How do you control jealousy?

[bulado]

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dili man mi permi kuyog bro kay ldr man mi..

long distance rel.?

[Monmyhand]

long distance rel.?

yes sir.. long distance relationship mi..

[Monmyhand]

hayy.. u knw what TS..
we are making our own misery..
thnking too much of our partner,
makabuang jd na..
just find happiness in yourself..
do things you want.. you enjoy..
pasagdi to siya, ky kng nagbinuang jd to,
ull realize whch is cold or hot.. hmm..
respect yourself..
and just trust her, and believe that she loves you too..
ky kng dili pa, shell probably have break up w u..
dugay ra..

oh yes she does love me..
but sadly, i am weak..

and i realize i am not worthy anymore..
i am just so weak..

thank you so much for your encouraging kind words..

[Monmyhand]

TS naa man gyuy mga taw nga naturally friendly gyud, if that's all that you mean. maka spark sad gyud og selos panagsa pag ma close sila. basin panagsa ma over analyze nimo ang iyang actions. maybe she's just trying to be courteous, hospitable, enthusiastic and friendly to other people, pero imong na interpret as flirting. lol.

but for me lang, ako lang huna hunaon pirmi is for as long as wa sila mag flirt2x or secreto2x og labok then i should control myself. pick your battles. you don't have to get jealous sa mga taw nga muduol and maganahan sa imong gf coz she is really attractive, di na malikayan nga naay maganahan pud niya. naibog gud gani ka. but i stick lang sa imong utok that she chose you above the rest, granting love is her biggest motive nga gisugot ka niya. most of all, you can't resist jealousy alone and in a snap of a finger. why don't you try open that up to your gf, hinay hinayi lang og sulti. and pray nga makapugong ka sa imong gibati. maybe you need to start with yourself too, check your self-esteem. coz most jealousies come from unhealthy self-images. hehe.

i am afraid i have lost my battles sis..

thank you so much.. i envy your strength..

it wont be long now..

as a chess player.. i know when a game is lost long before it has actually ended in defeat..

life is just a game of chess..

but unlike a game.. life is just played once.

yes.. it wont be long now.. and i am so scared..

a life lived without love is a tragedy..

and i do not want to live in such!

[ravits]

grab a fork and poke it in the eye

[THE KID]

if i say kung unsay akong selosan, i would sound like i am trying to justify my selfish emotions which is very wrong.

the problem is i just can not help mag selos sometimes..

i am afraid i would lose her.. but the irony is that.. it is the selos that is pushing her away.. when in fact, i love her so much mao insecure ko basin mawala sya nako.

natural rman na ang selos bro.....nakasuway man pud ko ana nga walai angay selosan pero maka feel kag sakit....na selos jud ka...ang imo lang ayaw kaau pada sa imong gibati....pwede nimo i istorya niya nga naselos ka....pero ayaw xa awaya....kai base sa imong gisulti nga tungod sa imong selos na push away xa...natural kai nasakal naman xa nimo...timan i nga wala ka nakatag iya niya....ayaw kahadlok nga mawala xa nimo....part na sa relationship ang break up....naa mai mga butang nga d jud nimo ma control......be mature ayaw pangaway diritso.....relax lang....

[Monmyhand]

natural rman na ang selos bro.....nakasuway man pud ko ana nga walai angay selosan pero maka feel kag sakit....na selos jud ka...ang imo lang ayaw kaau pada sa imong gibati....pwede nimo i istorya niya nga naselos ka....pero ayaw xa awaya....kai base sa imong gisulti nga tungod sa imong selos na push away xa...natural kai nasakal naman xa nimo...timan i nga wala ka nakatag iya niya....ayaw kahadlok nga mawala xa nimo....part na sa relationship ang break up....naa mai mga butang nga d jud nimo ma control......be mature ayaw pangaway diritso.....relax lang....

wala ug dili man ko mangaway bro..
ako man ipaagi ug kidding ako statements..
in the hope nga amiable ang start sa talk..

pero sya man ang mu react..
like a putting a lighted match..
on a pool of gasoline..

[anjerika]

i am afraid i have lost my battles sis..

thank you so much.. i envy your strength..

it wont be long now..

as a chess player.. i know when a game is lost long before it has actually ended in defeat..

life is just a game of chess..

but unlike a game.. life is just played once.

yes.. it wont be long now.. and i am so scared..

a life lived without love is a tragedy..

and i do not want to live in such!

and life, like the game of chess, is controlled by you alone. you may be good at it or not, but chances of victory and defeat is equal. for as long as you still are not in checkmate, naa panay chance. hehe. you move the pieces. you decide which moves to make and even decide how you want to feel. control emotions and not the other way around. sometimes it's better giving up how you feel for the sake of the one you love rather than in the process let yourself give in and lose your love in the end. i'm through with jealousy, but im very quick to anger. something i'm trying hard to control. each one of us has their own battles, mostly personal. and that's the biggest thing we need to improve, coz when we improve ourselves, we too affect our relationships. hehe.

[marqi_20]

for me it depends on situation

[marqi_20]

dapat ikw may mo control sa jealous nimo