Is an 8 year relationship a healthy relationship?

[candy_ytal]

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I'm in a 6years and padulong 7 na this year...and it ain't easy being in this long term relationship....a lot of times we almost decided to go on separate ways, but still we love each other man...so, 'till now kami gihapon...What I learned from this long term relationship is to stay cool...ayaw hunahunaa na uyab mo...kungdi eenjoy lang ninyo ang pagkalovers ug pagkafriends...I tend to forget the marriage side lang sa...kumbaga, I lay all my plans to the LORD...I'm guarding my heart...and prepare yourself for the worse...learn to love yourself more...if time comes na dili jud kamo, then get yourself ready for the worse scenarios.. above all...Pray...As for GOD, His ways are perfect! Psalm 18:30.

[candy_ytal]

How to determine if your relationship is healthy Well...its pretty hard to determine...sa physical aspect gali lisod idetermine samot najud sa emotional aspect...cool lang gud...enjoy the moments but don't forget to guard your heart....ibalance lang gud tanan....dili pud kaayo magpadala jud ka sa ta-ma!;D

[netcommando]

8 yrs w/o any plan of settling down? grabe noh? what's the problem?
financial stability?
any other plans?
masters? doctorate?
any personal wants not yet achieved?
hate the knot? dont want children?

[julz23]

depende sa sabot ninyong duha...hehehe

[xinevirtucio]

why are questioning if it is healthy or not?are you starting to doubt your relationship?

i appreciate people who are in a long term relationship....i wonder how they made it work...

if d pa xa ready den mamugos ka....imagine maunsa imong marriage life....

kung magminyo mo...mularga ka..how sure are u nga di mo ma-attract ug lain taw?

depende ra jud cguro na ninyong duha....

ayaw lang cguro huna hunaa inyo kadugyan...enjoy lang sa inyong panagkuyog..kai u will never know what will happen next

[jMj]

depende oi on how you handle your relationship well. If 8 yrs mo still full of love with each other, sobra pa na sa healthy but if wa na mo magkasinabot..then talk a bout it..then if dili na jud mag work ..let go nah..thats if DLI NA NIYO LOVE ANG USAG USA. huna.hunaa sa daw if love paba nimo sya .and if u think love paba kaha ka nya.

[yvonne6]

depende kung unsay description sa usa ka taw sa healthy. kung imong huna hunaon, naa sad bayay point ang taw nga di pa mag minyo kung dipa ready. ang marriage, mao pa lang ang beginning. nahan ka mag minyo nga dili paka andam? mura kag nag hilo ana. lisud kaau ang panahon karon, malain na ang priority ninyo kung mag minyo namo. lahi ra kaau sa manag uyab pa lang mo nga ang pag date ra ang inyong problema. talk to ur man....balanseha ang iyang reason y dipa siya nahan mag minyo. if u see nga reasonable siya, give him time, ana ka, o sige, tigum ta 2 more years, then mag minyo nata, ug d gihapon siya, then probably, di gyud siya ganahan, then move on

[JRL]

you should open it up to your partner kung interesado ba sya makigminyo nimo. kung kever ra sya or mag-unya2x na...better yet try to ask for time and space para marealize ninyo both nga need ba jud ninyong duha nga magpart ways or to tie knots.

[miss tapya]

it really depends. depende ra openness sa duha ka party cguro.

naa koy cousin, nagpakasal sila this month lang... they been together gf/bf thingy for couple of years, say second year highschool pa sila nag uyab..murag 15 years kapin nasad. Wala pa sad ko ka pangutana how they manage nga walay buhiay. since akong cousin seaman, daghan sad itupo itupo nga girl sa iyaha. ....

[SEED OF LIBER]

without any plan of settling down?..............guys i need ure wordsssss...ty!

lol ... my friend nearby scored 15 years til now ( ala pa nag minyo )
ty.