First Cousin Relationship

[ryoken]

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yeah...hope it's all a dream...i always dreamed that we are free to love..no hindrances...sometimes lami na au e.approach ako mama and tell her everything...pero lisud jd..approachable mn unta ako mama...i can share to her anything except about this...

[I-lab-Iero]

Love is like a plant,
water it always and place sustenance in it always then it will continue on growing,
if you could not cut away the plant at this moment then let it stand there,
do not nurture it. You and you're cousin are far apart, there is a good chance,
try finding someone else to whom you could divert your feelings.

If it is undying, then do not kill it,
but do not grow with it.
try another plant instead love sometimes is created
when most often it do really arrive out of nowhere,
but either, had tendencies to develop into something immortal
if you want it to.
It's always your call, do not let your emotions engulf you.

[baning]

ts personal question lang na... 21st century naman ta karon... did something happen to you and your cousin na and that's one of the reasons why its too difficult to give him up.. hope you wont mind... just curious...

[Saga]

let it play out... 21 and 20... hmm.. daghan pa mahitabo...

but one thing nga dapat likayan.. ma buntis ka.... cousin or dili, dili pa mo andam para ana nga situation...

right now.. no one can stop sa inyoha mga feeling... the more nga ang mga tao mo kontra sa inyoha relationship the more nga mo kusog imoha feeling sa iyaha..its human nature..

[takas bahay]

You know TS...I use to have that kind of extremely intense and passionate feeling that made me fall head over heels over someone...I THOUGHT it was LOVE....and as I matured I came up with the word INFATUATION.

[ryoken]

i'll try to stay away from him...less communications this time...although it hurts so much... i would try...thank you so much I-lab-Iero, your advices helped me reflect.. mahirap talagang ma in love sa kadaghan taw sa kalibutan sa ako cousin pajud ko na inlove...i wonder why?

[baning]

You know TS...I use to have that kind of extremely intense and passionate feeling that made me fall head over heels over someone...I THOUGHT it was LOVE....and as I matured I came up with the word INFATUATION.

i so agree with this... plus 1 million point...

later on in life.. ull realize what is the true meaning of love... love is not just the excitement and the electricity that you feel when you are with each other or when he calls or texts you... you are too young ts... take your time... weigh things out...

[colby]

TS:

Former President Manuel L. Quezon was married to his first cousin Aurora Aragon. They have 4 children. READ THEIR STORY. I'm not sure what you will get from their story but I can't think of any first cousins that end up together.

I wish you were born during their time, maybe pwede pa your situation now. But if we really follow the law, that is not allowed.

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[ryoken]

hapit na nay mahitabo between us but napugngan nako, iya mnsd g.respect ako decision na dili ko....dili sd ko musugot mabuntis oie..d pako ready..hehe

[I-lab-Iero]

i'll try to stay away from him...less communications this time...although it hurts so much... i would try...thank you so much I-lab-Iero, your advices helped me reflect.. mahirap talagang ma in love sa kadaghan taw sa kalibutan sa ako cousin pajud ko na inlove...i wonder why?

Your welcome Sis,
hurtings are just temporary feelings it will just pass by through time,
You needed someone close enough and to whom you could open up
yourself. I think it's the closeness and intimacy that develops
and overshoots the boundaries.