She was surely upset that's why she said those. You know, when people are upset or pissed we tend to say words we don't usually mean. If she meant it, don't argue with her anymore. Don't make any steps when things aren't cooled down yet. Give her time to think it over.
A friend told me, 2 days ago, when things were also getting out of reach.
Don't make any decisions when you're mad. Hold up and calm down, think 3 times before saying something.
Well brad just get used to it, or might as well deal with it.