binli lng gamay imung kaugalingon TS.. pra sa umabot nga delubyu.. unya rka mag desisyon ana kung mag minyu namu..knang sure na bah..
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There's nothing wrong with giving what you can to a girl that you love. All guys share the same sentiments as you do, since guys give what we can if we truely feel the need to.
But always live a space of love for yourself-- this we call "Self Respect".
If you know that a you a being used and choose not to face that fact, ofcourse, imuha jud na. But think rationally, and look at her actions as it is, and if it is beneficial to you, and not only to her. relationships are a two-way thing. BOTH should be happy and not just one.
Secondly, girls do not need material-love. It is enough for girls for a guy to give her his time, affection and attention. Girls who truely love you do not ask for anymore, since they know that material items cannot replace what they already have with you. If you sense a girl who doesn't consider your contribution to the relationship, then leave her flat.
Do not love someone who does not love you -- beacuse in the long run, you inturn do not love yourself anymore.
TS lisod na imo gibuhat kay mao man imo kind of love eventually try gyud change your way of love, it's hard to keep something to change labi na grabe ma in-love, ayaw lang gyud hatag tanan nimo feelings pati material things...tsk tsk gugma...FAET!
dli gyud uta i hatag tanan bro kay mka spoil na sa babae....sunod ana masuko nana kung dli makuha iya gusto....
^^ you cant buy love bai..... maypa imo nalang na gigamit ang imong kwarta aron e.pamper imong self..
rather than pampering others without any assurances that in the end.. they will love you back sad.....
grow up. i hope nka learn nka sa imo na experience.

In a relationship, it is never good to give all you can for the other. Having a partner who is too dependent on you or on materialistic things to be happy isn't healthy either. When one partner keeps on getting spoiled and given what they want, they get bored. Boring. Not challenging at all. (Perhaps this is even the reason why I can't seem to shake off a lover? I refuse, I deny, I reject. I keep reprimanding not to constantly give gifts. And we pay alternately for dates. XD)
It's not good to be clingy as well.
If you want a relationship that lasts, deliberate if you are serious at the very least to accept the consequences of your actions... like... mapreggy ang girl (people nowadays are too active).
Misunderstandings and time off from each other spice things up. Put a bit of challenge in it without resulting to third parties. No possible victim of betrayal one wants that.
All you can do is Share your Love and never expect things to Return...
most people have frustrations about Love because they expect the reciprocal of the things they gave...
"Give and give until it hurts" that's the essence of sharing and giving... a true meaning of a LOVE.
Giving yourself to the one you Love...
Just don't expect much.
If you really Love the person Truly... You really don't count of the things she can give in return.
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