I am not sure if OT ako reply, pero I think dli raman lang lalake lang ang nagbuhat ana, naa sad ko kaila na mga babae na ilang motto is may pag cla ang mo una kay sa sila ang ma unhan..
Pero ug relationship lang you tell your friend na next time mosulod cla ug relationship, "don't lose yourself over someone or something kay in the end if wla nay mabilin nmo, you still have yourself" (pero bitaw lisud2x jud ni xa buhaton labaw na sa babae, kay emo man)
kapait man gud ug mosulod sa relationship people tend to become an addict; relationship addict is the chronic neglect of oneself over someone or something.
Mao na ug pananglitan ug masakitan, sakit jud kay tia mo na nga gibuhat nimo tanan aron malipay lang imong partner, xa imong unahon kaysa imong knahanglan kay love lagi..mao na mas maau jud ug mosulod ka relation you are emotionally and mentally stable.. aron maka differentiate ka unsa jud imong need sa imong wants.
Aw kani sad diay, its true na halos tanan is borrowed lang, specially ang ato time with our bf/gf/partner/loved ones mao ng we need to cherish every single second of it pero we need to do it na dli pud ma compromise atong kaugalingong happiness and needs, kay ug mag sinakitay lagi sakit jud nah.. nya imo lang pud hunahunaon na since its borrowed moabot jud na ang time na wether we like it or not we need to set them free, we need to let go, we need to say goodbye kay borrowed raman..so ug unsa man gani nang expectations sa pag start pa ang sa relationship tangtangon nalang jud kay usa pud nas magdala ug sakit.. ^_^
bitaw I learn this from my personal experience and my observation on how people interact with people. ana lang.
hope this one helps.
