Unsaon pag buwag ?what if you found this online post by your 3 years boyfriend ???

[sexybianca]

weird na hurt ka kay kita ka sa post imo bf? What if wala? then u still love him right?Instead turning the situation to a negative outcome, why dont you look on the bright?Dont you realize ur bf posted here , its a sign nag lisod cya open nmo?By doin this ur giving ur bf post a good foundation na magbuwag mu.prove him wrong and talked to him , rather post.Just my advice

thanks ts, we're working on it.. but di sya musugot. . sige ko ingon buwag nami if di na sya happy, but ana sya mo hold on pa daw sya nako kay happy sya, ako daw ang di

[sexybianca]

lol na bf nmo TS. ngano nag post man sya ana knowing na tig online man ka or gi unsa nmo pag kita ani na site TS tungod rapud sa imo BF?.. sakto jud ang kasabihan '' You reap,what you sow''.

actually ts, di ko member sa istorya, ako ra gi search iya email sa google kay secretive man gud na akong uyab, unfair kay bah, kay open kay ko sa iyaha, but sya dili open nako.. i don't know nganu di sya musugot mag buwag mi, maybe kay daghan na sya nagasto nako or sayangan sya sa time

[sexybianca]

Miss, pag mosulti gani kag buwag namo with conviction ha?! Dili kanang buwag nata nya kiss dayon?! Toink.. Ikaw ray makasulbad sa imong problema miss, if buwag gani, buwag dayon. Don't send confusing signs..ok?! Good luck ts.

thanks ts but naa one time, last year, kadaghan na jud, ahm na kafeel jud ko nga lahi na sya, i don't know pa sa iya post sa istorya, ... naka feel ko ug lahi so nakig break ko niya, di sya, makigtalk ko nga d healthy amu relationship di sya mu sugot.. ambot nganu sya, ana sya kato daw iya gi post sa istorya last year ka joke ra daw! ambot niya oe

[muchacha00]

by the way TS is "Thread Starter" man cguro...

[sexybianca]

hey TS, aww bitaw maam sakit gyud ni sha lalo na mabasahan nimo nga ing ana diay iyang feelings and to rub salt to the wound, he posted it pa online. Yup, sakit kaayo sha emotionally and as a girl, thats tantamount to rejection from someone whom you thought love you for 3 long years...BUT, im not picking sides TS.. but have you tried to reconsider the side of your bf? Like me for example, i posted a lot of hurtful things to my palalabs due to my emotions and the need to say it out albeit anonymously, hence writing what i feel at that MOMENT online. I really dont care what he is going to feel when he reads it because im just writing on what i feel; kumbaga "moment ko to " and of course to solicit what others may say about it.Thats the beauty of writing stuff online, you are able to air out what you feel but having that sort of impersonality as well by hiding under your "alias". Writing online though even with your alias to cover you up is a double edged sword, it could go back to you and hurt you more just like what happened to your bf when you learned about what he posted. I sure dont blame you for your reactions to his post. i might react the same way you do especially after reading it.But then, think about how your bf reacted when learned you were able to read it, im assuming that when he created his post you were not yet an istoryan based on your post, he doesnt want to let go and he wants to work on the relationship. anyway what im trying to say try to listen on what he is saying but he owes you a big one though. Hopefully, you guys can talk it out and see whether a 3 yr-old relationship is worth saving.. best of luck!

i hope so ts.. but today nakig buwag na pud ko nya, i want this relationship end.. mao ra gihapon ang labas

[sexybianca]

Apil2x ug SEB miga... Solve lagi na imong problema. hehehehe!

unsay SEB migo? haha

[afro.samurai10]

When saying "I love you" feels empty. When texting her feels like a chore. When calling her feels like a bore, When hearing her feels like naggingWhen holding her hand feels so cold. When looking at her eyes you see nothing. When speaking to her you feel hatred. Will you hold on and try to get the spark back? or try to cool off with each other?I need your advice istoryans. ____ i found out this post last march of 2012, he posted this one aug. 2011, and now he's trying his best to still work on our relationship.. i can really feel nga d nako niya love last year, and ako pud murag napul.an na, we did talked about it, but di sya willing makig break.. UNSAON PAG BUWAG UG UYAB ?? NEED YOUR ADVISE ISTORYANS!

If you are counting your relationship by days, months, years then that relationship is for show only.

Why do you count the days that go by when you are together? You only count things if you are bored.
for example if you are bored working, you count the number of working hours so that after 8 hrs you will go home.

do not count your relationship by years... count it on how happy you are with each other. On how your heart is always racing every time you are with each other. The years will pass by like seconds. Its as if you just knew each other yesterday.

If you are not happy with your relationship anymore, and texting your BF/GF with a simple "HI" bores you. THen let it go. It is not worth it anymore.

[sexybianca]

by the way TS is "Thread Starter" man cguro...

HAHAHA Sorry bro!!! i thought TS isToryanS..!! LOL hahaha!! sorry poh!!

[sexybianca]

If you are counting your relationship by days, months, years then that relationship is for show only.Why do you count the days that go by when you are together? You only count things if you are bored.for example if you are bored working, you count the number of working hours so that after 8 hrs you will go home.do not count your relationship by years... count it on how happy you are with each other. On how your heart is always racing every time you are with each other. The years will pass by like seconds. Its as if you just knew each other yesterday. If you are not happy with your relationship anymore, and texting your BF/GF with a simple "HI" bores you. THen let it go. It is not worth it anymore.

A very inspiring quote thanks bro.. (sigh) reality hurts.

[jdane]

good luck ts..