How to Make Her Fall in Love with You

[captstar]

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in my opinion, there really is no standard procedures or how to's in dating a girl. i believe in being natural. in being real. in being the person you really are. no pretentions, no lies, just pure reality. in that way, mailhan jud ka sa girl kng knsa ka. if mainlove xa nmo, aw maau, if dili, awh friends nalang...just that simple. i find a person who seeks ways on how to make a girl say yes to be a desperate one. dili man gud na ma.dali2...a guy needs to establish his whole self with the girl jud kng tarong na relationship lang ang s2ryahan...

[Siobhan]

in chess...u have to sacrifice some of the important pieces inorder to gain checkmate....

sa mga gurls...ana pud...you have to sacrifice something that could make her happy......

make something which is unexpected......

ka cute oi.....makalany man sad nag heart.................

[devil@plax]

ka cute oi.....makalany man sad nag heart.................

hehehe....mura d.i soldering iron....hehehe

ana lang jud na ang reality ron oe...?heheh

[Sol_Itaire]

naa daw theory of HABIT-uation. if i remember it right..
step 1: first few days act like you are very interested in her
step 2: after a few days, try to avoid her
step 3: WAIT...
step 4: WAIT still...
step 5: WAIT ghapon (if she tries to contact you and demands to know what happened to u and why you are missing in action, that means she's concerned)
step 6: act MYSTERIOUS (say a sincere sorry for being away, and tell her stuff like "just needed time to be alone and think of some stuff...")
step 7: SENSE if na-intriga siya...
step 8: Meet up and TELL HER the truth why you were missing in action (say stuff like.. "u see i've been trying to avoid you because i feel something very special for you... i think i like you... would it be okay if i ask you to be my girlfriend?")
step 9: Be silent and WAIT for the answer
step 10: Listen & always look her in the eyes

good luck!

ahehehe this is funny

yeah it is just funny nothing more.

[Defiant]

Techniques are only effective if you know the Psychology behind them.

Like for example, don't commit the common mistakes that men do. Like NEEDINESS and PREDICTABILITY.

Neediness..

Unsa mani siya? One example is magsigeg panawag taga oras. Man, don't be a creep. Abe nimog madevelop siya ana?

NO.

Ikaw kuno..Naay taw nagconfess na ganahan siya nimo nya in-anaon ka? Diba SAMOK?

Predictability...

Predictability is boring. Mas kilig if UNPREDICTABLE.

For example: (On the phone)

ME: Hey, coffee ta na? When ka available?

HER: Thursday.

ME: Ha? Dili man ko available ana..Hehehe sige next time na lang..Sige sa, nagdali ko! Ciao! (Hang up)

HER: Wait..Etc.. (Mahibong ngano gibutang dayon)

On the surface, murag bastos..But I'm making her think of me. At the back of her mind she will think na "Kanus-a sad kaha siya libre sa?"

Unconsciously, SHE'S INVESTING HER EMOTIONS sa akoa. And that's good.

Can you feel me?

If you wanna learn more..Hang out w/ my friends. We're into dating stuffs, like theories, concepts, and techniques.

Nice lagi ni bai!! hehehehe.. sige hang out ta! hehehe.. gusto ko makat.on anang inyong Diskarte Arts! hehehe

[Defiant]

I agree that being direct is better..

Pero for me, I'd rather let her invest on me than me investing on her.

Common man gud ni sa mga lalake na "formula" (By the way, this is based on my own experiences and observations):

PROPOSE + INVEST = RESULT

Guys PROPOSE to girls first...Dayon pahuwaton pa sila sa mga girls and as a result, these guys INVEST their emotions sa ila gpanguyaban. How? By buying gifts, hatod kuha, tawag2x, text2x, bangkag kaon, pliti, etc! Hasol ra kaayo! Wahehehe! Later maghuwat sa RESULT if nakapasar ba or fail.

So I came up w/ my own "formula"...

It's ATTRACT + INVEST + PROPOSE

I'll attract the chick first, then I'll make her invest her emotions..Kana gani murag kadugayan kay mingawon na siya nako, magsige nag text, kana gani style na ishare nako niya sa iyang mga friends kay she thinks she's in love w/ me? Ka gets mo? After ana kay I'll make her "propose" pero in a subtle manner. Basta, you'll get the hint if pwede na siya panguyaban. Kana gani igdiskarte nimo sugton na ka niya dayon? Kana gani naghuwat na siya ug maayo nako na style? Or siya na lang jud ang mubuto...siya na ang mutug-an nako.

Diba payter?

If you wanna learn this, we can meet and discussed these things. I can share to you some references na akong gpanggamit. I'll even introduce you to the "community" diri sa Pinas.

Hahahaha! nice style bai! pero dia pud koy ako furmula! ganahan ka moingon dayon "O" ang babaye? ani lang pangutana....

Boy: Day, kung magkamang ang bitin, unsay mag.una?

Girl: "O"

Boy: ahw kita na? hehehehe

ok diba? katok pero most girls fall for humor! hehehehe

[cat23_aq]

based on experience.. JUST PLAY THE ROLE OF MR.NICE GUY.. sure un!

[Defiant]

Tinood nga naay mga "tricks" sa pag panguyab or making a girl fall for you (I agree with mikoy). Pero ang dako pud nga factor ana kay ang Physical features sa lalaki.. kung dli kaayo gwapo or taas or may datong... dli ghiapon ka humot sa imong ganahan jud nga babae...

Tinood makauyab ka pero kana ra pud maduol nimo ug trip.. lahi rajud nang sa mga ideal jud nimo na mga girls... kanang tipo nga imong ginalingi sa mga malls.. hehehehe.. you know what I mean? kanang mga hamis ug high breed jud nga chicks bah!

I don't mean to discriminate other girls but reality jud na nga ug makakita ka ug chiks nga lami jud sud.ongon, maka admire jud ka ug at the most, you would wish nga mao unta to xa imo mauyab. heheheh...

Pero unsaon man nga wla man mo something in comon and wla kay ikaatubang sa girl,,, (magamit nimo kung naa kay "tricks") but it would take lots of tricks to connect with somebody not your level...

[paumart]

Tinood nga naay mga "tricks" sa pag panguyab or making a girl fall for you (I agree with mikoy). Pero ang dako pud nga factor ana kay ang Physical features sa lalaki.. kung dli kaayo gwapo or taas or may datong... dli ghiapon ka humot sa imong ganahan jud nga babae...

Tinood makauyab ka pero kana ra pud maduol nimo ug trip.. lahi rajud nang sa mga ideal jud nimo na mga girls... kanang tipo nga imong ginalingi sa mga malls.. hehehehe.. you know what I mean? kanang mga hamis ug high breed jud nga chicks bah!

I don't mean to discriminate other girls but reality jud na nga ug makakita ka ug chiks nga lami jud sud.ongon, maka admire jud ka ug at the most, you would wish nga mao unta to xa imo mauyab. heheheh...

Pero unsaon man nga wla man mo something in comon and wla kay ikaatubang sa girl,,, (magamit nimo kung naa kay "tricks") but it would take lots of tricks to connect with somebody not your level...

Yes Bro personal factors are just additional points to the game, But I humbly disagree that without this additional physical factors you can't attract an A+ woman. I have friends nga pwerte gud ka disgwapo wa pa guy klaro nga mga trabaho but in terms of woman they got to have 9-9.5 type. I mean having no looks and money doesn't deprive you of having confidence towards women. Just remember "ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE". Its very easy for us Men to fall in love with the woman's look cause that is what were programed for.

Women can see but dont recognize on the outer shell of your personality but rather attracted to the inside shell of your persona, such as how are you taking the lead, confidence. How unpredictable you are, cocky & comedy type personality. These are just example of what they want but in general they want a leader who can stir the whells towards adventure. If she rejects you then remember the word "NEXT" it adds to your confidence that your not a kiss-to-her butt type of person.

[mik0y]

about this bah....it's a "by-the-book" approach...you really can't attest that this would work kay lahi2 jud ang huna2 sa taw...

Actually its not just "by-the-book" approach. It's reality. Thousands of men WORLDWIDE who are into that stuffs can attest to that.