Ladies,
please, please, please...
I know that it's not easy to accept rejection from the person you loved and have made investments on.
It's never easy to just stand up, brush up and smile as if nothing happened,
It's not easy to endure those long working days and those cold nights like weeks after the tragedy.
But it's easy to think that you'll be fine and PRETEND that you're okay and always look at the positive side of life....
yeah, you can cry your eyes out, but try smiling again afterwards... there's always the rainbow after a storm...
Always, ALWAYS, AAAALWAYS think that there's a woman out there na mas worse pa ang nahitabo kesa ninyo.
Always think that you're luckier than that girl:
-you're lucky cuz wala ka gikadena sa sulod sa inyung balay
-you're lucky kay wala ka gipakiulawan sa atbang sa iyang barkada and even called you names in front of them
-you're lucky kay wala ka gipakaun ug pagkaun sa baboy after a week of locking you in his room with no food or water
-you're lucky you weren't battered every night he sees your face and punched you until you bled
-you're lucky you weren't pregnant and gipugos ug palaglag inyong baby
-you're lucky wala ka niya gi-threaten na ikalat niya inyung s** video atung time na gusto nimu siya biyaan
think about it, ladies....
you're better off without that guy who made you eat s**t every morning you wake up.
I'd be an hypocrite kung ingnun nako na wala ko naka experience ani. well, I've got new for you. I've been to hell and I survived it... See? Doesn't it feel great to say that you survived that turmoil you've been through?
Girl, be proud of your battle scars!
I am...
Spread that smile on your face and always look at the better side of things...
and one more thing, you have friends, you have a family who you can run into, there are this small things that you need to appreciate... enjoy the simple pleasures in life... enjoy being a woman.
-enjoy eating chocolates and feel that bitter, smooth, creamy and sweet sensation that wraps your tongue and melts in your mouth and finally that chocolatey after taste...
-enjoy eating ice cream and feel that creamy, sweet, soothing coolness running down your throat and remember those childhood memories when you used to eat ice cream with your parents...
-enjoy the presence of pets... nothing more than sitting right beside them and just feel that you're guarded by these loyal beasts and just feel that they're just there when you needed them...
-enjoy the beauty of a girl's night out.... self explanatory.
-enjoy the beauty of dressing up and walking on the streets with your high heels and feel sexy under that corporate attire cuz underneath those are your lacy sexy red underwear...
-enjoy the pleasure of working out. Hit the gym for an hour and feel a lot like you're on top of the world after the work out cuz you have finished burning those calories off and the pride of surviving between repetitions and sets and that challenging treadmill that you just broke your record on.
there's so many things in this world that you can enjoy....
and one more thing, try noticing the guy who kept staring at you.... He might be.... THE ONE.....
happy endings do come true...
GOOD VIBES!



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