
Originally Posted by
laagan_si_organizer
let me share a little bit of my experience with you...
Five years ago, I was just that typical college stud. I was already open about my sexual orientation. By then, I met a guy. I didn't go ga-ga for him, nor went head over heels. For me, he was just an plain, normal person... until such time he courted me. The courtship ran for over 3 months when I finally decided to take it to a different level, considering his sincerity and all. Within the 3 months course of dating, he never dated anyone, even if I encourage him to do so. Instead, he introduced me to his circle of friends, then to his cousins, then to his direct family. It was definitely a fairytale come true. Everything was normal for us, even people would criticize such relationship. We never fail to compliment and to remind each other about our love... until a time came when he has to leave for the US. He told me about it, but wanted to keep the relationship. I just don't think long-distance relationship would work for me, so I took a deep breath and ended the relationship. He wanted to keep it going, but I just gave up. So, when I finally decided to break up with him... it was a total break up. Communication ended and constant meetings were gone. I just had to because I can't hold on to those memories, longing for him to come back when I know he's gonna be there for the rest of his life. Just this year, we met accidentally in a mall. He treated me out, and reminisced about our fond memories. I found out he was already married, but unhappy about it. He just married her because he got her pregnant. He actually wanted to have me back, but I said no. When wanting for an explanation, I just said I can't deal with that kind of thing.
It was a painful stuff, I swear... but I was able to cope up with it. And now, even if I'm single, I'm happy with how things are going with me. I never lose my hope in finding that kind of guy. After all, I was already there!