Your Lover's A Cheater? What would you do? Why?

[psyche_08]

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[Unmei]

heres the scenario:

youve been with this girl (of course in a relationship) for almost 5 years now...
and then just recently you'll discover that she's playing another game?
and you've read all the msgs that was in her cellphone (which you didnt even know that she has a phone)
all the msgs the guy is sending him..

and then confronted the girl pero, denies all the allegations... but then again sa later part ni-admit ra diay...


then on the succeeding days...the girl told his real bf that she did it twas because posesib daw ang real bf..
and the phone that the girl was using was actually the 2nd guys phone? that was given to her...
but then the girl told his bf that he broke up with his so called "kabit" and returned the phone...
right after that...
what happened was the girl is actually begging his real bf to be back in her life...

what should the real bf do?

[d`monyita]

hanap na lang ng iba tawn.... sus if niloko ka.....

[Unmei]

bitaw noh? pero dont you think kelangan ug 2nd chance ang gurl? kay sincere naman daw sya...

[d`monyita]

awwww it is at the risk of the guy na lang tawn.... basta.... wa pa gani minyo.... hahayyy....

[vaughn]

how long she's been doing that? if 1yr to 2yrs......y tarong babay who can do that to her bf.

if kadali lng na ila fling, maybe give her a chance...her 1st and last chance...if u think she's worthy to be given a such......then sa lalaki, yaw lng palabi ka higpit kanang shakto2x lng basin imo napud nang gituok aw syempre ngita jud na lain.

[diem]

[color=navy]For situations like this, it may be easy to forgive and not so easy to forget~ if the guy loves the girl truly, then he should give her a second chance to prove herself worthy of his love. And she must prove herself without compromise because apparently she wasn't worthy of his trust.

[Unmei]

how long she's been doing that? if 1yr to 2yrs......y tarong babay who can do that to her bf.

if kadali lng na ila fling, maybe give her a chance...her 1st and last chance...if u think she's worthy to be given a such......then sa lalaki, yaw lng palabi ka higpit kanang shakto2x lng basin imo napud nang gituok aw syempre ngita jud na lain.

they've been with his bf for almost 5 years now... pero nagbinuang ang gurl.. then the gurl wants his bf back... for good... daw...

isa ra problema ani.. its hard to gain a trust that was lost..

[grlnxtdor16]

u know this situation happens all the time to differnt people. pero the way to handle it is soo dificult. it all boils down to how much the guy loves the girl. is he willing to take the risk despite everything. love has no boundaries but its up to him kung kaya ba niya nga e sugal ang tanan just for her.

to the girl, murag lisod jud e gain ug balik ang trust sa guy coz she did something that was soo hurtful. dapat kabalo nana xa. pero unsaon man tana nga there comes a point nga naa jud mga pagsulay sa relationship. cge nlng mana naman jud na. she just has to make up things with her bf if she really wants him back. prove to him nga she has changed and show what she really feels to the guy.

kung maabot gae sa point nga di njud ang guy, wel wa njud mahems. it was orginally her fault. dawat nlng oie.

[Unmei]

guys.. you know what that real bf im referring to.. that is actually me... im now asking for your advice kay im trying to weigh things...

i bought the gurl a house.. because within sa relationship nakahisgot man gud ug settling down.. i was possesive and made restrictions.. because i know the girl pretty well na dali ra kaayo madala ug storya.. so i made restrictions... she just can't undestand why...