How Did You Get Out Of A Bad Relationship?

[ahyango]

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hi ahyango;

whew grabehhhh jud nimo ka dedicated bai...any further plans? i mean lisud pud ana imo kahimtang oi..

wa na gyud ko kasabot bai.. but i told her already na naka decide nako.. na if she does it again.. ako na gyud siya buwagan even if love pa nako siya.. kay i cant be with someone who keeps on lying and who keeps on deceiving me.. she knows na ma hurt ko if iya na buhaton and if she will still continue to do it that means ganahan siya masakitan ko and dili pd na pwede.. maluoy man ko kng mag buwag mi gud kay magpaka luoy sad ba.. atot..

HOW DO I GET OUT OF THIS?!?!?? hhahahahah!

[gigglesflip]

Hi, angay ka pareson sako sister..hehehe... Martyr as in to the point nga i.ignore nalang namo sya.. heres the story.. ako sis naa sya bf for over 2 years na but di kau namo feel ang guy kay murag y batasan ba, di gani kamao mo good evening and di sad sya gwapo pero hangin kau mangistorya, di baya bati ug nawng ako sis (hehehe y panghambog).. this started when her friend told her that she saw her bf in ayala with another girl but she did not believe on what her friend said until me and my other sister saw him with another girl in the same mall. (that girl happen to be his EX) we told her and everything but she still wasn't convince on what we said.. she still communicate with him but the guy dili na movisit nya kay di man jud namo tagdon.. until one day she got a text message from the sis of her BF telling her that the other girl is preggy courtesy by her BF.. Can you imagine that? you dont want to believe this, until now my sis and the guy still communicate but if i ask her if their still together she told me not anymore but i dont believe so..as in super martyr jud..i told her to move on and get on with her life.. his not the only guy in this world.. she deserve someone better jud kay in the whole relationship i never heard my sister dating with another guy nor entertain another suitor as in faithful kau sya and then in return in ani i baws sa laki nya.. h*ll yeah!!! as in naglagot jud ko taman kay looy au ako sis..

Even myself had a bad experience in my past with my ex BF as well but i know how to handle things.. im not that kinda MARTYR..I had a boyfriend for 5 years that i THOUGHT was faithful to me.. his the type of guy that would do everything and anything for me.. our relation for the entire 5 years was good as i thought until one afternoon i texted him coz i had really bad headache so we went to one of the pharmacy close to where i live.. when we get to the pharmacy i notice he wasn't in his normal self i mean he wasn't comfortable then in my other side there were girls that was smiling at him and pointing to another girl.. so i was like whats going on here..i feel like confronting him right then but i don't want to be rude so instead of buying my medicine i walked out the pharmacy and went back to my house then he ran up to me and he said he will explain.. to cut the story short he told me that he had a one night stand with that girl when they had party in there school and they all got drunk and the girl want to go with him soo he did blah blah blah.. at that point i had no hesitation, i decided to broke up with him right there.. its was painful but i have to face it that's life. . you'll never learn until you experience it yourself.. he was begging me to give him another chance, that he was a fool doing that to me and that he will have suicide and everything.. i wasn't convinced.. in my own, giving him another chance is like giving him a chance to do it over again.. so when its gonna end? once is enough proof for me to say that he wasn't honest to our relationship. " you dont value the thing until you lost it"., it took me over a Year before i was ready to have another relationship again.. i met my hubby. then i feel like he is the right one for me (i finally found someone) hehehe so after 1 year and 8 months of our relationship we decided to get married and now happily living together with our 3 year old daughter, we have very peaceful relationship,no arguments or whatsoever... NOW i say GOD IS SO GOOD.. this is the guy i DESERVE to have.. the love and life i DESERVE..

[ahyango]

introduce me to your sister na lang.. hehehehe!

ako i dont know what to do.. i want to break up na ambot.. tarong biya ko niya ah...

[gigglesflip]

sure bah, my sis only 19 paman.. hehehe

[jabez_rmc]

thanks for the sharing giglesflip...hmmm ahyango maybe giglesflip could give you some hints....

[January]

up for a nice thread

[beyee]

Here’s a key lesson: I’ve learned that without ending a bad relationship, there won’t be space for a good relationship to begin in your life.

--- as I read this, surprisingly it had me into tears hehehe... I saw myself in Bo's wifey who had suffered a sick-cycle bad relationship for four years with an unfaithful bf... As I have searched myself for months now, I've realized that I stood by him for the wr0ng reasons. I was too insecure of myself that I was too afraid that no one would love me for what I really am if I break up with him. So I let him hurt me with his infidelity. Now, I'm lucky that I'm totally free since he broke up with me for good and gradually I have come to terms with my self-esteem and my relationships with my family and friends. The break-up may crushed my spirits to fall inlove again with someone new but it has made me gained back my self-esteem and finally knew my self-worth...

Thanks so much TS for this one... what a great way to start the new week with a smile

[maitoots]

up ta ani for a very nice and true story.. thanks TS

[Arshen]

simple....move and never come back...