Long Distance Relationships

[bowee]

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[QUOTE=storm_in_cloud9;9909152]

I guess it works if maningkamot mong duha na mo work ang relationship ryt? Lisod if usa ra ka side naninguha then pabaya ang other side. Ma paranoid na noon ka. Then moreklamo pa jud na ngano kinahanglan magchat kada adlaw ky kapoy daw sya sa trabaho unya kinhanglan kuno sya time pra iyang self. Di ba gud na naa na sya daghan time pra iyang kaugalingon ky sya ra man usa didto sa layo! Kamo Bowee sa imo gf magchat mo everyday? Pul-an ba either ninyo? Di ba kung love nimo usa ka tawo unya nalayo mo sa usag usa ma-miss man ta nimo imong pares and mag anticipate ka to talk sa iyaha?

hehehe.. are you talking here base on your experience bai?? hehehe... sa amo bro, we find ways to communicate... communications are not necessarily done thru chat alone.. we mostly do txt, then if we have a long time to spend, then we make a point to use video calls (thru skype).. Yes, we make a point to txt everyday.. thru her roaming number, chat, video calls? on my restdays only (on weekends)... it doesnt mean cya ra didto sa layo nga lugar.. maka spend cyag enough time nimo jud bai... bear in mind.. iyang pag.adto.. dili lingaw lingaw lang.. niadto cya to WORK.. to earn money... MAO na ang purpose why she went there...(as in my case) sometimes gani sa among pag skype.. she would just end it like after mi mag kumustahay and talking about our day.. because she is ON CALL always.. (she's working as a nurse by the way) and her time is devoted to her work... pero for once I never complain to her because I know, nga bisag pila pa kagamay ang time nga nag talk or nag chat mi.. she always make it a point to communicate with me.. every day.... Full total disclosure mi sa mong FB.. I gave her my password.. she gave me her password (in FB).. it's what we call being transparent... Though I respect her privacy still because I trust her and respect her as a person.. and I don't own her baya... Ana lang na bai.. though again, lain lain man tag ways of making LDR work.. but the bottom line in all of these.. is Constant Communication and Transparency.... Mao ra na akong ma contribute...

[storm_in_cloud9]

[QUOTE=bowee;9909242]

hehehe.. are you talking here base on your experience bai?? hehehe... sa amo bro, we find ways to communicate... communications are not necessarily done thru chat alone.. we mostly do txt, then if we have a long time to spend, then we make a point to use video calls (thru skype).. Yes, we make a point to txt everyday.. thru her roaming number, chat, video calls? on my restdays only (on weekends)... it doesnt mean cya ra didto sa layo nga lugar.. maka spend cyag enough time nimo jud bai... bear in mind.. iyang pag.adto.. dili lingaw lingaw lang.. niadto cya to WORK.. to earn money... MAO na ang purpose why she went there...(as in my case) sometimes gani sa among pag skype.. she would just end it like after mi mag kumustahay and talking about our day.. because she is ON CALL always.. (she's working as a nurse by the way) and her time is devoted to her work... pero for once I never complain to her because I know, nga bisag pila pa kagamay ang time nga nag talk or nag chat mi.. she always make it a point to communicate with me.. every day.... Full total disclosure mi sa mong FB.. I gave her my password.. she gave me her password (in FB).. it's what we call being transparent... Though I respect her privacy still because I trust her and respect her as a person.. and I don't own her baya... Ana lang na bai.. though again, lain lain man tag ways of making LDR work.. but the bottom line in all of these.. is Constant Communication and Transparency.... Mao ra na akong ma contribute...

You're right regarding anang transparency.Mao na wla niya specially kung pangutan-on nako nga wla katubag sa akong calls na kahibaw man ko off na sya ana nga time.Kapila na jud ni mahitabo.Maayo ba gud na ingon ana? Dli man ko mobawal kung molakaw sya but at least return my calls on time and mag inform kung asa ka padung and kinsa imo mga kuyog ky i would do the same.Diha mi sige ug away ky i dont know ngano dili sya motubag ug klaro then makahibaw jud ko na namakak ky dili man mo coincide iyang storya.Dha nako magsugod ug ka paranoid. Unsaon man gud kaning mga pinoy na naa didto puros man nangabit ug mga fillipina ra sad didto then storya sya bahin ana so i'm thinking maybe ni sulod sa iya utok na if mahimo nila then y not him.Mao jud na mo sulod ako utok.

[lylemark]

naa rana sa tao oi,..
naa rana sa pg.sabot,..
it will work if u want it to work,..
patience, faithfulness and loyalty lng jd,..
<3 <3 <3

[bowee]

I agree with u on that pre...

Once tua ka sa gawas.. kusog kau ni mangatik ang uban mga pinoy.. especially mga tagalogs (I am not a hater of them ha), manga edad nag 35 to 45 years old.. muingon pa jud ug ulitawo pa sila...mu suway ra ba jud ug panguyab sa girl (bisag naa nay uyab dire ang girl), they will give daw roses, money, chocolates, palambing and bsag unsa nalang nga bulatik.. aron alng mapa sugot nila ang girl...

why I know this?? because my gf tells me this always... daghan daw didto jud ing.ana.. naay uyab or minyo ang guy dire.. naa pud uyab or minyo na ang girl dire (sa Pinas)

My gf and I often before katong dire pa cya.. throws this types of guy as mga 'BARAKS', short cut for BARAKO!...

she would often say.. naa daw one time a BARAK gave her a bouquet of flowers and invited her for 'R&R...
I asked her what she replied.. she said she just laughed out at that guy and told the guy.. 'Sorry nalang Bosing.. I am married naman gud..., then she laugh at the guy....

Mura daw na insulto ang guy pag ingon nya ato..

Naka appreciate ko sa effort gbuhat sa akong GF... and not only that.. if manglaag sila (every friday, kay mao man na ang Restday sa KSA) she makes a point jud to wear our 'Ring'. So that any guys who makes an effort to woo her... get the idea that she is Engage already...

I told her our engagement ring is our sign of loyalty for each other... if you break our promise.. then I wont hold you back from breaking it... but I will hold you back for not just being open about it...

I told her.. One step at a time lang.. a year is compose of months.. and months compose of weeks and weeks are compose of days.....

one day at a time... and sooner or later.. I will finally get the chance to see her soon...

[storm_in_cloud9]

I agree with u on that pre...

Once tua ka sa gawas.. kusog kau ni mangatik ang uban mga pinoy.. especially mga tagalogs (I am not a hater of them ha), manga edad nag 35 to 45 years old.. muingon pa jud ug ulitawo pa sila...mu suway ra ba jud ug panguyab sa girl (bisag naa nay uyab dire ang girl), they will give daw roses, money, chocolates, palambing and bsag unsa nalang nga bulatik.. aron alng mapa sugot nila ang girl...

why I know this?? because my gf tells me this always... daghan daw didto jud ing.ana.. naay uyab or minyo ang guy dire.. naa pud uyab or minyo na ang girl dire (sa Pinas)

My gf and I often before katong dire pa cya.. throws this types of guy as mga 'BARAKS', short cut for BARAKO!...

she would often say.. naa daw one time a BARAK gave her a bouquet of flowers and invited her for 'R&R...
I asked her what she replied.. she said she just laughed out at that guy and told the guy.. 'Sorry nalang Bosing.. I am married naman gud..., then she laugh at the guy....

Mura daw na insulto ang guy pag ingon nya ato..

Naka appreciate ko sa effort gbuhat sa akong GF... and not only that.. if manglaag sila (every friday, kay mao man na ang Restday sa KSA) she makes a point jud to wear our 'Ring'. So that any guys who makes an effort to woo her... get the idea that she is Engage already...

I told her our engagement ring is our sign of loyalty for each other... if you break our promise.. then I wont hold you back from breaking it... but I will hold you back for not just being open about it...

I told her.. One step at a time lang.. a year is compose of months.. and months compose of weeks and weeks are compose of days.....

one day at a time... and sooner or later.. I will finally get the chance to see her soon...

I know ky I've been in those situations sad. Gahilas hilas lng,labi na jud ni mga tagalog.(No offense but based sa experience lang)

I envy ur relationship,maayo pa mo ky naningkamot mong duha ako.......well ambot na lang.kalas kaayo ug luha.

More power sa inyong duha Bowee ug imo GF!

I dont know til kanus-a ko ni maantos, sakit kaayo ako dughan.

[arf2]

actually same rani japun sa normal na relationship mu fail naa pud mu success ^^, i have knwn few people na ni work out for example kuya sa ako gf went to dubai for 3 yrs then human ni balik sya sa pinas para pakaslan iya gf ^^, another ako classmate 4yrs na sila..2nd year nila long distance but my fwen cant take it.. he went to cebu para mag collage para ma ubn saiya uyab ^^,

[awayfromHOME]

LDR is the best.

[qwertyqaz]

loosely defined term. relationship can be anything. so generally, it will work. but for marriage, thats where challenges get real as it gets

[awayfromHOME]

keep the fire burning...... in the absence of physical presence

I agree....

[chanel]

it's really hard to have long distance relationship.. but, thank GOD sa skype mura nasad feel naku duol sha...