Who here has love problems?

[L!ck!ty Spl!t]

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ako problem ra jud ts kay LDR ming duha mka mingaw di mag kita..

[crstina]

tell sd ko sa akoa story..

i fell inlove with this guy..
the kind of love that was deep. very deep.
we have decided to move in together in manila (ky tga manila mn xa)

so.
i asked permission on my mom about it.
i informed by boss here in cebu that I will be resigning..
i have saved a lot of money to get to him..

this is how i feel for him..
that ako jud gpanghandaan nga if wala xa trbaho i will work for him.
if mtiguwang nah xa and dli nah mkklaro ug tan.aw - dli ko mgsawa to guide him when he walks.
if mtiguwang nah xa and mkalbo, - i would shaved my head as well par duha nami nga upaw..
if msakit xa, i would personally take care of him..
if mpanaw mn xa before me, dli jud ko mpul.an iistorya sa akong mga anak ug mga apo ang among love story..
that's how i love him..

and yes..
but he broke my heart.
he wanted me to join a religion which he is also a member,
And I said yes! I will for him..
and then he just said that he wanted me to convert not because of him but because I am willing to.
I said that the only reason nga mgconvert ko is because of him.
Then he said, khbalo bka nga bawal mi mgkrelasyun if dli namo same religion..
And he just said that after 2years!
That was the month that i should be going to manila to live with him...

now,
it has been two years yet i still feel the pain.
i cannot say that it was his fault that I am miserable.
it is my fault because i let myself fall in love with him..
i did think a lot nga bcn ngduwag lng toh xa to make the next level (which siya ang nsuggest daan).
still it is my fault..


now, i do have a boyfriend.
yet my heart no longer is looking for love.
everytimg naay gesture akong uyab which sa ubang babae is kilig or romantic - i could no longer feel it
everytime i would feel in-love, my mind says (no, he is just lying).
How can i trust again when the person i trusted so much said everything that could be said to entrust my heart broke it?

everytime a man calls me with an endearment name, or courts me,
my heart and mind always tells - No, he is just lying..
I could no longer tell a sincere statement from a lie.
all of my exes did propose to me, but i could no longer feel anything.
i did let them go and explained that i could no longer feel love to anyone.
surely it did broke their heart but they cannot help me, i cannot help myself fixing my heart.

busa kamo mga guys ang gurls,
please do not make it a practice to break someone elses heart.
it really is a pain and the healing process really takes a long time and does CHANGES someone's outlook in life.

[twinkletwinklestar]

tell sd ko sa akoa story..

i fell inlove with this guy..
the kind of love that was deep. very deep.
we have decided to move in together in manila (ky tga manila mn xa)

so.
i asked permission on my mom about it.
i informed by boss here in cebu that I will be resigning..
i have saved a lot of money to get to him..

this is how i feel for him..
that ako jud gpanghandaan nga if wala xa trbaho i will work for him.
if mtiguwang nah xa and dli nah mkklaro ug tan.aw - dli ko mgsawa to guide him when he walks.
if mtiguwang nah xa and mkalbo, - i would shaved my head as well par duha nami nga upaw..
if msakit xa, i would personally take care of him..
if mpanaw mn xa before me, dli jud ko mpul.an iistorya sa akong mga anak ug mga apo ang among love story..
that's how i love him..

and yes..
but he broke my heart.
he wanted me to join a religion which he is also a member,
And I said yes! I will for him..
and then he just said that he wanted me to convert not because of him but because I am willing to.
I said that the only reason nga mgconvert ko is because of him.
Then he said, khbalo bka nga bawal mi mgkrelasyun if dli namo same religion..
And he just said that after 2years!
That was the month that i should be going to manila to live with him...

now,
it has been two years yet i still feel the pain.
i cannot say that it was his fault that I am miserable.
it is my fault because i let myself fall in love with him..
i did think a lot nga bcn ngduwag lng toh xa to make the next level (which siya ang nsuggest daan).
still it is my fault..


now, i do have a boyfriend.
yet my heart no longer is looking for love.
everytimg naay gesture akong uyab which sa ubang babae is kilig or romantic - i could no longer feel it
everytime i would feel in-love, my mind says (no, he is just lying).
How can i trust again when the person i trusted so much said everything that could be said to entrust my heart broke it?

everytime a man calls me with an endearment name, or courts me,
my heart and mind always tells - No, he is just lying..
I could no longer tell a sincere statement from a lie.
all of my exes did propose to me, but i could no longer feel anything.
i did let them go and explained that i could no longer feel love to anyone.
surely it did broke their heart but they cannot help me, i cannot help myself fixing my heart.

busa kamo mga guys ang gurls,
please do not make it a practice to break someone elses heart.
it really is a pain and the healing process really takes a long time and does CHANGES someone's outlook in life.

give yourself so much time. time heal all wounds.

[caris.]

My story

January 1, 2010 when i said YES to him. January 1, 2013 we ended our relationship. Its just so heartbreaking na di na jud d.i ma save. Kung wala na ang TRUST, RESPECT and TIME there's no point of giving it a try.

[reino]

My story

January 1, 2010 when i said YES to him. January 1, 2013 we ended our relationship. Its just so heartbreaking na di na jud d.i ma save. Kung wala na ang TRUST, RESPECT and TIME there's no point of giving it a try.

whoa what a sad story from the beginning to and end... there is an end to the pain. find and outlet, try something new and meet someone new hehehe

[caris.]

whoa what a sad story from the beginning to and end... there is an end to the pain. find and outlet, try something new and meet someone new hehehe

I will..Thanks

[bsky]

ako 23 nako wala pa gyud GF dili ko bayot ha ambot lng ani oi maski ako naglibog...
haha torpe man gud ko ba tapos loner and awkard kaau sa mga chiks ambot lng gyud pero wala pud ko kaingon nga problema ni para sa akoa.
Wala koy uyab pero murag ma dutlan naman ko oi kana ganing pangutan-on ka sa imong Family, relatives and friends nganong wala pakay uyab.

ning labay ra daw ang panahon nga sige rakog computer games dapat daw mature nako hahaha ngano diay kung akong lifestyle kay computer games and hanging out with friends through computer games hahaha...

[chris_kakashi24]

ako TS!

this is my story:

i had this bf when i was in college year 2003 pero among relationship is way klaro ky chickboi kaau cya, as in mo communicate lang cyag kalit nko then mawa nasad pila ka weeks or months,walay permanent number so di gyud nako cya ma reach cya ray kabaw sa akong number.pagkauyab namo na inlove jud kog maau ani nya kay he has the sense of humor na turn on jud ko which is wala nako nakita from my past relationships and even sa akong husband karon.on and off jud among comunication wala mi klaro nga closure,kung magkakita mig balik ok mi kung di nasad ok lang gihapon mi frends lang gihapon mi, maski kaybaw nami nga naa mi mga uyab ato na time.pero maski naka uyab nko after nya naa lang gihapon times na mokalit lang cyag sud sa akong huna2x, mag damgo ko nya.days,months,years past until i got married and so is he.frends mi sa fb usahay mag ka chat mi pero purely friendly things ra among storyaan,di mi mag storya sa among na agian or namong duha and pnagsa ra sad kaau kay dili kaau cya tig online.until 1 time nag ka chat mi nangau cyag number so i give him not my main number but my extra sim.ni txt dayon cya pag log out.kumusta na daw ko,about mga problema and etc. nya ako cya ge ingnan molakaw ko and sad cya asa ko ako sad cya ge ingnan asa akong destination.wa ko nag expect na niadto sad diay cya sa ako destination so nagkakita jud mi.mao to nagkatalk mi for awhile,we shared experiences sa married life,problems.ni abot sa point nihilak ko ni ask cya nganu nihilak ko ako cya ge ingnan na konsensha ko.nikalit bitaw na cya ask nko ani na question: "naa ko pangutana nimo,naa pakay feelings nko?" na shock ko.i answered wala na.honestly diko kasabot skong self,di man sad ko kaingon na inlove pko nya but murag gemingaw lang ko sa mga things na nakapakatawa nko kung akong reminisce murag lahi na kalipay akong na feel ato bah.so nakahinumdom na nuon kog balik namong duha.nihilak kog samot.iyang ge trapohan akong tears nya ge gunitan nya akong kamot.ana cya strong man akong pagkaila nimo ayawg hilak strong man akong pagkaila nimo.then i ask the same question f naa paba cya feelings nko.dugay kaau cya nitubag nya but then he said wala na.pero ang pagka ingon is pretending bitaw(dko assuming pero mailhan man jud if from the heart ang tubag kay mka tubag ka sa questions promptly).then ni follow up pa gyud cyag ingon "if mutubag kog naa pakoy feelings i know dika mahimutang ig abot sa inyo mao ni ana kog wala na".then i said wala na tay mahimo now kay puros nata minyo lets leave everything behind.then we had a closure then he says sorry .ni ask cya ug embrace but i refused.then we parted.

after that incident murag mo boto akong heart diko kasabot...daghan unta kog questions na ipangutana nya pero wa nko na ask nya.

even sa akong mga dreams mo exist gihapon cya diko kasabot nganu ingani cya kadako ug impact nko..

unsay ma sulti nimo ani TS?

Sorry For the VERY LATE REPLY >_<

so your situation is really hard if you don't move on.
I mean you got to. . . .

It appears that your dreams are tied to your desires while awake. As difficult and harsh as this sounds-move on and take what you've learned with you.

You, yourself is what causing these dreams to be happening you are subconsciously creating <with in your mind/self> a version of you being with him/ making him still be a part of you! >_< IF YOU WANT THESE DREAMS TO STOP THEN YOU'D HAVE TO DO THE RIGHT THING AND MOVE ON

It may hurt but it'll be more settled that way since you already BOTH have a partner/married. . . .

Things you can do is by:

~Getting yourself busy
~Concentrating on the now <dont think about the past>
~Be WITH your HUSBAND <LOVE HIM!>
do these and after a year more or so you might find the feelings for that person/man to be just as friends <hopefully>

So i say to you good luck with whatever decisions you will/have made!

keep in touch let me know how this goes? okay? :3

[chris_kakashi24]

ako problem ra jud ts kay LDR ming duha mka mingaw di mag kita..

BRO! hey there~

I see you're having problems with LDR?
well all you can do <That is if you really do love her and you are willing to wait for her> is be patient bro! Opportunity is always around the corner, she might visit you someday or better yet live with you/ Try to be with you/ Send you to where she is. . . as i've said opportunity is around the corner you just might not know TRUST ME after sometime it will all be WORTH THE WAIT!

"Absence makes thy heart grow fonder."

Well you can always do ....

Video Chatting? <skype, YM, FB> Helps if you want to see her, Digitally that is, :3 and you can make it a bit kinky <If she is up to it> by having Video S** Chat. It's not that bad, and it helps with the lonely part. It might seem awkward at first but it can be fun if you know how to make it more interesting

LETTERS! YES! Snail mail letters <aka Old school mailing of letters> This can be a quite entertaining and a fun activity for both of you write your thoughts on paper and everyday happenings, though it might cost a bit more than using the internet but it is exciting! waiting for replies, writing, expressing through writings, drawings? <could be >. . . . this way there'll be a bit of a connection through paper <the essence of the touch>

hmmm yeah that's all i could come up till now let me know if you still need help with this LDR thing it's not always easy but you can make it fun if you know how to handle it

[chris_kakashi24]

tell sd ko sa akoa story..

i fell inlove with this guy..
the kind of love that was deep. very deep.
we have decided to move in together in manila (ky tga manila mn xa)

so.
i asked permission on my mom about it.
i informed by boss here in cebu that I will be resigning..
i have saved a lot of money to get to him..

this is how i feel for him..
that ako jud gpanghandaan nga if wala xa trbaho i will work for him.
if mtiguwang nah xa and dli nah mkklaro ug tan.aw - dli ko mgsawa to guide him when he walks.
if mtiguwang nah xa and mkalbo, - i would shaved my head as well par duha nami nga upaw..
if msakit xa, i would personally take care of him..
if mpanaw mn xa before me, dli jud ko mpul.an iistorya sa akong mga anak ug mga apo ang among love story..
that's how i love him..

and yes..
but he broke my heart.
he wanted me to join a religion which he is also a member,
And I said yes! I will for him..
and then he just said that he wanted me to convert not because of him but because I am willing to.
I said that the only reason nga mgconvert ko is because of him.
Then he said, khbalo bka nga bawal mi mgkrelasyun if dli namo same religion..
And he just said that after 2years!
That was the month that i should be going to manila to live with him...

now,
it has been two years yet i still feel the pain.
i cannot say that it was his fault that I am miserable.
it is my fault because i let myself fall in love with him..
i did think a lot nga bcn ngduwag lng toh xa to make the next level (which siya ang nsuggest daan).
still it is my fault..


now, i do have a boyfriend.
yet my heart no longer is looking for love.
everytimg naay gesture akong uyab which sa ubang babae is kilig or romantic - i could no longer feel it
everytime i would feel in-love, my mind says (no, he is just lying).
How can i trust again when the person i trusted so much said everything that could be said to entrust my heart broke it?

everytime a man calls me with an endearment name, or courts me,
my heart and mind always tells - No, he is just lying..
I could no longer tell a sincere statement from a lie.
all of my exes did propose to me, but i could no longer feel anything.
i did let them go and explained that i could no longer feel love to anyone.
surely it did broke their heart but they cannot help me, i cannot help myself fixing my heart.

busa kamo mga guys ang gurls,
please do not make it a practice to break someone elses heart.
it really is a pain and the healing process really takes a long time and does CHANGES someone's outlook in life.

Hey There! let me just say this. . .
You are a one of a kind girl, >_<
The way you LOVED that man is quite extraordinary. He should have been the one regretting why he had left you. . . . You deserve someone WAAAAAAAAY better than him :/

Though the part when he asked you to change your religion because you wanted to not because you wanted to be with him was kind of a bold move, it might have signal'd him that you might not be as faithful to his religion as he is that would be very hard in the future. Conflicts may arouse in the future because of cultures that could have ties with its religion.

Another thing is GIVE YOURSELF A CHANCE . . . . give yourself a break, a chance to fall in love again, a chance to be LOVED again . . . you might be able to find yourself in the arms of a man 10 times better than him.

And DON'T GENERALIZE this on all men, . . . . i mean isnt it unfair for some guys as well that they treat you so right and make you their whole world yet they are getting treated back so bitterly? think about it it's not that easy for us guys as well, COURTING is hard work >_< it's not like guys ask out women and <bam> just like that they are lovers . . . . .

GIVE YOURSELF MORE TIME! Don't date, Don't flirt, Don't mingle too much with guys . . . . Heck just live your life as it is LIVE IN THE NOW, Be with the people who do care about you a lot . . . .Family, Friends, Close Friends, BFFs <i know we all have this>, etc . . . . Don't mind about love JUST YET . . . .

"Your heart will tell you when ever it is ready to love again!"

... And Trust me IT WILL BE CAPABLE OF LOVING AGAIN

Hope to hear from you soon you can PM me if you need more help with moving on/just need someone to talk to