Cheap or Not: Girls giving Love letters?

[Apo ni Barabas]

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GUYs, would u find it cheap if a girl sends u a letter telling you how much she feels about you and how special you are to her? CHEAP OR NOT? please answere honeslty and walay bugal bugal...

HONESTY is cheap? I don't get it...

[bonniebonny]

ambot lang. pero para nako, hold ur horses girl.
dapat huwat nalang kay ang mga lalaki maflattered lagi, pero morag lainan kuno sila kung ang babaye maoy "manguyab" nila.i've asked my bf about that and he said, it's still better if they do the courting.

[KaTzKi]

if men can do it, women can do it too! i dun think tis cheap, altho most ppl wud think that way, pero pra nku OK rman nah.. ang mk'judge ana is ang kadtong mk'dawat.. lahi² mn sd gud ug concept kda tao, pero pra nku this is what u call "being honest".. if they cant handle that, screw them! :P

naa mn sd gud uban lalake hinay kayu, grabeh ka torpe mau usahay ang babae mangita nlng paagi mgpadala ug letters or somein like that. i even had this really close guy friend back in hiskul na naa patay kayu niya na classmate namu na hilumon kayu na gurl, the guy wus the "sikat" type. n guess what?! he received a snail mail from the gurl, as in. wla'y name but same handwriting. n ka paet lng cos ang guy dli gnahan sa gurl, he even gave the letter to me, aku ngkeep atoh, i dunno where i place it nah.. pero lahi² ang situation, maybe ugka hatag nmu he'll be very flattered n who knoes bsi he likes u too, ulaw lng sya.. dba?! *WINK*

[Apo ni Barabas]

exactly, KaTzKi!

if it's just an honest letter to tell the guy how she feels...she's not harassing or forcing herself on him...i wonder why that is considered cheap? we need more girls like that...honest, strong and assertive not submissive and subservient...

can't guys be man enough to be honest, open-minded, and tell the girl in a nice and friendly way (if the feeling IS NOT mutual) about how he feels as well? instead of being so indifferent and quick to judge...jeez.

[batterfly]

actually its more of if the reciever thinks it is cheap then it is. but lucky sender if the reciever feels the same way the sender does.

[xiamara]

it's not cheap you know.. in fact it is a very brave thing to do...
a girl who sends a guy a letter telling him of how she felt is not a thing that can be called cheap... it does not lessen the girl's dignity or morals...

[giver_bert]

if it's cheap? not really... but such scenario is very subjective though, everything will surely drill down to how the receiver (the guy) will take it - if it's something good for him, then he'll take it as a compliment, something that will surely boost his ego, if other way around, then expect things to be a bit awkward.. i find ladies doing this in control of their selves, not afraid to take on what they want, which i guess some ladies (time warped from the 50s) would definitely disagree.. we heard activities concerning women empowerment, and equality of rights and privileges.. and honestly i find this issue irrelative to what they are advocating. it's basically cultural aspects that drive these ladies to think such an actuation is cheap, well probably buffered also with their pride... (ooppss sorry, just my opinion ladies)

[tolstoi]

its not cheap at all ...but girls must be carefull also..have u heard bout *taking advantage*

[wikerfish]

it's okay raman if u'r in a relationship........ mingaw gud be.

[SPRINGFIELD_XD_40]

GUYs, would u find it cheap if a girl sends u a letter telling you how much she feels about you and how special you are to her? CHEAP OR NOT? please answere honeslty and walay bugal bugal...

It is not CHEAP ...... what is CHEAP is when you found out her feeling for you from someone else because she doesnt have the guts to let it go personally to you .