at d brink! of being an old maid

[ed168III]

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be a single mother nalang at least, or test tube baby, so far wla pa lagi ga regret dri, i dont think you choose this or its just ur been chosen to be like this, or wala jud love??

[ei]

being married or having a kid does not ensure happiness mn guro. Happiness is a choice! So whether you're single or married, have kids or not, it doesn't really matter. Ikaw ray kahibaw unsa imong kalipay. Kung kalipay nimo na dli mag mag minyu, ok ra bya.. Dli mn sad cguro pasabot na wla nang jud kay life kung dli ka minyu.. Dli lng sad ta mu judge and lain na kung old maid kay lonely.. kay wla mo kahibaw na naa cyay family, big ilang family, daghan cya manghud nya iya pud gibantayah, murag nag act napud cya mom sa iyang mga manghud kay maybe sayo namatay ila parents. Whatever her reasons are for being an old maid, iyaha na na.. ang important is happy cya.. Remember that happiness is a choice. If you choose to be happy, everybody happy.. hehe

[christinetinetineo6]

akung yaya is i think 60? and she's still single. sige lang kug panungog nya. and aku sha i tupo2 sa amung silingan nga wala pud naminyo nga tiguwang na pud. hahaha

[bowee]

Being a spinster or being an adult bachelor is a choice..

In the pursuit of celibacy and singlehood is an admirable trait. I don't believe in the saying that Each one of us has someone set by fate or by destiny and we should just wait for that someone when he /she comes in our life...

For me, every person that came or had come already in our life, was pre-destined or predined for us. Though the sad circumstances and fates that have played or toyed made that someone pass behind, and is already now in the arms of somebody (other than us). We should not be bitter that we didnt get to enjoy together with that someone because somehow and someway... you and that someone have made a beautiful moments before. And that is all that matters lang. The moments that you have shared with that someone in your life before.

Life's beauty is that we are always and constantly after time... Some have move on and some have just stayed still.. For those that have moved on.. you can see them already in the arms of their new love... For those who have stayed still... You can see them still trying to cope up or have cope up already and yet doesn't want to entertain new love already. These persons are just enjoying their blessed state of singlehood and is happy with being single because for them.. being single intakes that you don't have to worry about someone but yourself. Less heartache means more time for oneself. And enjoying life as they perceived fit for them only. No cares just being happy with themselves.

I admire these persons who have chosen a path of blessed singleness.. These types stand proud and independent. They don't need a person to love or to love them back. They can perfectly co-exist and be self reliant only to themselves and bear the pain and hurt without needing someone to have a shoulder to lean on to.

These are the persons who I can really admire....

[depzi]

its not about being "pili.an"
There people who are born to be single for life

ayay maka relate ko ani dah...30 na raba ko...tsk tsk tsk

[Cory1986]

^^ i dont see myself getting married and having family. Am i normal or nuts? i see myself being single and being a missionary and serving people. life can be fulfilling for me in that way, i guess..

[GOOGLE]

part na sa relationship ang masakitan. weee akong partner karon preggy ug twin..

lahi rajd if matiguwang nga dalaga/ulitawo.

[h2o_tolerant]

murag padung nako ani... paets...

[Hammer_and_Sickle]

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ok ra na, tn-awa siya

[miss tapya]

hmmm Seryosly, gi consider nako padong ko diha. Though before joke joke ra namo sa akong bestfriend nga watever happens ug d man gali mi manga menyo as much as possible if pwede mag silingan rami or if d man gali kami duha ang ma menyo... at least usa sa amoa. . Daghan factors why i consider the idea. Maybe I am too idealistic or nasobraan og panghunahuna or na "sawi" daw sa pag-ibig..BUt i have fears man gud sad. Mahadlok ko manganak (that is ang pangutana og manganak ba kaha ko.. eheh).... another thing sad, mostly sa akong mga nahibaw an..mga failing relationships man sad (though dli sad ko manhater). another thing kay malooy sad ko sa next generation ... grabe na kainit ang kalibutan ... unsa nlang kaha ilang ma abtan.. well, this some sort of silly thoughts but maybe if it is my fate gyud nga single forever.. dawaton sad. .......