need your advice ...plz help me

[desperada]

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simple... he doesn't love nor respect u at all as his wife how much more he's going to give much importance to ur family that he has made it clear that all he cares about is the other girl? Come on, love urself too, don't give him the satisfaction that you can be treated just like that coz u love him... samot d naka respetohon nya k okay raman nimo na sayon sayonon ra ka niya...

when he decided to go for the girl and even bluntly asked for ur help, he stopped being the man that u used to exchanged vows with... so what's the point of holding on to him or asking the girl to leave ur family alone? swerte sila na ang wifey pa mo ask noh?

so please, spare ur child from all ur hubby's crap and learn to live ur life without him... graveh ang trauma nya sa bata ana..mawala pod sya respeto nimo nya ikadako nya..

sis thanks jud kaayo atleast nalambdagan jud ko gamay...ganiha ra ko numb jud...super man jud kasakit...i know over ra kaayo to talk to the girl...u know what prayer ra jud akong gipanangga aning tanan...ok na man unta ko jud few weeks ago and here comes this evil...talking to me as if walay heart iyang gika estorya...kay kesyo worry cya sa iyang health kay mao ni mao na..ako giingnan adto sa imong uyabb estorya ana ana cya nga wala daw kahibaw ang girl unya basin daw ma turn off ang girl nga sick cya...abnormal jud oi

[carlocolme]

men should take responsibilty in what they have gotten their selves into... in other words, this guy should have something cut off and fed to the dogs... there's no use in holding on... it's best to turn around and walk away... why would he fool around when he has a wife and kid? it's utter madness i say... commitment isn't something that can be brushed off while saying "Time to move on to the next girl" it's not right... just leave his sorry rear and start fresh.

[xinevirtucio]

men should take responsibilty in what they have gotten their selves into... in other words, this guy should have something cut off and fed to the dogs... there's no use in holding on... it's best to turn around and walk away... why would he fool around when he has a wife and kid? it's utter madness i say... commitment isn't something that can be brushed off while saying "Time to move on to the next girl" it's not right... just leave his sorry rear and start fresh.

sis, sensya-i lang tuno ani...makahinumdom mn xa sa iyang sakit nga kaagi sa imohang sitwasyon....mahug mn gud nga nakaagi xa ana imo sitwasyon ron...di lang to minyo-minyo...uyab pa cla..pero pareho ra ug nahitabo sa nahitabo nimo ron..hehehe....

yaw lang ka offend sa tuno ani niya...kai..maglagot jd xag mga laki na ingana...heheh

[desperada]

ok ra sis..thank u jud ninyo tanan...dili man sad ta ka tarong ug calls ani oi..naay ka huot sa dughan..

[Mugi17]

Sus, kagrabe sad sa bana oy... why did u end up on a guy like him!?!?!?
ikaw pa nun iyang suguon adto sa girl!?
What kind of a guy could think of something like that!?!?
Wala ni siya problem psychologically?
Watapak... kinsa gud na siya!?!?!
Baga ju siya fes MRS TS.. Or MS TS...

[Meebo]

if your concern is to save your marriage. you can start by leaving your husband. he is not worth it. you deserve so much more. ayaw pagdepend niya. dont let your world or your baby's world around him. ana ra gani ka dali para sa iya to let go.. you dont need him to save your family. ma konsensya unta na imong bana oi...

[desperada]

i dont know oi..ako nalang baya na cyang gi ampo...ang tanan nga kasakit...mao bitaw sad na nga gusto ko makig storya sa girl not as wife but as a mother...kay lisod ayo akong sitution minyo ko nga single mom na una nani...bitaw pud just last month ok pa kaayo mo then all of the sudden ning kalit lang cya ug ing ani...pero ing ani pa jud ang klase sa atake niya nko..mao nang sakitan ko...mao wala nalang ko nag huna2x anang pride ug ego...pero believe me i also considered in mind to let go of him kay ako nalang jud ang mura ug boang naningkamot...pero when it comes to the baby diha ko mura ug ma weak napud...maong labad jud kaayo...

[blueangel_88]

nakatulo jud akong luha ug nagsakit akong dughan basa ane.. kalami ba jud bale-balehon ug sagpa nang imo bana sis oi, baga jud kaayo cyag nawong ay .. i know how painful it is on your part sis but to win him back? yaw na lang oi.. wa naman nay respeto lakiha to think nga nagpatabang pa nimu para sa iyang girl? hala.. pag chur xa oi.. focus na lang jud sa bb nimu sis, pasagdie na imo bana..

[desperada]

mao lagi sis,dili nko ma explain ang klase sa sakit nga akong nafeel kron...grabe kaayo cya...kung ibutang man nato naay koy pagkuwang isip asawa its because iam just human....pero dili unta ing ani oi..mag storya mi magpa as if lang taw ko na kaya nko nga ok ra kaayo nko kay kung mo freak out ko sa iyang atubangan alkanse man japon..bisan asa ko nga angle mo tan aw alkanse lang jud ko

[tsunami]

@desperada

Usahay ra ba kaning ginagmay nga pagkukulang sa asawa ang rason ngano ang bana mangita ug lain. Since your marriage is still valid, fight for it. Let's say, na kanang imong bana karon nasaag na ug dalan. Ing ana man gyud na ka powerful ang devil. Mas maayo kung mailhan nimo ang girl, para makahibaw sad siya sa tinuod. Kay mahug ra sad na biktima siya sa imo bana kay wala man siya kabalo sa tinuod. Once makabalo ang girl unya magpadayon gihapon sila sa ilang kaboang, sultii ang girl na imo sila ikiha, ipaagi nimo ug legal.

Before anang mga legal ways, i-try kuno ug istorya imo bana kanang seryoso na istorya. Set a date, kanang peaceful ang environment, kanang dili mo ma disturb.
********* siya kung unsa man gyud ang nahitabo sa inyoha marriage ron?
Nganong na ing ani naman ni? kinahanglan honest mong duha sa inyo mga tubag
Unsay mga kulang nimo/ninyo?
Kasagaran magsugod man na sa gagmay na sipyat, just be open-minded sa iya mga reason.
Share your memories kadto uyab pa mo, kadto mga sweet days ninyo. Kadto time sa inyo wedding, time nga nagka baby namo...

Naa ra gyud siguro gamay na sipyat ani mao nag ing ana na siya ka ron.
For me, don't give up! It's too early to give up. Your husband, the man you married years ago, simply LOST his WAY. Consider it a big challenge for you, as his wife, to keep and lead him back to the right path.

If there's a will, there's a way. Just don't give up!
Unsaon nalang kung mo surrender lang ka dayon.

God bless...