Which do you prefer: Marry early or late and why?

[first_choice]

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its nice kung early kay u as a parent can still understand and jam with your kids

nice sad kng late kay u are emotionally, psychologically, and financially mature and stable na.

but for me cguro, this is just applicable to myself ha, i prefer not to marry at all cguro, but dapat naa ko anak, hehe...

[jancemsy]

murag wala nay uso ana

pag Chure oi

[sheka]

early para ma enjoy pa nako akong kids at a young age.. mga mid 20's

[edgeknife]

it would be better to marry early. that's what most of my officemates and friends advices..

[junmar4]

kung kanus-a ka ready.

[Bahalina-boy]

Basta ready na and financially stable

[ej___]

Depende kung asa ka comfortable.

Naay advantages and disadvantages ang duha.

So, choose wisely nalang.

[edgeowns]

Well it also depends if youre in love and if youre willing to have a new load of responsibilities etc.

But on practicality: Its best to be married when youre a bit older and got a job na, if possible, a good job. These days, its not practical, and even stupid if you plan to marry at an early age and youre still dependent on your family. You cant enjoy life plus youre giving new problems to your parents. And worse if you plan to have a kid.

[ej___]

Darn right edge.

So, be responsible nalang in everything. :mrgreen:

Unless, one is stupid enough to be a headache

in the family.

[edgeowns]

^^ Unfortunately, these days, most of the kids dont think they are still dependent to their parents. They want their parents to leave them alone, yet they cant be independent enough to leave. And worst, a lot find themselves having a kid or get married early, and not ready financially or such. When our parents should enjoy a great retirement, some of us give them more mouths to feed, either by babies or bringing the wife/husband at home. If you can contribute as I said, its great, but if majority is from your parents' pockets, its very unfortunate. Its shameful.

I for one am the biggest rebel back when I was younger, I question most of the things my parents do for me, but now I realized they were only doing whats best for me, thats why when I decide to get married, I make sure my parents will spend very minimum cash or if possible, none at all during our wedding day or after.