Pls. Advice me!!i dont understand my attitude..will i need a guidance counsel?

[monrose29]

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ka decolores na sa forum hehehe...

isa ra ako ma tambag.. kahibaw naka unsa imong problema so kahibaw sad cguro ka unsay angay buhaton.... pag sugod ra ang lisud ana....

[aldrin89]

miss nagpachck naka sa imong blood pressure? basin taas imong dugo kay dali ra aku ka masuko...

btaw,,, try anger management...

[halcyon_blade]

Guyz... I dont understand myself.. Sobra ko ka MALDITA pero not 2 d fact the mosakit ko og tawo bec. sa ako pagka maldita...I guess, Normal lang tingali ni ako reaction or attitude kon maglagot ka sa osa stuation... Ill give u some of my negative ATTITUDES:

1.} JEALOUS type of person (INSECURE) - i usually get jealous sa ako BF na naa mag ibid2x lain maski sa text lang or watever... Then mosinta dyon ko... motubo dyon ako sungay hangtod mag away mi....

2.} NOT TOO PATIENT- dali rako masinta and mapungot even for a small thing.... Then kon mag away nami sa ako BF, dali raman sad au ko ma melt... Mo sorry dyon ko sa TEXT... Dli pa in person kay LISOD na.. Init pa ulo... Usahay wala au ko psensya bah.. w/c is not good to me..

3.} NAGGER- i usually NAGS at my BF... Daghan au ko YAWYAW... bsta Mkahinaayak ko yaawyaw dugay Homan... W/c is still not GOOD to me..

4.} ARTE/DILI HINAGAD- Dats d no.1 atitude daw nako as PER my BF.. thats accdg. to him.. Arte daw au ko.. Dghan sikot2x... Taas au KILAY... Maldita daw au ako mga MATA... BLah.... Blah... Blah.....

This just proves your a woman, hehehehehe

[May Oropesa]

Sayon ra man na imo issue oi... Simple. Think. Kung ganahan ka nga way laki magdugay nimo, kung ganahan ka permi ka libakon sa mga taw, kung ganahan ka nga wa kay tinuod nga amigo or amiga, na hala! Padayona na imong batasan nga perting parata.

[BackEdge]

Guyz... I dont understand myself.. Sobra ko ka MALDITA pero not 2 d fact the mosakit ko og tawo bec. sa ako pagka maldita...I guess, Normal lang tingali ni ako reaction or attitude kon maglagot ka sa osa stuation... Ill give u some of my negative ATTITUDES:

1.} JEALOUS type of person (INSECURE) - i usually get jealous sa ako BF na naa mag ibid2x lain maski sa text lang or watever... Then mosinta dyon ko... motubo dyon ako sungay hangtod mag away mi....

2.} NOT TOO PATIENT- dali rako masinta and mapungot even for a small thing.... Then kon mag away nami sa ako BF, dali raman sad au ko ma melt... Mo sorry dyon ko sa TEXT... Dli pa in person kay LISOD na.. Init pa ulo... Usahay wala au ko psensya bah.. w/c is not good to me..

3.} NAGGER- i usually NAGS at my BF... Daghan au ko YAWYAW... bsta Mkahinaayak ko yaawyaw dugay Homan... W/c is still not GOOD to me..

4.} ARTE/DILI HINAGAD- Dats d no.1 atitude daw nako as PER my BF.. thats accdg. to him.. Arte daw au ko.. Dghan sikot2x... Taas au KILAY... Maldita daw au ako mga MATA... BLah.... Blah... Blah.....


QUESTION: I was thinking guyz na maybe i need to take a BREAK.. Maybe i need to have a guidance counsel for MYSELF kon unsa jud akoa PROBLEMA y i became different... no.1 concern nko is my insecurity.. Since, i am this kind of PERSOn, mag ask tako nnyo guyz kon naa ba mo IDEA if asa kaha ta mgpa counsel sa mga ingon ani Bah.... FREE na xa? naa BAyad? asa Dpita? have u Tried it? i have heard na usually daw sa mga MADRE na...? is it TRUE? and drecho raka adto dd2? or mgpa schedule pa hahayz.... I need to enlighten my MIND.... i need to have an answer y i am LIKE THIS.... Its nice na naa mo guide and tamBag nako pramka realize ko sa ako mga bati nahimo...... Pls... HelP......

I think you know yourself well coz u know the problem already. I think you should start within yourself, no need for counseling. You can get good advise within your family circle and friends. The problem now if you have one? or they could be that they are the cause of your behaviour now??
Grabeh sad tanan nalang dautan diha nuh,murag impyerno You have grown up to be a nice lady, there are ppl within your circle that is responsible in your up bringing. And your bf appreciated that in you, mau bitaw nanguyab cya nimo maski naa ka apan daghan. My point is you are conscious with financial impact for the help you wanted. You dont have to pay...the best person to help you is yourself and you need to be contented with what you have. Listen to them. Try understanding why..these are just basics.. "to change..if there's a will ..theres a way"


We all need to change for the better in everything that we do...change is exciting! Let's embrace it.
-just my 3 cents.

[idolpunk]

mmmm...it's a matter of choice miss....


always think that happiness is a choice....and control ur self...do not let ur emooo---to control over you...U have your brain..right?.....




Use it..hehehe



Still....its a matter of choice...





astig!!!

[Soul Doctor]

Yes.... Thanksss Sa advise.... Pero Easy to Say but HArd to Do.. Especially sa akong Situation and sa ako Experiences sa ako FAMILY sa past... wala mangud koy FATHER at all .....

This is the cause of your behavior.
Growing up without a father is the hardest thing to deal for a child.
Especially if the mother talk bad about him.
You become an emotional handicap.

You can ask advice at my thread(Ask me any question about life-Sa spirituality and occult channel) if you have questions about your attitude.
I want to educate you about the things involved with your anger and insecurities.
Don't worry free ra ni tanan.

[monrose29]

ma usab ra ka oi kong gusto gyud nimo. ka ingon pa nila changes is the only permanent in this world....

[hizuka007]

@TS, di pud kaha ka tig suyop bai? kay usa pud na sa dahilan..........nah hala tugpa na!

[gumdrop]

pwede mn ka mo ad2 sa kahupayan center sa Sto Rosario... naa cla free counseling if ganahan ka naay kaistorya... nice did2 kay naa jud private room and and tanan kay confidential ra between nimo and sa imo counselor...