
Originally Posted by
annais

Originally Posted by
giver_bert
just as pornography.. the fundamental difference basically is that there is little chance that the fantasizing person may actually meet one of the pin-up models..
just a clarification, giver_bert, are you saying that viewing pornographic materials (all forms: written or visual) is cheating too bcuz one derives sexual gratification from them?
porno: does not involve direct consent.
cybersex: does.
that's why once caught, it is cheating.
cheating isnt only having a physical relationship, it can be an affair of the heart.. lusting after another is cheating.. i believe in a relationship, you should respect your better half more than that..
i'm not fond of watching those stuff.. i had with friends who used to watch porn and eventually found their minds were in the gutter a lot, so they got rid of it.. i am currently in a relationship with somebody right now, if i watched porn these days and my girlfriend found out, she may not be angry, but she would dissapointed and her feelings would be hurt.. hurting her feelings is worse than her getting angry..
err.. this is just a personal opinion