Tips on how to control jealosy

[Mildewed]

TS, don't solve a problem (heartbroken) by creating another problem (finding another girl to divert your sorrows). Enjoy YOUR life first! Don't let your world revolve around someone else's. You don't have to depend on others to be happy.

I think we can control/eliminate jealousy by following one of Buddha's statements regarding 'True Happiness'. According to Buddha, "True happiness can only be achieved when there is no ego and there is no desire."

Try to follow that, TS. Kay being jealous is like desiring the attention of your partner and having it only for yourself. If you try to eliminate the 'desire' and 'self' in that situation, then maybe TS, d na kaau ka magproblema and you're relationship will probably be stronger, because there's a big possibility that the attention of your partner will naturally be geared towards you.

OT: *This is based on one of Buddha's teachings which I recently discovered in one of the threads in istorya, TS.

[joaquin]

dont think / focus too much on what u dont want...

[minglovesbeec]

lesod jud na basta imong partner kay insensitive. ing-ana ko sauna as in dili nako huna2-on ang feelings sakong partner resulta gibowagan ko bwahahahahahahahhahaha pero karon sakong bag.ong oyab im trying to understand his attitude nga pagkasuper seloso. just make your partner understand nga tao ra ka nga naay feelings and normal ra ang magselos hihi

[kulotzki]

ang akoa, breathe in, breathe out then smoke gamay ug cigars... works all the time... then after, id talk to my partner about it...

then we reach a compromise depending sa sitch...

[FJP_01]

aysooooss salig lang sa imong uyab. kana kung maayo gyud nang lalaki. kay kasagaran ra ba mutuka gyud na og mais ang manok. kapoy kaayo nang selos2. mada ra na og storya. mas maayo og storyhan na sa manag uyab ang mga problema sa mga inyong naobserbahan sa usag usa. dili kay magpasuko2. angay ra na sa mga tao nga wala naka skwela. kita diri nga mga literate dapat di ta mag act nga wa tay grado. palihog lang ko sa plite be. ramos lang.

[kulotzki]

aysooooss salig lang sa imong uyab. kana kung maayo gyud nang lalaki. kay kasagaran ra ba mutuka gyud na og mais ang manok. kapoy kaayo nang selos2. mada ra na og storya. mas maayo og storyhan na sa manag uyab ang mga problema sa mga inyong naobserbahan sa usag usa. dili kay magpasuko2. angay ra na sa mga tao nga wala naka skwela. kita diri nga mga literate dapat di ta mag act nga wa tay grado. palihog lang ko sa plite be. ramos lang.

bitaw... trust lang jud ang makahatag ug spice sa relationship and everything follows...

[superidol]

qng unsa eyang ge buhat . . buhata pd . .

[Dorothea]

There's this landmark study on buwad and its impact on jealousy. What this study showed was that, people who regularly eat buwad (dried fish) are less likely to be jealous than people who don't eat buwad.

[glinkho]

jealousy? i consider it a sign that u luv ur partner and u dont want to lose him / her.
but obsessive/superduper jealousy? d nana xa maau...
wala nakai salig sa imu partner ana..hihi...

[chachar]

how to control jealousy? stop caring.. simple as that!