Short-term courtship --->won't last long???

[bbnescia]

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mura man sad nag-ni ice dayun, wala pa gne gbutang sa ref..haha...
magkasinabot kaya??, well, kaila cguro mu daan?

dili man mi kaila daan.kaila mi sa chat ra,kay nilarga man ko.pag abot nako after three days nagkita mi pagka ugma uyab nami.ehehehehe nya after 4months kay engaged nami wa pay tuig kay gikasal nami nya naa nami anak ehehehhee, mura jd mig fastforward.wa man mi problema sa akong bana kay mura naman mi kaila daan,way pretentions ug way pa demure effect kato uyab pa mi.kada pamisita ani sa akong bana sa amoa kay magtagay man mi nya karaoke.karon nga nag ipon na mi kay tagay gihapon pero d na mi maghubog kay naa naman mi anak. maghasol unya patay mi ani.lipong lipong jd ang gawas.

[vahnhelsing]

mga experyensyado oh.... weee kumbate....

[beyee]

mga experyensyado oh.... weee kumbate....

OT: ang pinaka expert wala jud ni react hmmmm....

[vahnhelsing]

OT: ang pinaka expert wala jud ni react hmmmm....

mana kog react uy... d ko nahan anang court na kad**** ra.. mas gusto ko sobra pa sa 3 months, maybe a year pa gani... maybe i just wanna know her ug maayo including the people around her, friends and family... everything... same way nga gusto ko makaila siya ug au nako... its like adventure to me... nah, lahi lang jud ngali ko.. wa sad ko nagdali nga sugton dayon...
wanna be sure... whenever i court a woman i'd always ask myself if she could be the woman i'm going to spend a lifetime with.... this way i'll be cautious and i won't rush to anything unless im sure...
lisod nag masipyat.... moagas ang luha nga daw sapa, magapaabot na lamang unya ta sa panahon nga mohunob ang luha tungod sa tumang pagmahay... hehehe

[beyee]

nya if paubotan ka og dugay d pod ka magbugotbot? hehehe... so meantime, date sa mo?

in my case, courtship should entail a lot of dates not only wid one person ra.. dapat mingle jud wid different people para ul be exposed to different personalities to avoid any infidelities kay napol-an naman ka being single

[vahnhelsing]

mabagotbot ug wala diay padulngan ang pagcourt....
sakto ka maayo makigdate ug lain lain pra mas daghan ang kapilian. weeee.... btaws...
seldom most guys, mocourt ug naa jud spark... that way dako ang percentage nga sugton.... nindot jud dli dali dali.on pero dapat wala moy e.hide sa usag usa..

[tuWaD!!!]

di pud guro tanan oi

[unsay_ngalan_nimo]

maayo na wlaay courtship menyo diretdo kay dili kaayo gastos... magdate date gastos kaayo plete palang daan ug kaon...


bitaw... its not really how long or short the courtship was that can gauge relationship... ako lolo ug lola kay wa gani agi uyab-uyab... namanhikan man dayon ako lolo... abot man sad 50 years...

depende ra na unsa ninyo pagdala sa inyo relationship..

[isprikitiki]

long courtship doenst mean long lasting relationship. ako uyab gleh kron kay wa sad nanguyab nko. nagkaila mi, unya nag text2, jam2, kuyog2, char2 daun. hehee. unya nagka uyab mi. he told me he liked me, and he asked me if i felt the same way. hahaha. simple rjud kaau. hehehe. i think it's in the getting to know part na mkapadugay sa relationship. hehehe. love is not in the courtship sad jud bya. heehe. dpnde rna sa manag uyab uie. ehehe. so far, pinaka dugay nani nko rn, sa ako uyab sad. tuig kapin pami pero pinaka dugay na twn ni namu so far. hehehe

[.bullet.]

short or long term courtship could end up in short term relationships. the key is not in the length of the courtship period but on how two people put effort and commitment in their relationship. the very reason why girls/females are adviced to prolong courtship is to be sure about the guy's intentions. but if you're sure that you've got a keeper, then why let him wait for long? men in general are impatient and once we come to a point where we have already given our all out and our best yet get nothing or even the slightest bit of it, hinay2 na kawala ang pasensya, even good guys are impatient. there are a lot of persevering guys out there who are more than willing to wait but deep inside they are dying to be in a relationship especially if they really like the girl. for guys, it's either a yes or a no. so for girls out there, here's a tip from a male's POV. if you're sure about your feelings and your suitor's intentions, go for it. all you need to know before jumping into a relationship is your man's character, his intentions, and that if he's worth the risk. many great relationships started from very short period of courtship. it all boils down to how the relationship is being worked and how committed two people are. making a relationship work is not as hard as it seems, even if it took a very short period of courtship.