If mgbunal ka sa bata nga nkasala, wer part man pra mgtanda?

[nijazared]

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sa lobot jud...then with a belt...then my father would give me a count as to how many I will get depending on the gravity of the offense...it is okay to spank a child as discipline...ayaw nlng pod ng sukmag or the like...and dapat in a private place ni buhaton dili sa public area...

[Beach_bUm]

Bisan asa nga part basta sakit kay mag tanda gyud na ang bata...... Lisod ni if sigehon ug bunal... Dili makasabot ba nganong gi bunalan sila and if unsay sayop..... Tendency is mu avoid sila doing the 'sala' out of fear and not because kay nakasabot sila nga sayop ilang gibuhat..... murag ma trauma ba.....

[chrisangel]

sa panahon karon grabe na ka hightech mao hasta mga bata hitech nsad...

I mean grabe na kaInfluence sa mg TV, etc...mao mga bata krn bsan unsaon nmog bunal dli patoo...

kung mubunal ka, ayaw palabie ky child abuse sad ka... palodha nlng ug kasab e...ug ayaw katawa...
let him/her realize his/her mistake... Love your child w/o any hesitation...

[chrisangel]

try dad a emong anak sa lugar... or tell him/her na your very lucky to be with me...tan awa ng mga bata oh., nangayo nlng pagkaun ky y gnkanan nya ikaw cge pbuyag,, gnhan ka mosunod ka nla?... somting lyk that....

[irishe]

ako d jud ko mo go anang bunal.. nagdaku man gud ko anang bunal.. and i still have the trauma til now.. d man necessary nang bunal gud kay pwede raman jud na nimu masultian ang bata.. we just have to make them understand and not the bunal thing..

[wire]

Before, I used the martial law twice sa akong mga anak sa kamot or sa lobot, pero I was realized na maski asa nimo silang dapita sa lawas bunalan, dili gihapon na sila magtanda or magmatngon, WHY? kay nasakitan mana sila then maglagot - the more nga maglagot the more nga mogahi kay manimalos mana sila. Did you see nga ang bata magtuman jud sa ilang gusto not just kay ila jud na nga gusto but psychologically speaking palagoton jud ka nila labi na cge bunal, samot!, so by means of that behavior mao na ilang signed language. humok pa gud na sila ug mga kabukogan ug mga muscles ug mga kapanitan - "LOOY KAAU" - Sakit na oi!, I have that kind of behavior before then cge ko "KABUN-OG" sa akong mga ginikanan and I saw myself, not just sa akong mga anak but sa ubang mga bata.

So, karon, when you say magtanda or magmat-ngon ang isa ka bata is that bunal ba ug asa dapita? NO, that's not the correct nga pangutana, (I'm not allowing you to post like this brad but by giving some corrections of some actions that is right, diba?). Maski ang taga-DSWD kung makabasa ani imong post mo-react jud. I suggest, WHY don't you say like this? "Unsay maayong buhaton sa bata nga nakasala arun magmatngon or magtanda, bunalan ba or sulti-an ug ngano man?" - ana bah! NAUNSA!

No offense ha? hehehee peace , migo tang tanan ari...



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[DaGitLuMbA]

sa kamot or sa lobot dapit...

[yanong_banikanhon]

Tungod ani nga thread nakadumdom nuon ko aning istoryaha:

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While a man was polishing his new car, his 5 year old son picked up a stone and scratched lines on the side of the car.

In anger, the man took the child’s hand and hit it many times not realizing he was using a wrench. At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father….. with painful eyes he asked,

‘Dad when will my fingers grow back?’

The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.

Devastated by his own actions…… sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches; the child had written ‘LOVE YOU DAD’.
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Karaan na na nga story pero mao gyud na akong mahinumduman kun suko na ko kaayo kay nagpabadlong akong bata. Inig kahinumdom nako anang istoryaha, mokalma dayon ko.

There are many ways to tell your child nga sayop ilang gibuhat. Spanking/hitting is definitely not one of them.

[uztadzmalek]

lobot pro kami saun miski asa tugpa ang buckle

[valleoliver]

ayaw jud og bunali ang bata, may pa imong kasab-an. mas maka sabot ang bata sa kasaba kay sa bunal.