ok ra man makig date basta dili lang mag jerjer. unya ang imong bf sad, ipa-date sad sa uban babae para fair. di pa bitaw mo minyo.![]()
if youre the type to have a close-open relationship with no commitments at all, then ok ra ang makigdate sa lain.. BUT..
if you're the the type of person nga serious sa usa ka relationship ug gi value ang tao ug ang commitments ninyong duha.. then, skip the thoughts of even dating other guys..
People would say that because uyab pa mo you can just collect, collect and select..but please also bear in mind nga if ing.ani imong style if uyab pa mo, how much na kahag maminyo na mong duha? Why did you choose your bf/gf in the first place when makigdate paman kag lain? unsatisfied sa current one? if di ka satisfied why the hell did you stick with your current bf/gf in the first place paman.. if di man diay ka satisfied karon... let go and find another... your doing a good favor pa sa imong current bf/gf by simply telling him or her nga di ka satisfied nya.. and the sooner to be honest to your feeling to her/him, the better, aron walay magminahayay ug binasolay sa uwahi...
so kinsa man tong mag fling2x into going into dates w/ others bsag naay bf or gf na.. think about sad mo sa inyong self... are you satisfied with your self and w/ your present love? in every foundation of loving and committing to someone in a bf/gf relationship is honesty ug sense of commitment.. if wala pa kay klaro, then ayaw nalang pag uyab2x pa..
Some people learn the hard way. Maybe for them it's the only way to learn.
i think she only want her love life to be resilient.
if something goes wrong with her current bf, it will failover to her back up bf (active/passive)
para walay downtime (singleness)
ngek... morag CARP protocol sa failover... naa sad load balancing bro?![]()
life is full of risks.. dili lang kay sa relationship ra na..
from the moment you wake up, to the time you sleep.. you're always be prompted by decisions...if you decide something and it didn't work out the way you plan it out, then learn from it and move on.. there's no safety net to catch you if you ever fall down hard.. as they say.. life is the greatest teacher of them all.. it teaches you to fall down, and to climb up.. everyday is a learning process...learn and digest all of it.. no ifs and buts..ug again no failswitch device to fallback.. taste the dirt of life., its one way of becoming a better person jud
My "safety net" is to predict the maximum length of a relationship. I.e., if you have opposite personalities, and both of you are still immature teenagers, then it's illogical to expect for your relationship to last for 10 years. Once you have an idea on the length of your relationship, just enjoy it to the fullest and be happy once your time is up.
I dunno... I'm a pragmatic (or a cynic?), I guess. I just accept the fact that people come into our lives and quickly go; some stay for a while, while some people stay forever...
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yaw lng entertaina ang makig date nmo.. kamo nlng sa imo uyab pag date.
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