbuwag ang parents (who knows its better that way) but ang importante unta sa mga couple magbuwag is "AWAY KALIMTI ANG MGA BATA, wa clay labot gud if wa namoy love for each other... GIHIMO ninyo so panindigi..."

me and my sis were probably strong emotionally but decision wise we needed them but they were not there...

[crocodile]

ataka......................

[high_heels]

i hope selfish parents would stumble on this thread. mind you, naay mga taw that would say, makasabot rana ang bata ug ngano (abandonment) without realizing nga mao ni pinakasakit nga puede ma experience sa bata. that other parents do not realize nga every child has a dream/fantasy nga tibuok dapat ilang pamilya, nga ang bata masuya sa ubang bata seeing both parents being there for them. for me lang gyud, ug naay personal issue or baggage ang usa ka taw nga wala pa niya ma address, dili gyud siya dapat magka anak until makasabot siya what it takes to be a parent. sa panahon karon gud, tungod sa ka open minded sa mga taw, mo engage dayun ug u know without thinking ug capable naba jud ka in all aspects to be a parent. mga bata ang kasagaran mag suffer sa immaturity sa ginikanan. naa pay uban nga dili lang mag care ug maguba ilang pamilya basta ang mag matter ang ilang kaugalingon kalipay/biga. my personal experience, the woman who is now with my ex is also a single mom who abandoned her child to be with the father of my kid. lami ra? and siya pa mismo mo sulti, makasabot rana ang bata later on. dimalason lang gyud kaau ka ug ingon ani ang thinking sa imong anak. sa akong part, akong gi pause akong kaugalingon kalipay and did not try to find someone else until makakita ko nga truly nakasabot na akong anak sa natabo kay samot ma confuse ang bata ug makakita nga lain nasad imong kauban sa imong life. my kids, they are my everything now. bonus na lang na ang partner ug naay moabot

Thumbs up sis. Just focus lang on your role as a mother and to develop yourself further. Everything will fall into place lang gyud at the right time. Society has given men (sorry guys if this is such a direct blow to your egos and balls) the permission to do irresponsible acts. I saw it happened with our parents, our grand parents and still continues to grow in our generation.

In the end, those who have lifted the lives of their children are mostly blessed which may not be financially. But blessed in the magnitude of love and support from their children.

[IamDiablo]

came from a broken family. my parents separated when I was still 8 or 9 years old. Worse part is that I usually get to see the conflicts na gakahitabo sa family. but na anad lang man pud ko. after ato my mom had another family na when I was 12 ata din we transfered na dayon sa lugar kung aha akong step father nagwork which is in Southern Luzon, so ang nahitabo na instant tagalog citizen na ko which I fondly remember na most polite ko sa klase.hahahaha

To be honest when I was growing up, there are instances na magka conflict jud mi sa akong stepfather, my stepfather was single then when naging sila ni mom. Ok man akong stepfather but after nagka anak na jud cla sa akong mom medyo dadto na naay gap. I realized as I grow older na normal man pud nah ana kay kadugo bya jud nya so ok lang. but c dad(stepfather) was cool bya jud away lang mi normal lang den ako man pud may pagka rebellious ato na time. but my stepfather did his best bya jud to be a good provider. and one thing that i can share with him is that his the 1st person na nakauban nako sa usa ka CLub.ahahaha. The Club na palong siga ang suga. incoming 1st year high school ko ato, how cool is dat dba, hahahaha. but sad to say, Dad(my stepfather) died last year. Me and my other brothers and sisters ( I treat them as siblings jud without the notion na half/or stepbro or step sis) close mi.

It wasn't easy growing up coming from a broken family. To think na sa situation nako na lahi ang family name nako sa akong mga stepbrother and step sis. but that's life. and im ok with that. it taught me to be tough in life and not to be hasty on settling down.

[Half]

That's FATE if it's meant to happen then accept.

No time travel nor amount of money can change the situation.

I tried to blame every single thread of hair of each person that evolves around my family. I'm tired, really really tired.

Regardless of the aftermath situations or scenario I've been through It always comes back to me.
My actions, decisions and feelings - what not ; its my responsibility.

[crocodile]

MMK mani dire hahahahahahahaha.

[enimavix]

padung me ka broken, we've found out recently nga naa JUD lain fam ako dad. Oh well, towel papel. But okay ra. We're not a bunch of haters man pod.

[iMallalone29]

I was once from a broken family..

Broken Family mi for 15 years..

Then, na-set-up namo akong mom and dad sa pool.. hehehe..
Fortunately, nagbalik jud sila after 15 long years!

so now, dili na mi broken family.

[ayeeel]

i'm not from a broken family but my husband is. And I can't imagine nga ma preha mi sa iya parents.. I cant let that happen .