ngano kinahanglan naay uyab ang tao?

[kreik101]

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sa mga hs students pa nako nga nadunggan sa jeep.. "wa pakay uyab? sa bana oi ka uwahe ba nimo sa panahon? bayot ka sa?"...
timailhan diay na karon nga "IN" ka sa panahon? usahay biya labad sa ulo ang uyab. =)

[rjje]

kay sila man ang atong kalipay ug kapa huwasan sa atong ....... gugma.

[RemohDude]

tungod mai kinabuhi..

[Judgement]

It is not a need, you can live life without it, but rather a choice.

[Baybo]

In my opinion, murag magpangita man tingali ka ana kay maka ingon ka na there's something missing in your life.

[ReikoChan]

It is not a need, you can live life without it, but rather a choice.

I'd have to say that this statement is beautiful, but only partially true.

momoi is referring to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs if I am not mistaken. It says there that "Love and Belongingness" is the third priority in the needs of man. But girlfriends/boyfriends are not the sole sources in satisfying those needs. Aside from intimacy, this can also be attained through friendships, family, and through social groups like church. One can even say that he finds God's love as the most intimate and satisfying form of love.

But momoi, the need being discussed in the model is the feeling of being loved, not the actual boyfriend/girlfriend. That's where choice comes in. You can choose to satisfy that need through intimate relationships, or through some other way (singlehood, devotion to God, etc.). Thus, Judgment's statement on satisfyingly living life without physical intimacy.

The thing here is that sometimes some people satisfy this need, but do not choose a one, single way. They love, un-love, and love again, with different people in different periods of time. They don't choose a single person to love and be loved by. That's why this need is so hard to achieve because that person has not chosen a single person to share it with. To make a loving relationship work, you don't have to have that lovey-dovey "kilig" feeling all the time. You just have to decide to make it work with that person and that person only.

Love is indeed a need, but not immediate, so one has ample time to decide. It's more like a choice on how you satisfy your need to be loved.

[DeepwateR]

if ingun ka uyab, pasbot nimo love, right? i mean sa english lovers man ang uyab di ba? and life without love is nothing man so thats why we need love/lovers. whatever he/she/it may be.

[prestige]

For procreation that's why God made us.

[peewee_toot]

dili mn kailangan oi. kung kailangan pa, wa untay single rn...

[tuffie09]

Coz its the best damn feeling in the world.