HELP My Husband is a good man but I'm in love with someone else

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

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by the way... @nitwit.... are you chinese or something....? mura man ug sabot2x inyung marriage

bitaw maam, kani iya sulti ai, chinese ka? unsa mn nationality nimo og sa imo bana?
gawas sa time og ka busy, wala nay lain butang ngano cge mog away?
maam, wala man kha ka ng duda nga naa lain baye imo bana..

[Fern]

bitaw maam, kani iya sulti ai, chinese ka? unsa mn nationality nimo og sa imo bana?
gawas sa time og ka busy, wala nay lain butang ngano cge mog away?
maam, wala man kha ka ng duda nga naa lain baye imo bana..

lolz.... kung chinese man gani ni.... "mao po the movie" nasad ni

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

^^^hahaha...mao jud bro...

[r0mm3L]

married ko but inlove ko sa laing guy. kahibalo man ang guy na married ko,pero di naman ko happy sa amo marriage life.

sayo ka na minyo?

[pugak_79]

feelings rana day, mawala rana

[darkraven]

first of all, ang marriage dili murag init nga kaon, if mapasu ka pwede iluwa....
if la kay sure sa imong bana, nganong nag minyo man intawn ka??
unsa naman tong imong promise nga, "for better or for worst...blah... blah... blah..."??

most of the time, ang marriage muagi jud nah ang time nga you feel board, laayan ka, d na nimo mafeel ang love....
if you don't feel the love, that doesn't mean nga wala na dha ang love...
natabonan lang nah sa mga negative things nga imong gihunahuna....

love your partner as he is... he's good and bad side... no one is perfect man....
appreciate what you like about him and accept what you dont like....
ngita sa net kung unsaon pag handle og husband nga pariha sa imong husband...
ayaw og entertain anang idea nga magbuwag mo, og mga laki nga motake advantage sa imong situation...

kay if you do, la nimo gisolve ang problem but imo ra gidaganan... much worst if history repeats itself then.... if buotan au imong hubby before mo nagminyo, how sure are you if magpabuotbuotan lang nah ang laki nga you said your are inluv with??

kung naay kuwang imong hubby nimo, ayaw pangitaa sa uban laki to fill it up...

[hiatus3000]

@nitwit

Save your marriage. I have PM'ed you something nitwit, Please read.

[dwinwade]

Divert your attention from that guy. Focus your activity

to your husband or to your family if you have children. Simba

kada adlaw aron giyahan ka sa kahitas-an. Pour all your time

to your family and then maka-recover raka ana sister. Kanang imong

gugma sa lain gawas sa imong bana mora rana og otot nga mawala

ra basta makagawas na. Ayaw og pabadlong uy.....pay a little respect

sa imong husband. In love...in love paka dha nga minyo man kang daku.

[m_a_r_k_u_z]

@TS

maam, best wishes...

[MrsJack]

nitwit,

base sa imo istorya, nakita nako nga you husband is able to give you 80% of what makes you and your marriage happy. but it seems that you are looking for the missing 20% from someone else.

it takes 2 to tango. your husband cannot do it alone.
nganong dili man ikaw ang mohatag sa missing nga 20%? do your part.

i know its not an easy thing to do.
but you need to fill up the 20% yourself. ayaw na pangitaa sa lain.

i believe that you are mature enough to do so, even at younger age og 23. posting here with courage is a good sign.

Good Luck!