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[darsmith13]

CEBU ko sis! heheheh SUGBUANON kaayo! hehehe

yeah! Ok ra gyud unta tog STEAL a KISS or HUG me tight! Pero kadto, maka SHOCK gyud as in! Akong kalag murag ni lagpot kalit out of my body! heheh

d mana pwede manguot on a first date.. unless ur really drunk.. or ang girl ang mag una2x.. ..

duwa duwaan raka adtong lakiha TS if ever nagpailad ka

[angel_brey]

korek! Maayo gani utro pod ko mangingilad mao lisod kaayo ko ilarun! hahaha LOLs

[blizzaga4]

Honestly, looking at your sexy avatar what guy especially a seaman, deprived from the opposite s3x for so many months, would not want to grasp your body? Even me I would want to do it. But I would do it in a "sly" way and not like a rapist or some sort.

Maybe you were wearing something too skimpy or in cebuano "bigaon".

[Moongoddess28]

I think you didn't get what I mean coz I really did not specify my experiences in each of those trips..
For most kanang out of town trips is a date right?
If your spending it together with your GF alone then it's a date.. yes, you can be touring around places but the main thing there is that you are together and you are sharing that tour / experience with your girlfriend.. and that to me is a date..
Of Course I have had simple dates, trips in cebu and around phils but naturally those out of phils trips would surely stand out... right? so that's why i categorized it as the best!
Coz as much as we were there enjoying the scenes, going places, appreciating the country.. we were doing date stuff and most importantly enjoying each other! so i guess that's a date...


I think if I specify, it would be more understandable why for me it's a date.. the time you had with each other, with the scenery and the nice places you have gone with together, the laughs and little arguments along the way, the good and bad.. and that's why i could say it was my BEST date...
Yes I Concur the Sceneries were very nice and I enjoy being there but not to make my girl fade away in the background! no!! coz on top of it, what I most Love and Enjoy about the Experience is the Fact that I had it with my Girlfriend,
not that "I was in another country, or I ate delicious food, or I HAVE been there! done that!"...
It's "I was in another country WITH MY GIRLFRIEND, WE Ate Delicious Food and WE got there and did that"

Of course, the simple dinner out or night at the beach are very nice to me.. but i think you understand what i mean now.. coz i can't say that would be better than the trips we had together... right?

and anyways TS seemed to understand...

mao. Para nako, bsta kamo ra two, date nana...hmmmm.. i guess...even after marriage, d jud dapat mahuman ang dating period. awww.. ^_^

[Moongoddess28]

Continuation sa worst story hehehe (As requested by Moongodess)

ni pass na 1 year and grad nako ug Dentistry. Manila nako for REVIEW and BOARD exam.

He eventually knew I was there because of my mom. Akong gipa binuangan sa akong miga ug text2x but then ge buking ra sad ko sa akong miga. He called my friend's cellphone and talked to her and asked her if he could talk to me but I didn't want to and so what my friend did was she placed it on SPEAKER PHONE! On speaker phone, he said he was sorry for what he did and saying he wanted to see me so he could apologize in person. The entire time he was explaining himself and saying sorry over the SPEAKER PHONE, my board mates were also listening intently and at the end said, "Awww! Brey pasaylu-a na ni siya Brey uy!" But the entire time I heard him explain himself, tears were falling down my face. My friend gave him instructions how to get to our boarding house and I panicked coz I didn't wanna see him or face him because I was afraid I might feel something that I don't want to feel. But then, wala gyud ko naka ikyas kay gepangita gyud kog ayu sa akong mga friends.

So there we we're outside the boarding house. He was talking, explaining himself and the entire time I was cursing him and crying why he did those things and to just leave me alone and that I hated him so bad for everything he did to me. I told him I hated him for making me fall so deeply in love with him when he was away and then dropping a bomb on me when we met which was a total 360 degree turn from what I was expecting from him.

He told me everything he told me back then was a lie. The buntis girl part was a lie daw and he only did that daw to TEST me. Di ba murag dapat GIRLS man ang dapat mu TEST sa GUY how much they LOVE us? And so mas minura ko pa sya ng maigi sa kalagot nako! Ni gawas tanan akong tagalog kay dili man kaayo siya kasabot ug bisaya! And then I told him, HOW COULD YOU DO THAT, TEST ME? Who are you? And I told him, I trusted my parents about all they said about you because they are my parents and you made them believe how GOOD of a GUY you really were but then you showed me the opposite. How could you be SO GOOD to them but SO BAD to me? What have I done to you to deserve such treatment? And to think ha, during those times he was with my dad sa barko, adto na gud na siya matulog daw sa cabin sa akong dad and siya nasad mang laba sa mga bulingun sa akong dad even if my dad didn't ask him to do that. So unsa ma? If KAMO ang naa sa akong shoes, mag libog gyud mo diba ngano he did all those things to impress my PARENTS but NOT ME? Why go through such task to win their hearts but NOT ME? And all he ever said was, "I was being stupid for testing you and telling you all those lies and I am sorry." Pero diba? Lisud na kaayo e believe uy! So many lies na kaayo and so much time has already passed unya karun pa siya ni try and reach out to mend that broken part of me!

After some time that he was saying sorry and expressing his apology in the sincerest way he could possibly do, I was just there sitting so silently waiting for it to end. Out of no where he said, "You know what, I have missed you so much!"

I just snorted sarcastically and told him, really? Then why never tried to reach out to me or even try to get back with me or win me back? Why never tried to make that big leap or big gesture just to have me back so we could finally be together? And he said, he was scared daw I would reject him because of what he did. But in my mind, dapat land sad uy na makatilaw siya ug rejection from me before mi pwede mgka balik. And then another moment of silence. Then he said, "I remembered you made a song for me. You know what, I also made a song for you, you wanna hear it? Wait lang ha, I will get my guitar." He hurriedly went inside his car, got his guitar and sang for me. It was something like this.

"It's your smile, that I've been searching for.
It's your love, that I've been longing for.
For quite some time, I've never felt this way before...."

Something like that. The entire time he was singing, nakilig ko. But a part inside of me always told me, "How sure are you this SONG really is for you or how many times he has sung this to a girl?"

And so mao to. Wala nalang ko daghan storya niya. Then ni respetar nalang sad siya and told me na wala na daw siya'y mabuhat kay naa nakoy BF and naa nasad siya'y GF. And then I told him, you already have a GF then why bother pa gyud to come here and meet me? And he said, he just wanted to apologize for ruining something that could have been special.

And I told him, it is so easy to say that but so hard to prove. Goodbye and I hope you learned your lesson well because it really wasn't easy what you put me through. He asked me if he could hug me and I just nodded but I was as stiff and cold and uninterested as I can be. He kissed my head and I walked away without looking back or even saying good bye!

char.


ouch.

char.


heehhehe.. k-bittersweet TS. duuuuhh. maau ra pd wa ka pailad oink. ses. mura mana katong super2 ex nako... balikan lng ko kung 'feel' nia.. tanang 'since' pangayu psaylo style naa..lech!!! mao jd rba ta usahay, pila ta ka-month/years pasakitan sa laki, then isang 'chi-chin'..mada dayun ta...hmp.ihihihi!! Good Good.!! ng.ka-dayun mos u bf , TS?

[angel_brey]

Honestly, looking at your sexy avatar what guy especially a seaman, deprived from the opposite s3x for so many months, would not want to grasp your body? Even me I would want to do it. But I would do it in a "sly" way and not like a rapist or some sort.

Maybe you were wearing something too skimpy or in cebuano "bigaon".

Uhmmmmm, Hi! First of all, I was wearing a sleeveless blouse that time which could be buttoned down in the middle just to show enough cleavage but not like the one I am wearing in my AVATAR. Aside from that, why my boobs look that way in my AVA is a mystery... ahhahah I had my period that time and sometimes that happens... that I mean it grows big but that's nature & hormones nothing else.

As for if YOU we're the guy and you would do it in a sly way, I would accept that because anyway, we will get there at some point. LOLs, But with the way he did it to me was unforgivable even to other girls. Because first of all, technically, that was supposed to be our first date.

Another thing, for us girls to be sexy and all DOES NOT and I repeat, DOES NOT give you guys the right to touch us in a way that already seems bastos or demeaning to us.

PS.

Thanks for noticing anyway.

[angel_brey]

char.


ouch.

char.


heehhehe.. k-bittersweet TS. duuuuhh. maau ra pd wa ka pailad oink. ses. mura mana katong super2 ex nako... balikan lng ko kung 'feel' nia.. tanang 'since' pangayu psaylo style naa..lech!!! mao jd rba ta usahay, pila ta ka-month/years pasakitan sa laki, then isang 'chi-chin'..mada dayun ta...hmp.ihihihi!! Good Good.!! ng.ka-dayun mos u bf , TS?

This WORST GUY? Wala mi ngka dayun! I met someone else and I was already with that someone who I got married to now during that time he apologized in Manila! heheh

BUT ha mind you, YEAR 2008, he got married JANUARY (Secret marriage pa gyud pero sakpan gehapon siya sa iyang parents.) When he came over to CEBU that time sa WORST DATE, he asked me man to go on a SECRET MARRIAGE with him but I did not say YES and I was wondering why SECRET MARRIAGE? Heller?!! You only get married once, why SECRET? Dapat BONGGA diba? And nag duda nasad ko adto why. (Basin gnahan siya feeling ulitaw gehapon siya para maka pang chicks gehapon siya! LOL)

So anyway, he married JANUARY 2008. His parents came over here sa CEBU and visited us kay ngpa check up sad iya father sa Chong Hua. The entire time nga nagka kuyog mi sa iyang parents kay ako man nag hatod nila sa ilang hotel, cge siya tawag sa phone sa iyang mama but I could not understand what they were talking about kay nag chabakano man hehehe. But I wondered gyud what they were talking about.

Anyway, MARCH 2008, I got married too to my BF after him. He still communicated with my parents especially with my mom. At one point, he emailed my mom telling her that he got married earlier January 2008, saying sorry and telling my mom to tell my HUSBAND to take care of me daw and swerte daw hubby ko to have me coz mabait daw ako etc. Siya lang daw ang nag kamali and nag kulang! For me, it was out of the line na to still want to know things about me since he was already married and I was too. Di ba? What is the point pa?

[Moongoddess28]

mao jd.. loko man tong taohana oi. .. naay gamay guro ts..
i meant, katong sa bhaws pamo, dba naa ka g.mention u had a bf na and xa pud naa?
mao na daun to u bf nakadayun?

[beyee]

WORST DATE

It was a set-up with my colleague's board mate who had a crush on me. At first I found it cute when he was so "torpe" in asking me out directly that he had to ask his boardmate instead. It was a movie and dinner date. When we arrived at the mall, he asked what movie I want to watch so I told him I want the horror flick, Jeepers Creepers but he coerced me to pick the Steven Segal film first then we'll watch the Jeepers afterwards. Though hesitant at first, I gave in. The whole movie was so freaking terrible that I texted my friend all the way through the movie. The date didn't even bother to ask if I enjoyed it. Right after the movie, I was so psyched for Jeepers only to find out that he was only saying that just so I would give in --- HE TRICKED ME! I always value honesty even the start of getting to know the person. Apparently, I felt so slighted and wanted to leave him right there and then out of anger but I remained cool. He asked if I was already hungry, I said I was so we went straight to the food court. I let him buy his dinner. Then he asked what do I want to eat, I told him, I'll pay my way. He was stunned because he knew what I meant.

Prior to the said date, I mentioned to him that if I don't enjoy my date, I usually pay and let not my date pay for me. So I guess the dinner is a tell-tale sign that there's never going to be a follow-up date afterwards hehehe


BEST DATE

I dunno if it was a date or simply a meet-up but I'll never forget that special night when I met a new friend over dinner. I was impressed of how he took time to research a few things about me -- my fave food and restaurant and there was this rose, it was my first time to receive one from a guy. I was so nervous since I haven't been out lately after a painful break-up so I was totally clueless of how to "survive" dinner without even making a faux pas. Surprisingly, dinner went great! He picked the best seats in the restaurant, al fresco style where we can listen to some acoustic music in the background. Then we were already comfortable talking about college, life, family and how we "first met". He made me laugh and made everything so light... never a dull moment even a "dead air"... Up to this day, the thought of it still makes me smile

[angel_brey]

mao jd.. loko man tong taohana oi. .. naay gamay guro ts..
i meant, katong sa bhaws pamo, dba naa ka g.mention u had a bf na and xa pud naa?
mao na daun to u bf nakadayun?

Yup, my husband na karun! hehehe but-an man and in love man kaayo nako, eh di pakslan puslan man! hahaha LOL! kana pa nga mas mahadlok mawala ka kaysa laki na dili mahadlok mawala ka! heheh oh diba? ehhehe Kuyaw sad mig love story ani akong husband uy! hehehe

My husband, Edward had a GF of 6 yrs but nakig buwag ang girl niya coz sa last 3 years nila na uyab, naa diay siya'y lain sad na BF! So tuhog style! ahhaha Anyway, I met Edward, March 3, 2007. The girl broke up with him Feb 14, 2007 through a break up valentines card (ouch). Sometime after ngka meet me and ngka friends, the Ex GF came over CEBU to get back together with him. But he didn't want to and he started telling the girl about me while in Ayala getting the girl a ticket back to Ozamiz. At noon that day, he called me up sa cellphone and told me about the girl here in CEBU and he is letting her go back straight to OZAMIZ that night. Since murag friends pa lang me that time, I told him nga settle things with her lang sah uy kay basin pa diay ma work things out pa ninyo. But he said and he was firm na dili na gyud daw siya. And so the girl went back that night.

A couple of days later, the Ex GF called me. She introduced herself and asked me if uyab na ba daw mi. I told her na NO, wala pa nako sugta. Ug sa dihang ni hangyo ang girl na dili nako sugton and that she was already sorry about what she did and nag sisi na daw siya. I told her, I feel your sincerity, but I don't think that decision is up to me. I mean, even if dili siya nako sugtun, dili man ko ka change sa mind sa guy to get back with her diba? But still she insisted na kung pwede, dili nalang gyud daw nako sugton. And then I told her, talk to him and not me kay wala man koy labot sa inyung issue actually.

Before I said YES to him, I was just being a friend to him even if nanguyab na siya nako. And most of the time, I always tell him or open up to him about the Girl. And he was really firm in saying NO, I don't want her back. So okay fine. And so mao to, ngka kami.

A few weeks after nako siya gesugot, while kuyog mi sa guy, the girl called me again and asked me if tinuod ba daw na uyab na mi sa guy. And I told her yes and asked her if she wants to talk to him and she said yes and I gave him the phone. They talked awhile with me beside him and then good bye. She never called or texted him ever again after that.

Then a few months later, we later learned that the girl got married to a doctor. hehhe