If mgbunal ka sa bata nga nkasala, wer part man pra mgtanda?

[twistedANGEL25]

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Bunal is not the ideal way to instill discipline...If parents keep on doing that to their kids,they will basically have a trauma when they grow up.

What would be ideal is that you TALK to the child.Tell them and make them understand in simple ways that what they did was wrong...They will understand,no matter how old they are...

Correct the wrong doing, don't punish the child...

[watashi]

dapat ba gyud bunalan ang bata for disciplinary action?

can we just talk to them?

[m.a.m.a.]

usually sa lobot jud na, pro much better f dli frequent ang pagbunal sa mga bata kay naa na bya tay balaod ana. as much as possible try to explain sa bata na sayop iyang gbuhat just think na dli na cla dayon makasabot dayon at first.

[socyaj]

mao ni pamaagi sa ako papa sauna pag disiplina sa amoa, nahimo sad nako ni sa ako eldest son before pero mangibabaw jud ang guilt which telling me sayop ako gebuhat besides samot kagahi ang ulo sa ako son. so karon i applied TLC manner whichever makasala sya we talk to him instead in a right manner telling him his fault not to do it again. so far its effective, maminaw jud ang bata pero dapat naa jud suhol if ever dako dako ang sala para makuha nimo ang full attention sa bata.

[aticrossfire]

If mgbunal ka sa bata nga nkasala, wer part man pra mgtanda?

if kong hilabtanon, sa kamot bonalan. para mag timaan sa yang sayop.

[mio]

Ang ulo, para mo humok.

[polarisvenus]

as much as possible, d jud maau bunal sa bata labi na ug below 5 pa ky they wont understand man sa essence sa bunal. for us it is to discipline them but for them they will only know and remember the pain.

[psyrille_alphatrix]

wrong discipline...

ang pagbunal demonstrates that it's all right for people to hit people... If you control your child's behavior through this kind of punishment, he/she is likely to carry on this mode of interaction onto other relationships like among siblings and peers, and eventually a spouse and offspring.

[ruji119]

ngano kaha bunalan ang bata nga pwde raman sultian!

[ruji119]

Tungod ani nga thread nakadumdom nuon ko aning istoryaha:

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While a man was polishing his new car, his 5 year old son picked up a stone and scratched lines on the side of the car.

In anger, the man took the child’s hand and hit it many times not realizing he was using a wrench. At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father….. with painful eyes he asked,

‘Dad when will my fingers grow back?’

The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.

Devastated by his own actions…… sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches; the child had written ‘LOVE YOU DAD’.
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Karaan na na nga story pero mao gyud na akong mahinumduman kun suko na ko kaayo kay nagpabadlong akong bata. Inig kahinumdom nako anang istoryaha, mokalma dayon ko.

There are many ways to tell your child nga sayop ilang gibuhat. Spanking/hitting is definitely not one of them.

mka hilak man ta ani uy mka remeber sad ta gamay hahaha