Naa bay ka.ayohan kung seaman ang mabana or ma amahan sa inyo anak?

[babygin2005]

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[QUOTE=inamorata;3226280]hi babygin2005! just got back to istorya... Glad to find someone like me who has a seaman bf/fiance. Five years na mi sa amu relationship and it's a rollercoaster ride gyud. I can say na na-experience na naku being a seaman's wife although not legally coz we're not married yet. My fault naman coz kapila na sad sya nag-propose naku, ako ra man gyud ang di pa ready... Mao single gihapon ko but unavailable.

Kadtong question nimu: "Naa bay ka.ayohan kung seaman ang mabana or ma amahan sa inyo anak?" --- I would say it's really a matter of perspective. If ikaw ready gyud ka sa path of a seaman's wife [months of waiting for him, being ms. duda queen, being quarreled by his sisters, temptations abound, miscommunication, etc.] -- but this is not to discourage you, reality really bites...if ready ka, then take this road. Of course, kung na'y downside ang life sa seaman's wife... daghan pud ta benefits... Most of all, you have to be a strong woman to be a seaman's wife and mom/dad sa inyo anak.

As for "every port, report"... ang laki polygamous gyud na by nature but his fidelity to you relies solely on the foundation of your relationship...trust, communication, honesty, empathy.

Kabawo ba ka na lisod pangetaun ang baye na mahimu seaman's wife? Ngeta gyud na sila gwapa, buotan, masaligan ug maayo sa tanang aspects... Mura gyud ta mga Amazona para nila. They're so lucky to have us and hadlok pud na sila ngeta ta lain.

Sa work nila, you have to orient yourself pud. I've met some seaman's wives na wala gyud alamags kung unsa'y trabaho sa ilang bana, bisan ranggo or nga'n sa barko sa ilang bana...luoy intawon tong mga seaman. My fiance is aboard on a tanker vessel plying Europe and risky gyud ila work. That's why praying for them means a lot.

On health checks pud: I've done every precautionary measure I could think of. Pap smear, tanan... Better be safe than sorry. You should too. Daghan ra ba AB na musugat nila kada port... AB = Akyat Barko. Salig lang ko sa ako uyab kay he's a man of principle man gyud...[/QUO


hi inamorata!! agree jud ko nimo...lisod jud pangitaun...dili najud sya kita ug pareha nako, matud pa niya..hehehe, actually, we've been together for almost 3 yrs na...then, dili pa sya seaman before..."landman" pa sya for a year, hehehe...so nagkakuyog2x jud mi for almost a year and a half...so most likely, kabalu najud ko sa iyang batasan especially kun unsa sya mu-behave with other girls...so far, makaingon man ko nga dili sya ang type nga gara-un or friendly dayun sa mga chicks...Kay kun wala pami nagkuyog ug dugay2x, siguro madudahun jud ko, but salig jud ko niya nga dili jud sya mubuhat ug something nga against sa will ni God...and at peace raman sad ko niya...bitaw, lets just pray for their safety and that God will keep them from all sin and evil...kita pud...hehehe...God bless!!

[godwhacker]

depende sa tawo. Ila-ilaha lang di man tanang seaman report in every port. Naa pud uban dedicated sa ilang familya. Di lang kaayo ko mo comment kay ma bias. Akong igsoon seaman pero kalooy sa Dyos, maayo man dagan iyang familya. Malipayon man. I know most seamen are vilified pero depende sa tawo.

[morokporok]

my hubby used to be in a luxury liner abroad, we communicated through email and through text but its so difficult, everytime theres typhoon or boat sinking somewhere or seamen being kidnapped, it would really break my heart, although hes a good and loyal husband to me but the pain of being separated is unbearable...after 6 years of being a seaman we decided to be together. now its been 7 yrs. since his last contract as a seafarer and we are very happy and fulfilled couple.

[melody32686]

not ok.. kasi walang bonding sa mga anak..

[juknojukno]

most wife naka bana ug seaman ang ila kontra kay ang in-laws (mother in-law, sister-in-law and etc..etc.) tungod sguro na kay mostly ang sa seaman nga family gikan sad ug kalisod nya pagmenyo na selos na sa asawa. So pagandam na lang kay ma kontra gyud ka sa in-laws nimo.

Just my 2 cents and based on my experience sa friends ug sa auntie nako.

[alinejannina]

Louya sa mga mahadlok ug seaman uy puro reklamo wa hunahunaa ang trabaho sa dagat, barko ug kamingaw bisan ma seaman o manager sa companya kung di maayong lalaki irresponsable jud na. Kamo pag seamn lalim ba... Girl ko dili ko seaman but i know how it feels kaya dont judge anyone kay naay GINOO nagtan-aw. Iampo na kung kinsa inyo ma partner in life and respect anyone seaman or not kay sige mog hunahuna dautan maadto mo sa pinakadaot unya ulahi raba mahay.Gilaliman biya mog trabahog barko tan-awa tung nangalunod DIBA BARKO MAN mao ayaw pag discrimainate in fairness sa uban just a comment bahalag masuko mo its a FREE COUNTRY

[alinejannina]

pasalamat mo naay trabaho inyo partner keep praying kay the family that prays together stays together. Kung maghunahuna kag bati sa isig katawo nakasala naka in thoughts and words...likayi intawon mga siS KAY MAKASALA TAG DAKO ANA.

[windfara]

for me? . . .wala . . .mo uli lang paanakan ka . . .they are not always their to be at your side. . .

[jenskie23]

hayag ang kaugmaon..toinkz!

If your partner wants to stray gyud..he will find a way---ma seaman siya or dili...

[spellbinder]

mostly basta seaman di gyud kasaligan...
estudyante palang og nautical, pirti ng mga maniaca...hehehe..

pareha ra gud mostly sa mga poloce og sundalo...

maka kita lng og chiks, mura nag mahasi....

murag wa pa kakita og mga chiks...hehehe...

but jenskie23 has a very good point!