ei d ko nahan tawgon ug bogo bsan tinood pa na..kabug at pod ana nga word oi..ingna lng hinayon..heheh..para d au sakit vah..
ei d ko nahan tawgon ug bogo bsan tinood pa na..kabug at pod ana nga word oi..ingna lng hinayon..heheh..para d au sakit vah..
aw.... if akong mama.. molayas nalang ko ana kaysa makasakit pa ko og tao...
Ako ingnun :
Mao ba ma? Ana baya cla kung bogo ang anak mas bogo ang mama. Mao gani mu-ana na cla. Bogoa nimo ug mama uy. So ma, ayaw kalain ha, bogoa nmu uy!
my mom once told me i'm dumb ;( bata pko ato.. i think i was in 4th grade....
i felt bad siyempre...i think gisultian q ug ingato niya kay nagpatudlo q sa assignment namo niya di sad q maminaw sa explanation niya... it was the 1st time i ever asked help from my mom for a homework kay usually i do it myself in school... unya ing ato pa...faet...
la ko katubag ato..it lowered my self esteem.... honor student man q sa una..buang2 lang... after ato, i never tried to study or be diligent... hangtod kahuman nlng q ug college... i had the chance to confront her last year..1st yr med nko ato... kalimot nako ngano..basta i told her she's one of the reasons kung nganong shy-type kaayo q... kung nganong mobo kaayo ako self-esteem...maybe it's also one of the reasons kung nganong gaskul pako karon...to prove to her that i'm good sad..... she only said it once, but it left a mark on me.
bati jud... when i look back, makaingon jud q i'll never say such mean words to my future kids...
"ako ma, bogo ko gamay. Ikaw, bogo nga dako. We are family".
wla sad ko ka-experience ani but something like this happened to me and my siblings from my Papa. gi-rank mi sakong Papa kung kinsa pinaka-smart to less smart daw... ang among 2nd sibling maoy pinaka-ubos, ranked as slow... negative effect jud kaau xa, not only to herself but to everyone even to us her siblings. ky pra niya after what Papa did, everything was a competition. i am 3yrs younger to my sister, next ko niya sa among mg-igsoon and i am the only sister she has. akoy favorite sa amo Papa, what i like- i do get coz spoiled kaau ko..
to the point, nakapangutana pa akong ate kung anak ba jud xa sa akong Papa coz dli daw xa pinangga... til now after 28years, she still thinks everything is a competition and she envies me so much to the point that she often gives me a hard time...
but then, though she was like that to me and everyone else she turned out successful, we turned out to be successful...
my ate used to be a Cabin Crew for Qatar Airways,
I used to be a Cabin Crew for Qatar Airways as well,
our big bro is a Cabin Crew Senior Briefing Officer of Emirates
our youngest bro is a Licensed Engr working for an American Company in Lapu-lapu..
we are only four siblings in the family, all successful in our chosen field but then sad to know that our parents are here to witness all of it bcoz Dad passed away 18years ago and Mama passed away 16years ago...
the bottomline of this, though we were compared in a negative way, all of it was taken as a challenge, a positive challenge....![]()
so far wla pako kadungog n ingon akong mama ana....
sa aq frend,,mo share xa namo nga ingnon daw xa sa iya mama nga BOGO jud ka,,mao ng wala ka nka take og board ky bogo ka...wala pd kay ayo....
kung bogo pani cya,mka grad ba kaha ni cya??asta iya mama bogo...heheh
d kaha mo malain inyong mama pajud..tsk
In-ani ako buhaton
I Would Just Shut Up and sa huna2x lang ipagawas tanan libak. Kay kung magsukolsukol ka musamot kadugai ang iyang wali. I believe in the saying "Silence means YES".
-WEI?
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