My bestfriend's GF/BF

[Velvett]

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^ai swerte kaayu siya nako kay di jud ko mag fall in love fall in love diha ug lain mentras kami pa.

BOUNDARIES. it's not only for others, it's for yourself as well. it goes with self-control.

you see, monrose, a relationship is not only about feelings. i'm sure you agree with me on this. it's about commitment also, right? ang feelings mo fluctuate ra ba gyud. there are days when you feel in love, there are days when you just doubt everything. so there, that's when commitment comes in handy.

para lage walay gubot, ONE AT A TIME.

ako i am not condemning the person, just the actions.

[monrose29]

ma-o nah sya mam deli man gud ta prehas og capability tanan... kay lahi2x man jud ta.. ma o nah ako gi ingon nga before nato e judge ang tawo for his wrong doing.. lets hear his side first why he do that thing...

kong naka sala.. sya wala na gyud tay mahimo ana pero ma usab atong pag tan aw niya being a BAD person before sa wala pa sya mo explain sa iyang side...

[d`monyita]

that would not happen to me dong.... kasi I KNOW MY BOUNDERIES

there is no explaining his sin dodong... sorry.... that is how i feel about it.... it is UNEXCUSABLE jud.

i am not condemning the person per se but the actions.... obviously he knew what he was doing was wrong...mao buwagan nya ang girl.

[d`monyita]

ma o nah ako gi ingon nga before nato e judge ang tawo for his wrong doing.. lets hear his side first why he do that thing...

even if we hear his side.... it still does not justify his... as u admitted na gani... WRONG doing.

kong naka sala.. sya wala na gyud tay mahimo ana pero ma usab atong pag tan aw niya being a BAD person before sa wala pa sya mo explain sa iyang side...

u mean u actually think there is no sala involved? anak naman... and besides... one MAJOR error in judgement does not make him a bad person... just a bad decision-maker

[monrose29]

hahahhaha... ma o bitaw iya gibuhat karon... ....

[d`monyita]

mao gani...but that DOES NOT excuse the error.... nakasala sya. period.

[monrose29]

O.T di nako mo reply aneh mga ate kay na-ay nang lo-od nga dugay ko ka reply.. kay na busy ko aneh nga thread.. hahahha.. sa ma igo lang......

[Velvett]

ma-o nah sya mam deli man gud ta prehas og capability tanan... kay lahi2x man jud ta.. ma o nah ako gi ingon nga before nato e judge ang tawo for his wrong doing.. lets hear his side first why he do that thing...

kong naka sala.. sya wala na gyud tay mahimo ana pero ma usab atong pag tan aw niya being a BAD person before sa wala pa sya mo explain sa iyang side...

this is not about labelling the threadstarter but answering his question of "am i right in letting her go?" and we have answered YES, he is just right in doing that because in the first place, what he did was wrong.

nangita ug katin-awan ang threadstarter so tagaan nato ug matin-aw nga tubag. i don't want to beat around the bush so im saying SET BOUNDARIES, NO TWO-TIMING, DO NOT BETRAY FRIENDSHIPS.

[d`monyita]

amen

[monrose29]

before gi edit niya ang iyang post.. we name him a traidor.. base sa iyang story.. karon kay na edit naman..

DON NOT BETRAY FRIENDSHIP

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