What will you do if your relationship becomes this?

[nakaigo]

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di ko ganahan mu talk niya about this cuz basin ma hurt niya iya feelings,
I'm trying everything I can think of to get the spark back but we always end up arguing about past mistakes, hahay, ingana jud na ang mga girls, easily forgives but never forgets, tsk2x

hhmmmm..plan B....
try kuno mog talk nga maghubo tanan..
this sounds funny but tried and tested nman ni...

[marcus2015]

let go.....-_-

[angel_brey]

Para nako, based on my past experiences (since kadaghan naman jud ko ni fall in love and got hurt and vice versa), para nako whether you are the GUY or the GIRL who is not feeling it anymore, it is better to speak the TRUTH because only the TRUTH shall set you FREE! For me, bull crap na ang ingun nila na huwata ang girl na siya maka realize its not working and let her be the one to break up with you coz believe me, I have been there and it sucks like hell knowing that all these time that you have been together and you just didn't see the signs and you thought you two are still in love and then boom you find out from somebody else na dili na diay in love ang guy nimo, it really hurts so bad in our part! Mas maka save paka sa inyung FRIENDSHIP, you will still remain friends, at the same time, you have freed yourself and spared yourself of having another day with all those feelings that you have mentioned in your poem! Sakit man when you end it, but then what can we do? Like they say, Love chooses US, not US who chooses love! If love chooses to come through your door, then by all means, welcome it with open arms! But if someday it chooses to leave, LET IT GO! For when it returns, then it only means one thing, it was all meant to be for both YOU and HER! Sometimes, it takes having space to know the importance of one person! So let go! If your feeling comes back that you will miss her, then win her back! But if it does not, then that is it! Just simply SET HER FREE! Malay mo, basin pareho ra sad mo ug na feel na locked up in your current relationship and feeling empty inside!

Good luck and God bless!

[dropdeadgorgeous]

if the spark is gone, just leave... but leave with an honest reason!

[kemalzeppy]

thanks for your comments fellow istoryans

I dont know how the spark faded,maybe gradual cuz I did'nt notice until my gf" said to me days ago

"The person whom I fell inlove with 2 years ago has change, it feels like your a different person hon but I love you please don't change"

mao na iya gi say (except in visaya and english lang) I'm desperately trying to find ways not for my sake but for the sake of our relationship and for her.

The major obstacle I face is, she always remembers my mistakes, everytime I do something she is already expecting something bad, just like when I suddenly treat her, mu ana cya nga maybe I did something behind her back niya gi treat nako cya para di ko ma konsensiya; thats the reason why I easily get irked.

right now I'm trying to find ways to bring the spark back, maybe a two year relationship is worth the effort. hopefully

[yujjieo]

two years? there's more to come bro. and mind you, even worse than that. you might want to think back how you two started. try to assess yourself or maybe yourselves. if your gf said something to you, i think there's also a need for you to say something. talk to her. it doesn't make you less of a man if you try to tell her how u really feel. i mean, diba? after all, that's the most important thing in a relationship... proper and regular communication.

maybe nawad-an lang kag gana because u know you'll be judged in the end (just what you said in your post). in regards with your gf, maybe she lost her trust bro. you must've done something for her to always doubt you. then again, talk to her..

naa rana nmu bro. if you think you can still bear it, then agwantaha.
if you think you can't anymore, then tell her. be honest. let go of her and move on.

don't get yourself stuck in a mess. mu.lala nya na. mas dako'ng problema.

cheer up bro. think. reflect. decide. talk.

update nya ha! hehehe

[Le'rei]

thanks for your comments fellow istoryans

I dont know how the spark faded,maybe gradual cuz I did'nt notice until my gf" said to me days ago

"The person whom I fell inlove with 2 years ago has change, it feels like your a different person hon but I love you please don't change"

mao na iya gi say (except in visaya and english lang) I'm desperately trying to find ways not for my sake but for the sake of our relationship and for her.

The major obstacle I face is, she always remembers my mistakes, everytime I do something she is already expecting something bad, just like when I suddenly treat her, mu ana cya nga maybe I did something behind her back niya gi treat nako cya para di ko ma konsensiya; thats the reason why I easily get irked.

right now I'm trying to find ways to bring the spark back, maybe a two year relationship is worth the effort. hopefully

you really love your gf...but you cant blame her, maybe nasakitan pud xa sa imo mga binuhatan before...
girls can forgive but cant forget...maybe she was vocal lng on what she feel...
I think more effort lng to bring back the trust sa imoha...show her nga you changed, and different you na ang karn compare before...

[ches1091]

move on coz wla nay spark . been there na . 4 yrs rel. with a wrong guy . saying i love you feels empty . dli na nako xa ma miss . vice versa cguro . mao to end up nalng kesa magstay ka sa isa ka relationship nga wla nay spark pa

[Jiggy]

move, move, move// back up, back up back up!!!! heheheh

[yujjieo]

move on coz wla nay spark . been there na . 4 yrs rel. with a wrong guy . saying i love you feels empty . dli na nako xa ma miss . vice versa cguro . mao to end up nalng kesa magstay ka sa isa ka relationship nga wla nay spark pa

ngano nagpaabot man sd kag 4 years intawn ateh??! hehe. btw, my girl and i, hapit mi na ingon ani.. it felt empty. no more sparks. as in, no feelings. we just talked and decided that we should give ourselves some time to think. after that, we communicated again and agreed to go out of town together with some friends.. sukad ato, wa naju'y makapa buwag namu! hahaha.

sometimes, mawad-an jd ta'g gana. but come to think of it, you actually endured 2 years.. (TS).. then just let it go ky wa na'y spark? unsa nalang na'ng "commitment" anah? just do your best. just try. but if things really won't work. then, there you go. time to move to the other room! hehehe..