HELP I need to forget my boyfriend

[smictague]

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make yourself busy sis. .
pagduwa permi ug takyan. syatong or dakop2. .
syaro makanumdom pakas imong uyab. . heheh

[haiasi]

DOTA lagi, tried and tested....its a way of socializing man sad ky 5 vs 5 players gud na either network or online...especially first time makat on naka its hard to stop...its one of the best way to get your head occupied...

[Fern]

just be with your closest friends sis or your family.

@TS.... sorry kaayu sa akong harsh replies...

sakto sad ni cya.... nga you talk to family or closest friend... try to make it as private as possible, nga walay lain tao maka hibaw....

uyou dont "him" or his friends to know how you your situation is right now.... think of it as a Diplomatic crisis scenario.

most likely man gud if the more people knows you are very emotional sa imung problems.... open kaayu ka sa criticsm.. sawayun ra ka nila no matter unsa ka ka martyr.

[ViPro_KAi]

sis, you know what. much better jud if you keep yourself busy than looking for someone, some stranger to talk to. naay point si Fern regarding sa iyang post earlier, " it could lead to possible vices and sexual activities", lisod na makita kag fake consulate. bisan babae pa imung ka talk kay its possible nga hatagan ka nilag kaila na guy and might take advantage of your situation. it happens on most gurls.

now, i need you to relax, spend time with your sister, brother or parents. they're the primary comforts of your life. ayaw salig basta2 kay the world out there is more scarier than your ex-bf. dont dive right away kay lubog pa ang pool.

do what you love most, your hobbies and interests in life. focus on your dreams and set aside your emotions. take courage and stay strong. we'll keep you in our prayers.

Very well said bro.

Sis, take strength from your family and friends kay kung desperate ka to fill the void left by your ex, you are only inviting emotional predators who will eventually cause more harm than good.

[Fern]

DOTA lagi, tried and tested....its a way of socializing man sad ky 5 vs 5 players gud na either network or online...especially first time makat on naka its hard to stop...its one of the best way to get your head occupied...

Maypa...mag dota nalang ta ta... basin mag Dota Workshop ang Istorya community in the future...

pwede mu mag "all-noob practice game" .... pwede ko mu "personally" coach sa imu.

[KASAAC]

well sis...stay calm and always pray...also beautify yourself, entertain suitors, go out with your friends, start a hobby, meet new guys... in that way your attention will be diverted to someone else or to other things....

[jeanine11280]

Thanks to you all who have reacted positively to this thread..but to some of you who were amm..i dont know how to put it but in a not so agreeable manner I understand you because I was not really clear about my problem..for selfish reasons that may sound idiotic to some?....well,the truth is I am not looking for a new relationship..it would be unfair to become a rebound..and actually, I just want to keep it private as possible because I felt so suffocated right now..apparently,my situation is difficult let's just say that my BF placed me in an unseen cage..just give me that indulgence of not elaborating that part..anyway I know it's all up to me to surpass this challenge because no matter how sound your advises are or how inviting and exciting the diversions maybe if I will succomb to my insecurities and decide to be a loser then all your advises will be of NO vail..but I made a mistake of posting my number here as you correctly pointed out the downside of doing it..and yeah, at this point I have never been so vulnerable and weak but that doesn't mean that I would grab anyone who would offer me solace and not think about the consequences..that is why I just asked for someone to talk to..just to help me get busy..it maybe childish to some to be so dependent at this age and time but hey No man is an Island right?..but I am glad with your reply now I know that bayanihan spirit still lives on..infairness to my bf..our relationship still doesn't have a closure..it's only my Faith in him that's wavering and that made our relationship unstable..you see, he is not only a boyfriend to me..he is also my bestfriend,my confidant, my alter ego, my brother, my father, and my baby all rolled into one..with him I am not afraid to be myself..he knows,he understands and he takes me as I am..unfortunately, but I don't wanna think about it right now..I just want him out of my mind and I know you could help just like now..I really have fun reading your replies..they put smile upon my face..it is only now that I have visited my thread because i did keep myself busy..just before school, I travelled to a lot of places..and yes, I pamper myself....indulge in facials and massage..play badminton and jog in the park..but yes, at night when I am alone and the house is quiet the ghost comes haunting again..I know I sound so pathetic,but well,I am taking this day by day...one at a time..and yes, I have devotional prayer because God is the ultimate Healer..thanks everyone and God Bless...

[Anydowro]

Never have I imagined that I will be replying something like this......

I know somebody and He is a true friend... Please know Him more. Okay?

[bluedes]

Never have I imagined that I will be replying something like this......

I know somebody and He is a true friend... Please know Him more. Okay?

charring!

[BoyPaksit]

Just smile and wave ms.Jeanine, just smile and wave like the penguins did at madagaskar movie! hihi