Clingy, Manipulative and a Nagger Boyfriend: What to do?

[aridoasis]

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Mao nay tawag nga paranoid-possessive.

Kailangan ra jud na nimu sturyaan ug tarong.

Tell him that you're not a dog nga dapat tanan isulti sundon, but you're like a dog: loyal to the one you're with. Diba nosebleed na.

Bitaw, sa tinuoray, like most of the advice given here, storya-i lang na ninyu ug tarong. Kung gahi ug ulo, alam mo na ang gagawin. XD

[yvonne6]

k ra nako ang possessive...ma manage rana. dili baya perfect tanan taw. kaysa naman di lagi possessive kay di sad gusto nga did an sila sa ilang gusto. usually mga ingon ani nga type na lalaki kana gyud serious sa relasyon. di ta ka blame, look around us, kinsay wala nagbuwag ninyo diha?? sus, grabe na ang kalibutan. ang tinuhuan ni lola, gilubong na. ang mahimo sa lalaki karon, labaw pang mahimo sa mga babay. korek girls

[chad_tukes]

NO. he's not a clingy and needy guy. i'm sorry but i'm siding with him because as a guy, i understand him more than you do.

he's not manipulating you; he's just being paranoid. you have to cater to his needs and be sensitive to his emotions. that's the only way to "stop" him from doing what he's doing.

[technowar]

Sakto si sir hobie, ma'am. Waiting is the last thing in our list Anyways ma'am, do you think you'll be happy if mo stick ka sa imo decision? Do you think he'll change if tagaan nimo siya ug last chance?

[hobie]

@technowar, yes.

Guys are very particular with time kasi.

[maitoots]

tiguwang ni imo bf sis? ka paranoid ba ani nya uy. yaw nana tagai lain chance sis uy, kay trust me he will do it again. you are young ang beautiful and free, enjoy all these things and don't let anybody tell you what to do esp kng bf lang kay even if magminyo na mo dapat ma retain ghapon nmo ang imong individuality, dapat you can still go out with friends and family, saonz nlang kng karn pa lang gni dli nka hapit mkalakaw ug ikaw lang? nya dah.. kepoy na nga lalaki nga magbalik balik sa issue uy, nya remember pd nga kepoy kaau na lalaki nga insecure. bsan unsa lang ang ipasangil unya ana, i ma settle ni karn unsaonz nlang moro or the day after nga gsto nsad ka molakaw, balik nsad mo ani. ingna cya nga cge dli nlang ka molakaw, kamang nlang ka
peace!

[the Messenger]

Well, i guess i'll just have to give him the very last chance. Ako naman pud siyang gi tagaan ug contrata.. hehe.. na if mausab pa gihapon, wa nay mahayay..

Good luck, TS.

[emjee17]

He's just insecure sis. And, guys (some if not most) are very strict with time. If for example 7pm ang sabot, it should be 7pm. 15 minutes earlier or late only. That's all to it

Konti lambing nalang sis and just a tip. Guys need to be reminded always that we are loved

> If siya man lageh ma dugay okay ra nako. Awh, luod gamaii pero not to the point nga mu nag nako. =(

Murag transaction. hehe.. punctuality? Siguro part, pero way hangyo? i mean, dili diay mo pwede ka consider most especially if parties?


k ra nako ang possessive...ma manage rana. dili baya perfect tanan taw. kaysa naman di lagi possessive kay di sad gusto nga did an sila sa ilang gusto. usually mga ingon ani nga type na lalaki kana gyud serious sa relasyon. di ta ka blame, look around us, kinsay wala nagbuwag ninyo diha?? sus, grabe na ang kalibutan. ang tinuhuan ni lola, gilubong na. ang mahimo sa lalaki karon, labaw pang mahimo sa mga babay. korek girls

> Sorry, wala ko kasabot.


NO. he's not a clingy and needy guy. i'm sorry but i'm siding with him because as a guy, i understand him more than you do.

he's not manipulating you; he's just being paranoid. you have to cater to his needs and be sensitive to his emotions. that's the only way to "stop" him from doing what he's doing.

> no, it's okay. I need your opinions man pud so no need to apologize.
Cater to his needs? I think buhat man pud siguro nako tanan, I mean almost everything.Why should he be paranoid? He knows I'm not seeing someone other than him and he sees and feels how i really love him.. So, why ingon ana man gihapun siya? Maka question kos akong kaugalingon nga "kuwang pa ba ang akong gipakita?? or nanubra na pud?"


Sakto si sir hobie, ma'am. Waiting is the last thing in our list Anyways ma'am, do you think you'll be happy if mo stick ka sa imo decision? Do you think he'll change if tagaan nimo siya ug last chance?

> Waa! Di jud diay mu madag hangyo?? Kamu man lageh if kuyog na mos inyung uyab or someone special kay kung mada pag extend mu extend jud.. hmm?

Right now, I'm contented but i can't say i'm happy. I mean, nausab ko ba, most especially my feelings tpward him, nakwaan jud. Pero, i'm observing him. Anyway, last chance naman lang jud ni.


tiguwang ni imo bf sis? ka paranoid ba ani nya uy. yaw nana tagai lain chance sis uy, kay trust me he will do it again. you are young ang beautiful and free, enjoy all these things and don't let anybody tell you what to do esp kng bf lang kay even if magminyo na mo dapat ma retain ghapon nmo ang imong individuality, dapat you can still go out with friends and family, saonz nlang kng karn pa lang gni dli nka hapit mkalakaw ug ikaw lang? nya dah.. kepoy na nga lalaki nga magbalik balik sa issue uy, nya remember pd nga kepoy kaau na lalaki nga insecure. bsan unsa lang ang ipasangil unya ana, i ma settle ni karn unsaonz nlang moro or the day after nga gsto nsad ka molakaw, balik nsad mo ani. ingna cya nga cge dli nlang ka molakaw, kamang nlang ka

> haha! sakto sad ka, kamang nalang jud ko ani. as what i've said, if mausab pa gihapon siya kay kahibaw naman jud siya unsay mahitabo kay ako naman siyang gi kontrata daan before ko nisugot ug hatag niya ug last chance.. And, he's 21 - 4 years older than me.
peace!

[technowar]

Kamu man lageh if kuyog na mos inyung uyab or someone special kay kung mada pag extend mu extend jud.. hmm?

Regarding ani ma'am, unsa imo pasabot? Ma'am, don't give deadlines. Just tell him what you hate about his attitude. Then if tarong siya, eventually he'll do something about it para mo work inyo relationship. Bati kaayo ng ikaw nalang permi molihok oi.

[emjee17]

Regarding ani ma'am, unsa imo pasabot? Ma'am, don't give deadlines. Just tell him what you hate about his attitude. Then if tarong siya, eventually he'll do something about it para mo work inyo relationship. Bati kaayo ng ikaw nalang permi molihok oi.

What i mean is if kuyog namus inyung special someone or someone you like kay di man jud kalikayan nga dali ra kaayu mudagan ang oras. If pwede pang magkuyog or mu extend kay suliton jud ang time.
Same as with me. i was with my dear friends and di kalikayan nga madugay ko for like 30minutes sa expected nga time nga mu uli ko.

What you mean deadlines?

I already told him about sa iyang pagka possessive ug sa uban pa niyang batasan nga wa na judko kauyon. Mao jud, bati jud nga ako nalang pirmi. =(