groast!
groast?
unsa na bai?

lolz.cant help but post something from this thread.find it a bit interesting.
harn ma kutaw sad atoang utok..anyweys..
so far from what ive realized..we have four psychological needs, like.. love and belonging, power, freedom, and fun. These needs are genetically programmed from us, we have this ability to seek with our needs before we even know why we are doing it..
Even if we miss to realize why we did such thing..but we still remember feeling good about it..
The physical affection affects children's emotional and sexual health too. If a child is distanced from one parent, then there is an "unmet" need or "missing piece" for an intimacy with its parent. now the child will search on his missing peice in someways the best they can..
now the issue about sibling taboos are ones who lived with abusive and rejected by their parents may turn to each others closer relative for "comfort and support" and this situation may put the child going thru puberty in jeopardy. This suggests that a male sibling that starts puberty has a missing piece that is needed for comfort and support, this may have a bigger possibilities he will turn to his sister to meet these needs of comfort.
why?
NOTE: *UNLESS THE CHILD IS LESS EXPOSED TO SOCIETY OR SOCIAL INTERACTIONS*
relatives by blood are the only ones whom we can go or talk too w/o the awkward feeling..
now we may assume that his sister may be willing to give love from his brother in order to get her needs attained aswell, from here..Incest will begin between both of them..this happens because they both live with the same pair of inutil parents.
but there are several explanations why incest occurs on random family clans, but so far, ive only understood the issue regarding brother-sister taboo controversy..lolz..
When parents are incompetent and abusive, it places the childrens at risk for sibling-incest in brother-sister families..
sos naglibog jud ko sabot.. cge lng basta thanks 4 the info...
Wala ni ayo incest oi...
Pero if cousins, let's say kanang 3rd degree above, i think it's okay naman siguro... although gross pa gamay pero its acceptable naman.
Naa gani ko 2nd degree cousin sa una, nagka kita rami 20's nako, then cia murag 14 years old na, chix kaau, murag dili lawas ug 14 years old, mura na ug 18 or 19... Nah, di jud ka maka ingon nga lo0d kay chix jud kaayo.. pero wala ko ni make og move... heheheh
kahadlok ba ani na topic oi..
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