Q: ngano ang uyab di man ganahan nga nindot tanawn ila gf or magpagwapa kung manglaag  (ex. sexy ug outfit but di sad ingon burikat ug nawng) but mu lingi man ug lain nga girl hinuon nga sexy or nice tan awoN?
@ pandalicious and to the dear ladies reading...
Men, particularly those who have limited life experience and knowledge, are generally insecure and inconsiderate. If women have a tendency to hold on to abstract things such as memories and emotions to remember, Men are more possessive to tangible objects and that unfortunately, includes their girlfriends. Men, being raised in a patriarchal culture that we have, are taught and tend to like control. Be authoritative about what their girlfriends should wear, even when they don't have any fashion sense. Strange enough, most Women seem to appreciate that or find it adorable. So in a Way-- The ladies let Us have our Way.
And males do have a wandering and wondering nature. We could see that through our biology. Males of any species(such as lions and apes) are known to roam, casting their senses about for females in heat or in human male terms, 'hot chicks.' It's weird though no, that we consider our girlfriends 'sweet', 'loving' or 'kind' but never 'hot', 'sultry', or 'bootylicious'. I would like to believe that it is a matter of respect, we Men do tend to place our girlfriends or beloved on an ivory pedestal, acting guard with a sign-- Stay Behind the Line, Look but do not touch...
Why don't most guys let their girls look and act sexy? It's just because We know that there are other guys like Us who are out there, scoping out the ladies... so that's why we make our lady partners hide their capacity for beauty. It is unfair, truth to be said.
There was a wise man who once said, 'It is not Life that is unfair but the Men who make it so.' He was asked if he also meant women, he answered with a smile, "Women are the fairer ***, are they not?" 
In all actuality there are Men who are not insecure and who for their dear beloved Muses apply their trust and this Dress Code: She may wear whatever she wants as long as She feels cool, confident, and comfortable. 
So advice ko lang to the ladies, make that Consideration for the Dress Code as criteria in selecting your boyfriends
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Q: What I don't undertand about most MEN AND WOMEN, BOYS AND GIRLS, is that why can't We just respect and follow simple rules po..?!
For Everyone's benefit, a recap of hera82's Good Guidelines... 
FROM HERA_82:
To make this smooth-sailing, here's how it should go:
I ask a question about what i don't understand about men and/or of what they do. A guy has to answer me (to clean their slate.. hehehe) and in turn, will ask a question intended for the girls. Another girl (anyone!) answers it then asks the next question, and well, the cycle goes on. Ayt? 
Peeps,
1. Please make sure to provide sensible, elaborated answers.
2. Follow-up questions are welcome.
3. Additional remarks for the previous post/answers are also permitted.
4. All WH- (what, why, where, when, how) questions are allowed.
Simple naman di ba po? Reminder, A GIRL or perhap A GIRL AT HEART should answer my question...