Death in the Family

[mrs507]

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I know some of us here experienced lost when one of his family pass-away.. How do it feels? ano ginawa nyo para mka recover sa pain?..

losing someone who's very dear is really hard and a very painful experience... how to deal w/such loss is another thing to overcome... i know my grandmother doesn't want to leave us yet. her spirit's willing but her body isn't... looking back, i'd rather want her to go than seeing her suffering w/all the needles her body must endure for various tests and medicines that needs to be taken or else she'll suffer even more. i love my grandmother very much and i know she feels the same way too towards me and the rest of my family. honestly, our departed love ones, wants us to move on w/our lives w/o them but it doesn't mean that we have to forget about them. i'm very sure, well, base from my experience of seeing my lola in one of my dreams wherein she said, it gave her and my lolo pain whenever they would see us still depressed of their loss and that they can't move on too... we always include them in our prayers and in everything we do, we offer it to them like they're our inspiration...

[dasher_d]

this also shows nga while naa pay time and chances, do anything you can to let your loved ones know nga you love them. I met so many people who had regrets, kay while naa pa ilang moms, dads, etc, they weren't able to show them, or make them feel that they were loved. Life indeed is short. So never take anyone for granted. Ako, I have all the reasons to hate my mom- grabe ka maldita, paki alamira kaayo, and all those stuff.. pero I make her feel and let her know how much I love her. Corny siguro noh nga mag "i love you" ka sa imo parents everyday? but it's worth it

[lady_blackrose]

my dad was murdered 3 months ago...and his demise was so painful that i even wished i died with him.until now its been really hard for me not to think of the incident but i still have a family left...which i am now focusing than thinking of him. ive made myself preoccupied with work...but everytime i think of him...the things we used to do...his smiles...the way he cracked jokes...it made me cry that i dont want anyone to know about it nor see it. i move in this foreign country hoping that i can forget about it and live a new life. and to overcome it...i refuse to go to places which we always hang out...make myself always busy just to get him off my mind...i interupt every conversation that will bring up his name or his death and if im so full of heataches and agonyi got my diary and i wrote everything in there.

[moz_k2]

My lola died 3 years ago.
Nya wla dayon ko kauli sa iya haya kay naa pa jud contest na apilan.
Then wala jud ko interest sa contest bisan pa 15K to ang prize.
Resulta wla ko kadaog.
I just made it to the last nyt of her wake.
Paboritong apo rba ko ato.

[tracernet_v2]

lost my brother when I was in 1st yr HS (about 11-12 yrs ago) it was a shock kay he was the favorite of my mother, buotan kaau, and he was my buddy...

he was diagnosed first n naa lng daw xa fever by a doctor, after a few weeks naa ni2bo sa iya, nya ngstart n dayon xa sa ubang signs, when we sent him to another doctor he was diagnosed to have last stage of a disease of the blood... dd2 ko murag ng.lagot sa first doctor for his wrong diagnosis, gana kulatahon...

wrote him a poem during his wake, after the burial i placed it behind his picture frame... after a few years stumbled upon it, when I read it I remembered all the time that we had, and it caused so much pain, that's when I realized I missed him so much...

[marivil]

Hello, Good day to all. My Dad died last December 2004. sakit pod kaayo. I petitioned my parents para US so ning-abot sila 4/2004 but then on 12/2004, he suffered a heart attack. That day, I just came home from work, then 1 hour after, gi-attack na siya. I couldnt do anything. Tried calling 911 but when they arrived, too late na. I felt so guilty, until now, . Pero karon, I told myself, I need to forgive myself and to remember that my Dad is in a happier place. I could go on with my story, dugay na ko nangita og kagawasan. Due to this, I looked into myself and realized that due to work, Ive been missing a lot on my family. Namiss nako ang signs sa akong Dad sa months leading to his death. Nakadecide dayon mi sa akong husband to relocate back to the Phil. At least here, a lot of challenges but i will have more time sa akong family. To really listen even though they dont say anything .... also detect any warning signs

[crinkle]

it was tragic when an uncle died the very day his father died. we had to bury two important people in the family... they were good men so we don't worry too much. i'd probably mourn over those people who haven't had good and fulfilling lives... people who're too scared to take on risks, too evil to change for the good and too into mediocrity.

[tallthel]

accept nalng na ug always think na tnan ta mangamatay but ang mka sad lng ky naa ma una lng nato or dli gni kta ma una sa ato family...

[carbrill]

well we all know we can not avoid death... naka realized ra jd ko nga isa sa ako di ganahan, nga dili ma likayan, kay ika ingon sa nimo nga namatay na c someone... dat will be my stressful moment in my life...

hatest situation:
di jd ko ganahan nga ika abot nako sa balay, matinga ra ta nga siga tanan suga sa balay den daghan tao den mao na di ai to naa nay namaty den gihaya na...

or

ako'y maka received sa call nga namatay na c someone...

or

the doctor will say that were facing on a blank wall, theres no assurance that he/she can survive, she/he may live for 6 months...

mao na tingay ni ang pina ka painful... wa ka kibaw asa ang sakit gikan...

[carbrill]

that was 3 years ago,my lola(great grand mother) died, she had a stoke and in coma for months, it's very painful cause u can see that her health deteriorates... u want to do something for her just to save her life but u can't do anything. bisag tiguwang nato cya nakalitan gihapon ko sa iya pagkamatay... di jd nako malimtan nga gi ingnan mi sa doctor sa ER nga she only have 2 days to live only miracle can save her. thank God she stayed with us for 5 months... but still di jd nimo ma readly imo self to accept... pag tan aw gyud nako sa ako lola sa ER na louy na ko nya cge na kog hilak ad2.. i can't imagined to lived my days without her... it was a day before the birthday of my younger sister... we were preparing for her birthday.. den my dad called that my lola died already... wen i heard that, my world stops. it took a minute to sunk in my mind that my lola died... i just missed her stories her food her laughters...