When your spouse tells you that you're free to make love with another...

[abortretryfail]

it can be just a bait for something... an alibi.. you are about to get screwed big time!

that's one possibility... the other is that your spouse has cheated on you already
and saying that so you too would go sleep with someone and therefore ease your
spouse's guilt

[LAPA]

inamaw man kaayo na oy kung musugot imong spouse makigmake love kag lain.

[gcc4426]

@ts: EXCUSES! maayo kay ta anang rason² woi pra mpanalipdan atong mga sala.

and who the hell would someone allow you to make love with another kung minyo na mo? wtf. would you believe this story? haha

weh, ingna nlng nga you've made this thread for the sake of posting here in istorya. dghan na mo. POSER!

[mochajava]

as in korek ka dyan LAPA...dnt u think tarong na xa nga bana kng i-allow niya iya wyf mkg make love ug lain? bacg naa xa plano nga sumthing...lyk naa na diay xa kabit daan...mao na iya gtagaan permission iya wyf to do that kay para kng masakpan na xa...na xay ika sukmat sa iya wyf...Stupidly clever sad ning banaha dah! asa mn ni xa beh!

[iphreetah]

Huh kakuyaw na gd di sa mga mag-asawa rn to say things nga ing-ana.. I don't consider it cheating mn tngali ky cheating, is any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship by lying, deception whatsoever bya., and often at the expense of others.. But in your case, cya pa gani nagsuggest, hoooh kuyawa!! Buwag na jd cguro mo noh, but not legally lng..Work on ur annulment nlng if ur conscience bothers you.. IMO..

[Tirong-say]

Basta married na gani, forever na gyud unta nga kamo ra gyung duha, kalain pud anang pang-hatag sa lain uy.

[dearlabe]

@ts: EXCUSES! maayo kay ta anang rason² woi pra mpanalipdan atong mga sala.

and who the hell would someone allow you to make love with another kung minyo na mo? wtf. would you believe this story? haha

weh, ingna nlng nga you've made this thread for the sake of posting here in istorya. dghan na mo. POSER!

Sorry Mag OT:

Taym pa, are u getting personal here? Are you accusing me of posting this topic for the sake of merely posting? I mean come on...we know very well that we don't get any cash or at least an honorarium for having the most number of posts. Besides on matters like this,ang topic/issue unta atong hisgutan.

Now if you find this topic irrelevant, you are free to look and react on other topics that matter to you most. Mo react lang ko with this one kay it's not fair for you to accuse me of something (in bold pa) which I am not guilty of. Unfortunately, I don't allow anyone to do that to me. Ok?

[butong101]

OT: im not siding anyone here..
but being a poser or not is none of anyone's business especially if he/she doesn't cause harm to us in anyway..

if someone is being a poser here, particularly this topic, who cares? i mean, its good that she started this thread since for me its something worthy to be talked about. This topic is more deeper than the usual break up stories here in this section..

No offense intended to anyone, lets just continue discussing here - maybe, in the near future it will help us..

just a thought..

[takas bahay]

Well I guess what I'm trying to ask is in marriages where the love is vehemently not there anymore and it has been agreed by both parties that they are free to love another, is it still considered cheating?

In a Christian or particularly Roman Catholic point of view, yes it is still a sin. That is why it is wise for those who want to get married to review the famous Matrimonial Vow:

"In the presence of God and these our friends I take thee to be my husband/wife, promising with Divine assistance to be unto thee a loving and faithful husband/wife so long as we both shall live.
to respect you in your successes and in your failures, to care for you in sickness and in health, to nurture you, and to grow with you throughout the seasons of life"

In short, this is a solemn agreement not only between two consenting human beings but also of the highest entity which is GOD.

[dearlabe]

Sorry Mag OT: Taym pa, are u getting personal here? Are you accusing me of posting this topic for the sake of merely posting? I mean come on...we know very well that we don't get any cash or at least an honorarium for having the most number of posts. Besides on matters like this,
ang topic/issue unta atong hisgutan. Now if you find this topic irrelevant, you are free to look and react on other topics that matter to you most. Mo react lang ko with this one kay it's not fair for you to accuse me of something (in bold pa) which I am not guilty of. Unfortunately, I don't allow anyone to do that to me. Ok?

OT: im not siding anyone here..
but being a poser or not is none of anyone's business especially if he/she doesn't cause harm to us in anyway..

if someone is being a poser here, particularly this topic, who cares? i mean, its good that she started this thread since for me its something worthy to be talked about. This topic is more deeper than the usual break up stories here in this section..

No offense intended to anyone, lets just continue discussing here - maybe, in the near future it will help us..

just a thought..

Or maybe put this in the mature section kung dli ma take sa uban ang topic.